Sometimes I feel insecure when being with girl, I always think will they don't like me just because of my scar. Will the scar give me a negative image to other people. I know it is very hard to make scars vanished,but I am trying different methods to improve them. Like tca cross and derma rolling. I hope someday there will be new tech that can cure scars, so that our boys and girls will not suffer from this pain anymore. The scars on my face do depress me, but what matters me the most is the scar inside my heart.
Girls will definitely still love you if you have scars. It also depends on what kind of relationship you are looking for. I have acne scars too that I stress out about (even though people tell me they dont look bad at all), and I have had great experiences with relationships.
There are 2 main things you need to realize:
1. If you have scarring that makes you not look as attractive, girls will not come flocking to you like the "flawless" men that I'm sure you know. In many cases this is not a bad thing at all. Most of those girls are not actually interested in lasting relationships anyways (so if you are just looking for sex, than I don't know what to tell you except for you shouldn't be doing that anyways).
2. You need to be self confident. I know this isn't easy from experience. Just be yourself around girls. Eventually you will find someone that is into you, regardless of how your face looks. In my freshman year of college, one of the most attractive girls in my grade picked me over one of the "hottest" football players simply because my personality was more attractive to her. Just realize, if a girl turns you down because of your looks, that's probably not a girl you would want to date anyways.
Of course she will, if she is worth spending time with at all she won't care about your scars, she will care about you.
While females have the advantage of wearing make up to cover their scars, we all look the same the morning after. Just be yourself and the right gals will be right under your nose. Also Vitamin E helps quite a bit with scarring. It is worth looking into.
Source: I'm a chick.
Yes she will, especially if you're confident. Scars are just not as bad on a guy - look at the guys in TV/movies with acne scars. Now on a girl it's another thing - so I think it is more a question in reverse. You never see any celebrity women without perfect skin. Luckily I'm married to an awesome guy who doesn't seem to care, but I can't imagine if I had to be out in the dating world.
Will a girl love a guy with some extra pounds? Crooked teeth? Skinny legs? Narrow shoulders? Hairy chest? Asthma?
Don't underestimate people (in this case, girls). They're not as shallow as you think they are. Physical conditions don't decide if a person is lovable or not.
I've gotten laid with acne scars. Girls probably won't love you but they'll still probably have sex with you if you're funny enough. And dude believe me, the worst scars are in my heart too.
Everything about this post is wrong. I'm not being sensitive about its "honesty" - it's just completely inaccurate. "Girls probably won't love you" oh please.
Of course she will, if she is worth spending time with at all she won't care about your scars, she will care about you.
While females have the advantage of wearing make up to cover their scars, we all look the same the morning after. Just be yourself and the right gals will be right under your nose. Also Vitamin E helps quite a bit with scarring. It is worth looking into.
Source: I'm a chick.
i agree.
if u r good and interesting then they wont care.
in fact,i personally am alllergic to pretty but dumb boys.
source : i'm a chick too!
Of course she will, if she is worth spending time with at all she won't care about your scars, she will care about you.
While females have the advantage of wearing make up to cover their scars, we all look the same the morning after. Just be yourself and the right gals will be right under your nose. Also Vitamin E helps quite a bit with scarring. It is worth looking into.
Source: I'm a chick.
i agree.
if u r good and interesting then they wont care.
in fact,i personally am alllergic to pretty but dumb boys.
source : i'm a chick too!
WRONG...
Most chicks don't care about your appearance that much, as long as you keep good hygiene and smell good that's ok.
Now SHE is the GAME and YOU are the PLAYER, if you play good you'll win and if you play bad you'll lose.
Now you want to know how to win right? show your fuckin' balls man! if you gonna sit there and act like a pussy she'll look at you as weak, man who has no confidence no self-esteem. Now you don't wan't to be this WEAK guy do you? So all you have to do is approach her like a man and don't show fear and especially don't complain to her! if you do she'll treat you like one of her girl-friends...
sure you may fail but you'll learn from your mistakes as you try with more and more girls.
All it takes is to be the man and ability to flirt a bit, that's it it's simple.
Of course she will, if she is worth spending time with at all she won't care about your scars, she will care about you.
While females have the advantage of wearing make up to cover their scars, we all look the same the morning after. Just be yourself and the right gals will be right under your nose. Also Vitamin E helps quite a bit with scarring. It is worth looking into.
Source: I'm a chick.
i agree.
if u r good and interesting then they wont care.
in fact,i personally am alllergic to pretty but dumb boys.
source : i'm a chick too!
WRONG...
Most chicks don't care about your appearance that much, as long as you keep good hygiene and smell good that's ok.
Now SHE is the GAME and YOU are the PLAYER, if you play good you'll win and if you play bad you'll lose.
Now you want to know how to win right? show your fuckin' balls man! if you gonna sit there and act like a pussy she'll look at you as weak, man who has no confidence no self-esteem. Now you don't wan't to be this WEAK guy do you? So all you have to do is approach her like a man and don't show fear and especially don't complain to her! if you do she'll treat you like one of her girl-friends...
sure you may fail but you'll learn from your mistakes as you try with more and more girls.
