Tips to the men..........Guys, never under any circumstances buy into any of that pickup stuff, not only is it extremely cheesy but also completely shallow and devoid of any real life experience. Just re-invent yourself into the best person that YOU can possible be. Make sure you have a soft sensitive heart but also know what it takes to have the passion and assertiveness that comes with bieng a man. Be a MAN. But not the Man in the typical sense that will only do the things society says he should do to fit in.Do what YOU want. Be who YOU want to be. If you want integrity, find your passion. Find what lights your fire. Dont cheapen life.
very well said.
well framed.'thats what i wanted to say but couldnt put in words.
thanks.=)
Definitely! I would not care at all about scars, in fact I think things like that can add character/charm to a person's face (funny how I hate it on myself tho! )
I also suffer from scarring, really bad acne scarring in fact and have been in love and have had plenty of men hit on me/tell me I'm hot/beautiful/pretty. So if a woman can have that, so can a man!
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Several posts removed/edited. If you can't play nice, then don't play.
And please keep in mind that we'd like this to be a safe place for all ages. Vulgarities and explicit language will not be tolerated (please refer to the board rules to see what's allowed). Thanks!
Thanks to the member who reported it and to the member who was criticizing my poor attempt to clean up this topic
although i had reported keeping my end in mind..i checked the board rules and realised that words against abusive language has been stated long ago.
my ignorance.
sorry!
It also depends on what kind of relationship you are looking for.
I think that in and of itself is a good answer to the thread starter's question.
Like for instance if what you want is a relationship based on a genuine, mutual attraction between two independent, honest people who when they say that they love each other really mean it then the answer is that your acne scarring won't cause any problems. Also if you're looking for a relationship that isn't based on romance but that is basically a sexual thing it won't (always) cause problems either. I think ultimately very few relationships require clear skin that's free of acne scarring. lol But honestly these types of relationships are probably best avoided wouldn't you say?
By the way, a more challenging idea for a thread could be "Will a girl love a boy who has a genuine disfigurement?". I wonder if you'd see responses like "As long as you're confident all should work out fine!" as fast in that one.
lol well this thread got interesting fast.
To reply to the original topic, girls don't usually dwell on something as superficial as scarring. Some girls even find the rugged look attractive. I've had quite a few girlfriends in the past with my scars (even had one of my most serious long-term girlfriends when my acne was at its worst and my face looked horrible) so never lose hope. It's just about finding the right person. There are shallow idiot girls out there that might judge you because of acne/scars, just like there are shallow idiot guys who'd do the same for girls. The trick is to recognize those kind of people in advance and don't waste time on them.
The one about the android woman.
You mean the one that got taken down or hall monitor man?
I didn't take your post 100% seriously, by the way. I figured it was meant humorously for the most part. lol
lol Posts keep vanishing in this thread.
lol i know the hall monitor is on the case!
The one about the android woman.
You mean the one that got taken down or hall monitor man?
I didn't take your post 100% seriously, by the way. I figured it was meant humorously for the most part. lol
lol Posts keep vanishing in this thread.
lol i know the hall monitor is on the case!
Low humour.
oh yeah, i said that because well even to this day girls don't leave me alone about my skin always picking on me. i never say anything to them all girls do is size you up from head to toe, seriously though who needs em XD. women today only want two things either a rich guy or a handsome guy, or preferably both for them so yeah. i'm neither of those right now so i'll be a happy man when i get my android wife good riddance for the most part i'd say!
The one about the android woman.
You mean the one that got taken down or hall monitor man?
I didn't take your post 100% seriously, by the way. I figured it was meant humorously for the most part. lol
lol Posts keep vanishing in this thread.
lol i know the hall monitor is on the case!
i don't blame women for being that way, i understand it has been a necessary evolution over the centuries for the species and what not.so i get where that way of thinking came from, so you see i know i can't change human nature so id rather just have nothing to do with it, you know at least for now anyway's...
Even though I have to admit that talking to you annoys me a bit I shall respond.
I didn't see Albert's post as "low humour" or ill-intentioned or misogynist even though I can understand how some people interpreted it as such. I just thought it was so over the top and absurd that it became funny, that's all.
Low humour.
REAL WOMEN will love their man no matter what the flaw is. I remember watching an A&E documentary about i cop burned over 70% of his body. His face was rubbery and made up of mostly scar tissue. He was hardly recognizable. His wife stated that she loved him no matter what and to his kids, he was still their world.
A true, genuine person will see past flaws and take you as is.
REAL WOMEN will love their man no matter what the flaw is. I remember watching an A&E documentary about i cop burned over 70% of his body. His face was rubbery and made up of mostly scar tissue. He was hardly recognizable. His wife stated that she loved him no matter what and to his kids, he was still their world.
A true, genuine person will see past flaws and take you as is.
I've seen that one too! How would anyone be able to leave someone they love, just because his body changed? I would still see the same person, I would still love him, his soul and mind. In my eyes he wouldn't change. I think that guy's wife is a perfectly normal, loving person, and not to leave your beloved one in trouble should be a norm, not exception!
REAL WOMEN will love their man no matter what the flaw is. I remember watching an A&E documentary about i cop burned over 70% of his body. His face was rubbery and made up of mostly scar tissue. He was hardly recognizable. His wife stated that she loved him no matter what and to his kids, he was still their world.
A true, genuine person will see past flaws and take you as is.
for she could also say that "the scars shows how brave here man is"
courtesy : half-blood prince
So let me get this straight... It doesn't matter if a guy has burns on 70% percent of his body. You'd still date him as long as he's a bit of a bad boy?
I've seen that one too! How would anyone be able to leave someone they love, just because his body changed? I would still see the same person, I would still love him, his soul and mind. In my eyes he wouldn't change. I think that guy's wife is a perfectly normal, loving person, and not to leave your beloved one in trouble should be a norm, not exception!
So let me get this straight... It doesn't matter if a guy has burns on 70% percent of his body. You'd still date him as long as he's a bit of a bad boy?
I've seen that one too! How would anyone be able to leave someone they love, just because his body changed? I would still see the same person, I would still love him, his soul and mind. In my eyes he wouldn't change. I think that guy's wife is a perfectly normal, loving person, and not to leave your beloved one in trouble should be a norm, not exception!
hey!
i will talk for myself here..i dont understand much when people say bad/good boy..
but i wont care if he'd got scars for any reason,acne,burn or whateva if, and ONLY IF he's worth it as a person.
see at the end of the day when u actually think of spending ur life with someone u dnt think of a super model or hot shot babe..what u need is an understanding and mature person who's loving and caring.& keeping today's age in mind the background helps..his qualification,work(he need nt be laxmi mittal or steve jobs!! but a certain stability in life) and for me MENTALITY is one BIG thing!
I would do google searches about this exact same topic. And surprisingly most responses I read were positive. Basically girls supposedly don't care about scaring as much as we think. Most responses were if hes cute then acne scaring doesn't matter, or if he has a nice smile etc etc.
So ugly dudes with acne scaring like me are sh*t outta luck! lol but I guess girls don't care that much? No idea.
Honestly from what I've seen on this forum the dudes that post pics of themselves complaining about their acne or scaring are really good looking. I guess you guys are being your own worst enemy. And honestly I have yet to see someone who posts pics on this site to have anything severe or worth worrying about.