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If you ever had a kid put on him accutane immediately

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1 hour ago, JudgmentPuzzleheaded said:

I didn't take accutane when I was young because there are worries it can stunt height. Acne scars are no fun but neither is being a short man. 

It is very small chance to occur. Also if its girl no need to worry they can be small.

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22 hours ago, harmlessboy1441 said:

I don't know if accutane affects the most important growth timeframe (14-18 or whatever) but I took two 40mg courses at 19-21 or something and I was 6'1 all the way. Only thing it did for me was shrink up my oil/pores within days, well plus it made my hair thinner but that's cool because my hair is like a forest it's thick so it was like a natural thinner I didn't need a salon lol.

I don't think there's anything worse than facial scars. Being short, risks here or there, no problem imo. My face burned like a volcano pit all day today from like noon to 5pm. It's part of my side effects for whatever reason goes haywire through the day. Anyone want that for the rest of their life + appearance, no way.

I think it's easy to be single minded about the issue we are dealing with. I know that men that are balding and short also have hugely similar psychological issues to acne scar sufferers. I agree with you, I feel acne scars are worse, but I admit I'm also biased because I don't suffer from those other issues, but suffer from scars. 

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12 hours ago, JudgmentPuzzleheaded said:

I think it's easy to be single minded about the issue we are dealing with. I know that men that are balding and short also have hugely similar psychological issues to acne scar sufferers. I agree with you, I feel acne scars are worse, but I admit I'm also biased because I don't suffer from those other issues, but suffer from scars. 

I think what gets girls attention is face, height is coming 2nd place (if he is not extremely small), balding is 3rd, penis lenght is 4th(you can tie with 3rd) and Personality is 5 woman dont give a fuck about personality.

11 hours ago, harmlessboy1441 said:

That's true but I'm a pretty tough person and acne scars are debilitating. I can't think of any other thing that are as debilitating as this or that society is practically unforgiving. They would not look at balding, shortness, or even a physical disability like losing a leg anywhere close to acne scars.

All day today my scars hurt so badly, burned and turned my texture blotchy. Doctors have no clue seriously. They prescribed something it made it worse 3 months ago I think it pigmented a little. Not trying to be gross just saying it's nearly impossible to function especially if you have worse scars than mine. I would rather have most other things than this.

But I keep struggling on... How are you guys doing generally?

i struggle a lot too and if someone says something about my skin my days are ruined, self esteem drops 0.

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11 hours ago, can i get a new life please said:

I think what gets girls attention is face, height is coming 2nd place (if he is not extremely small), balding is 3rd, penis lenght is 4th(you can tie with 3rd) and Personality is 5 woman dont give a fuck about personality.

i struggle a lot too and if someone says something about my skin my days are ruined, self esteem drops 0.

 

2 hours ago, harmlessboy1441 said:

I know what you mean exactly, and it does to me too and some days are much worse than others, but we gotta have thick skin, no pun, because only we can look out for us.

 

I dated some good looking girls I can tell you it's money/success and humor or confidence is pretty at the top. Face, body and the other things are less important but still important especially if it's extremely different.

It's face>r*(censored)*ce>height>age>social status>d*ck size>balding>frame(broad shoulder, slim waist genetics)>hand/wrist size>muscle mass>eyecolour>haircolour>money>personality. 

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4 hours ago, JudgmentPuzzleheaded said:

It's face>r*(censored)*ce>height>age>social status>d*ck size>balding>frame(broad shoulder, slim waist genetics)>hand/wrist size>muscle mass>eyecolour>haircolour>money>personality. 

you are so wrong

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It's a good thing he's wrong? I've never heard a woman talk about hand/wrist size, and everything else is out of order or less important than guys think.

Height is less important than guys think if you're taller than 5'6. I'm a realist about scars. I understand the struggle but let's not get neurotic over traits that no one cares about.

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17 hours ago, JudgmentPuzzleheaded said:

 

It's face>r*(censored)*ce>height>age>social status>d*ck size>balding>frame(broad shoulder, slim waist genetics)>hand/wrist size>muscle mass>eyecolour>haircolour>money>personality. 

Not all boys and girls are as superficial as this. Not to mention adults.

If things don't happen it's usually the personality, not the scars or the other points on the list.

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1 hour ago, Scarredfacee said:

Not all boys and girls are as superficial as this. Not to mention adults.

If things don't happen it's usually the personality, not the scars or the other points on the list.

Lol. Whatever helps you sleep at night buddy.

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6 minutes ago, NagarNikku_ said:

Lol. Whatever helps you sleep at night buddy.

Lol I don't sleep alone 'buddy' ;) I am speaking with best intentions. Work on your personality because it is either the lack of personality or just being superficial yourself, looking for the superficial  things in girls that are the problem. It's not the scars.

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13 minutes ago, Scarredfacee said:

Lol I don't sleep alone 'buddy' ;) I am speaking with best intentions. Work on your personality because it is either the lack of personality or just being superficial yourself, looking for the superficial  things in girls that are the problem. It's not the scars.

I bet you the guys on this site have a lot more problems than the girls with dating. Guys can't have ANY significant flaws or they are doomed. 

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12 minutes ago, JudgmentPuzzleheaded said:

I bet you the guys on this site have a lot more problems than the girls with dating. Guys can't have ANY significant flaws or they are doomed. 

It's not true. Quite the opposite. Girls get more scrutinised and judged on looks. Guys can get away with scars and everything if they are real men. 

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2 minutes ago, JudgmentPuzzleheaded said:

:smileys_n_people_24::smileys_n_people_24: not sure what planet you are living on. 

Hardly anyone would disagree with me. Dude, you are dating not a skin, not a face, not a body, but a person. But if you think guys are doomed for having skin flaws, then you are doomed indeed.

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56 minutes ago, Scarredfacee said:

It's not true. Quite the opposite. Girls get more scrutinised and judged on looks. Guys can get away with scars and everything if they are real men. 

Hahaa you a funny guy, girl can be super ugly but still get a date but men have to be top %20 tier to get a date its a fact.

46 minutes ago, Scarredfacee said:

Hardly anyone would disagree with me. Dude, you are dating not a skin, not a face, not a body, but a person. But if you think guys are doomed for having skin flaws, then you are doomed indeed.

Personality dont matter, in fact if you are super good person to her then you will be cucked in future. Personality dont matter stop looking at a world from pink glasses, look at your enviroment important thing is %90 looks. 

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10 minutes ago, can i get a new life please said:

Hahaa you a funny guy, girl can be super ugly but still get a date but men have to be top %20 tier to get a date its a fact.

Personality dont matter, in fact if you are a super good person to her you will be cucked %100. Personality dont matter stop looking at a world from pink glasses, look at your enviroment important thing is %90 looks. 

Ahahaha. Well, I tried..

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1 hour ago, can i get a new life please said:

Hahaa you a funny guy, girl can be super ugly but still get a date but men have to be top %20 tier to get a date its a fact.

Personality dont matter, in fact if you are super good person to her then you will be cucked in future. Personality dont matter stop looking at a world from pink glasses, look at your enviroment important thing is %90 looks. 

I bet you look at world through your smartphone sitting in your bedroom. 
 

so others 80% will be alone till their death? 
 

How all of those fat short balding blokes get kids and wives? Personality is not about kindness. It’s about bravery, logic, actions, confidence. Being cool is enough. I knew a feller who might be the ugliest man ever. At 20 yo he was like 52. He was married three times, and judging by his personality he most likely has a decent life right now. I know few married guys with acne scars as well. Guys need actions and success. Prettiness is just a good bonus. Girls who are looking for a handsome guys only are teenagers mostly. 

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