All it takes is to be the man and ability to flirt a bit, that's it it's simple.
Girls are no game, they're people just like you. And as a female I can tell - no, it's not enough to be a man, smell good and flirt well - sorry to burst your bubble. If a girl is not an idiot, she'll see through your stupid games and realise you're a poser. That's why watching too many gansgsta movies and porn is not good for you. 
There's different kind of game you guys need to learn to play - just relax and play life. Be interesting, be funny, keep the mystery and excitement. Take girls as they are - a fellow human being, not some kind of trophies who're there to give you good sport.
I have scarring on my temples and forehead. Has it affected my confidence ? Yes, would be lying if I said otherwise However women are interested in more than just looks. They want a man. They want a leader and someone who will protect them. They want someone that is fun and will keep them interested. They want a man of value and this is far than more just looks. I recommend you read the Game by Neil Strauss. You will understand what makes women tick.
Eventhough I have flawed skin, women still compliment me on my looks. Thats because I have good posture, I eat well and go to the gym. I'm well groomed but most important of all .... I dress well - can't underestimate the power of that. DRESS WELL (and it doesn't have to be expensive)
Now get out there and approach some women
Of course she will, if she is worth spending time with at all she won't care about your scars, she will care about you.
While females have the advantage of wearing make up to cover their scars, we all look the same the morning after. Just be yourself and the right gals will be right under your nose. Also Vitamin E helps quite a bit with scarring. It is worth looking into.
Source: I'm a chick.
YOWZA Indeed. Listen to this young lady. Also, read plenty of books, earn more money than the other schmos; and, buy super shoes. Also buy handmade French cologne.
Of course she will, if she is worth spending time with at all she won't care about your scars, she will care about you.
While females have the advantage of wearing make up to cover their scars, we all look the same the morning after. Just be yourself and the right gals will be right under your nose. Also Vitamin E helps quite a bit with scarring. It is worth looking into.
Source: I'm a chick.
i agree.
if u r good and interesting then they wont care.
in fact,i personally am alllergic to pretty but dumb boys.
source : i'm a chick too!
WRONG...
Most chicks don't care about your appearance that much, as long as you keep good hygiene and smell good that's ok.
Now SHE is the GAME and YOU are the PLAYER, if you play good you'll win and if you play bad you'll lose.
Now you want to know how to win right? show your fuckin' balls man! if you gonna sit there and act like a pussy she'll look at you as weak, man who has no confidence no self-esteem. Now you don't wan't to be this WEAK guy do you? So all you have to do is approach her like a man and don't show fear and especially don't complain to her! if you do she'll treat you like one of her girl-friends...
sure you may fail but you'll learn from your mistakes as you try with more and more girls.
All it takes is to be the man and ability to flirt a bit, that's it it's simple.
Girls are no game, they're people just like you. And as a female I can tell - no, it's not enough to be a man, smell good and flirt well - sorry to burst your bubble. If a girl is not an idiot, she'll see through your stupid games and realise you're a poser. That's why watching too many gansgsta movies and porn is not good for you.
There's different kind of game you guys need to learn to play - just relax and play life. Be interesting, be funny, keep the mystery and excitement. Take girls as they are - a fellow human being, not some kind of trophies who're there to give you good sport.
u're right girl.
i found the post by that guy quite related to gangsta movies !
if the girl isnt dump or immature,she wont jump up and down in excitement seeing ur skills to flirt or pose.
'm a med student and recently have met this guest professor who's a neuro surgeon and interesting,witty,funny (not in some annoying way) and has a good manly mentality(which is most important according to me,the mentality)..and needless saying i've a crush on him.
although he's anything but gorgeous.
and he certainly doesnt flirt or pose or show off!!
Of course she will, if she is worth spending time with at all she won't care about your scars, she will care about you.
While females have the advantage of wearing make up to cover their scars, we all look the same the morning after. Just be yourself and the right gals will be right under your nose. Also Vitamin E helps quite a bit with scarring. It is worth looking into.
Source: I'm a chick.
i agree.
if u r good and interesting then they wont care.
in fact,i personally am alllergic to pretty but dumb boys.
source : i'm a chick too!
WRONG...
Most chicks don't care about your appearance that much, as long as you keep good hygiene and smell good that's ok.
Now SHE is the GAME and YOU are the PLAYER, if you play good you'll win and if you play bad you'll lose.
Now you want to know how to win right? show your fuckin' balls man! if you gonna sit there and act like a pussy she'll look at you as weak, man who has no confidence no self-esteem. Now you don't wan't to be this WEAK guy do you? So all you have to do is approach her like a man and don't show fear and especially don't complain to her! if you do she'll treat you like one of her girl-friends...
sure you may fail but you'll learn from your mistakes as you try with more and more girls.
All it takes is to be the man and ability to flirt a bit, that's it it's simple.
Girls are no game, they're people just like you. And as a female I can tell - no, it's not enough to be a man, smell good and flirt well - sorry to burst your bubble. If a girl is not an idiot, she'll see through your stupid games and realise you're a poser. That's why watching too many gansgsta movies and porn is not good for you.
There's different kind of game you guys need to learn to play - just relax and play life. Be interesting, be funny, keep the mystery and excitement. Take girls as they are - a fellow human being, not some kind of trophies who're there to give you good sport.
u're right girl.
i found the post by that guy quite related to gangsta movies !
if the girl isnt dump or immature,she wont jump up and down in excitement seeing ur skills to flirt or pose.
i'm a med student and recently have met this guest professor who's a neuro surgeon and interesting,witty,funny (not in some annoying way) and has a good manly mentality(which is most important according to me,the mentality)..and needless saying i've a crush on him.
and he certainly doesnt flirt or pose or show off!!
Allright, we all have our point of view. That's okay, say what you want, but I have been successful most of the time doing things I mentioned.
I'm no poser and I don't act someone I'm not, now girls would you like a guy who is pushover? being dominated by other guys and has no respect from the guys? That's ridiculous, anyway you girls say one thing and do the other instead.
Life is more than scars.
Life is more than waiting approval from others.
Life is so small to see yourself from other's point of view.
Life is so big ,that you have your universe inside you.Use your mind
to regenerate from the core,from bottom up ,from inside out.Fall in love with this healing electric energy
that cant flow freely from a passive point and from a body messed up in toxic pollutants .
Be again one with everything that you come from.
Be again a moving power of electricity ,full of attraction and regeneration.
I am a nice guy and i used to finish last:)
But that was until 2 months ago.Then i realised what i really need in my life.
And thats an enviroment thats promotes healing,regeneration,life itself.
I am really more interested in helping a girl to heal,or let her help me than to have sex with her.
And i WILL have sex when i feel with her this electricity that attracts each of us.
Let the energy flow.and let it guide you.Let nature do its own magic.
I dont want to mistreat again a girl in bed,or being mistreated from her,both of which happened.
If only i could see her like a person in need of love and healing power,as a person that reflects what she has gone through life,
that reflects both love and hate.
i think i have it deep down now.I dont want to lose this way of thinking.Dont want to have a girl serve my selfish
pseudo-needs. Love,heal,trust,regenerate,help .
Take time to care for a girl,or a man or everything that has life in it.
We became polluted,world is polluted,feelings are polluted.
I am a nice guy and i used to finish last:)
But that was until 2 months ago.Then i realised what i really need in my life.
And thats an enviroment thats promotes healing,regeneration,life itself.
I am really more interested in helping a girl to heal,or let her help me than to fuck her.
And i WILL ''fuck her'' when i feel with her this electricity that attracts each of us.
Let the energy flow.and let it guide you.Let nature do its own magic.
I dont want to mistreat again a girl in bed,or being mistreated from her,both of which happened.
If only i could see her like a person in need of love and healing power,as a person that reflects what she has gone through life,
that reflects both love and hate.
Fuck me man, i think i have it deep down now.I dont want to lose this way of thinking.Dont want to have a girl serve my selfish
pseudo-needs. Love,heal,trust,regenerate,help .
Take time to care for a girl,or a man or everything that has life in it.
We became polluted,world is polluted,feelings are polluted.
Are you goin' to tell a girl that? lol
Cool story bro 
No bro, i keep these words for my inner self and for the inner self of people
who believe everything can change,everything can be cured.
If you want you can join.
When you understand you are helpless,full of illusions others want to sell you,
when you understand people are monetizig other's needs,
you are free to do everything..
You will be a virus into a greedy system.A healthy virus.
I am a nice guy and i used to finish last:)
But that was until 2 months ago.Then i realised what i really need in my life.
And thats an enviroment thats promotes healing,regeneration,life itself.
I am really more interested in helping a girl to heal,or let her help me than to have sex with her.
And i WILL have sex when i feel with her this electricity that attracts each of us.
Let the energy flow.and let it guide you.Let nature do its own magic.
I dont want to mistreat again a girl in bed,or being mistreated from her,both of which happened.
If only i could see her like a person in need of love and healing power,as a person that reflects what she has gone through life,
that reflects both love and hate.
i think i have it deep down now.I dont want to lose this way of thinking.Dont want to have a girl serve my selfish
pseudo-needs. Love,heal,trust,regenerate,help .
Take time to care for a girl,or a man or everything that has life in it.
We became polluted,world is polluted,feelings are polluted.
u're very real now!
am glad u've got a soothing flow in life and like most acne(or any kind of hard phase) seems to have made u more stable,understanding and compassionate.
cheers to that!
Tips to the men..........Guys, never under any circumstances buy into any of that pickup stuff, not only is it extremely cheesy but also completely shallow and devoid of any real life experience. Just re-invent yourself into the best person that YOU can possible be. Make sure you have a soft sensitive heart but also know what it takes to have the passion and assertiveness that comes with bieng a man. Be a MAN. But not the Man in the typical sense that will only do the things society says he should do to fit in.Do what YOU want. Be who YOU want to be. If you want integrity, find your passion. Find what lights your fire. Dont cheapen life.