to be truly honest with you girls go for personality more than looks, as long as you come across as someone whos outgoing, funny, caring, and understanding your good. so don't put yourself down because you got scars

Here we go again. "I need a guy to be funny". Why don't you go and date a comedian then? It's just so immature to me. This type of thinking.

To say that personality is more important than looks and subsequently saying that if a guy isn't funny he isn't worth dating doesn't make you come across as someone who isn't superficial. It's incredibly superficial to say "This guy is boring" and to subsequently lose interest in getting to know someone.

to be truly honest with you girls go for personality more than looks, as long as you come across as someone whos outgoing, funny, caring, and understanding your good. so don't put yourself down because you got scars

Here we go again. "I need a guy to be funny". Why don't you go and date a comedian then? It's just so immature to me. This type of thinking.

To say that personality is more important than looks and subsequently saying that if a guy isn't funny he isn't worth dating doesn't make you come across as someone who isn't superficial. It's incredibly superficial to say "This guy is boring" and to subsequently lose interest in getting to know someone.

to be truly honest with you girls go for personality more than looks, as long as you come across as someone whos outgoing, funny, caring, and understanding your good. so don't put yourself down because you got scars

i like(really!) a guy who's short,dark(lets face it he's not as handsome as his work partner is) ,he is an entrepreneur, sits in his office all and watches news channel as recreation.

he does go out with frnds and stuff.but i cant call him funny or ultra-entertaining but for some reason..may be his persona or intellect..he's humble and stable attitude i really really like him.

i like(really!) a guy who's short,dark(lets face it he's not as handsome as his work partner is) ,he is an entrepreneur, sits in his office all and watches news channel as recreation.

he does go out with frnds and stuff.but i cant call him funny or ultra-entertaining but for some reason..may be his persona or intellect..he's humble and stable attitude i really really like him.

That's cool.

That sounds like a genuine attraction and not like a superficial thing where someone is just out to please themselves. Which is what all these women who go out with checklists seem to do where they go "I want to be entertained! I want a hot, funny, tough guy to spend a few steamy months with. ".

That's not to say that sexual relationships are a waste of time as they're not. I'm not saying that there always has to be a romantic element. But I am saying that immaturity often results in objectionableness and relationships should always have dignity which is something that many relationships had by immature people lack.

I mean what the Hell kind of advice is this that Ruweyda posted? Guys should make sure they "come across" as being funny, outgoing, caring and understanding and "they're good"? So if you read it the way she wrote it you could say she meant that they don't even necessarily need to actually be all those things... As long as they can play it all girls will...what? Jump into bed with them? But maybe that's me reading into things too much.

Let's just say then that she meant that girls go for guys who are all those things. Well 1) That is an ignorant generalization 2) What's funny to one person isn't funny to the other person. So how are these guys supposed to be funny in a way that "entertains" every single girl they meet? 3) Not everyone is naturally outgoing. Some guys are just naturally quiet. So what is she saying? That all these quiet men can kiss relationships goodbye as there are no women out there at all that are going to fall in love with them? How are these men supposed to feel if they take Ruweyda seriously? 4) For a women to stop dating a man because he's "not funny enough" and subsequently saying to him that he needs to work on himself if he ever wants to have a girlfriend in the future as he isn't funny in her eyes and/or outgoing enough is harsh, unpleasant and cold. Maybe even cruel... But that's OK she seems to say yet at the same time she says guys need to be caring?

She may have meant it in a nice way but the more I think about what she actually said the more questions pop in my mind.

I never said he HAS to be funny its jst wat girls go for that's all but then again a lot of girls like shy guys its cute actually

 

Here we go again. "I need a guy to be funny". Why don't you go and date a comedian then? It's just so immature to me. This type of thinking.

To say that personality is more important than looks and subsequently saying that if a guy isn't funny he isn't worth dating doesn't make you come across as someone who isn't superficial. It's incredibly superficial to say "This guy is boring" and to subsequently lose interest in getting to know someone.

to be truly honest with you girls go for personality more than looks, as long as you come across as someone whos outgoing, funny, caring, and understanding your good. so don't put yourself down because you got scars

You've got nice hair in your photo.

Anyway, I think when there's chemistry between two people there automatically is laughter. But sometimes I hear women say they "need a guy to be funny" and it just rubs me the wrong way as the way they put it it really is something else that they are referring to than when I was referring to "chemistry".

 

I never said he HAS to be funny its jst wat girls go for that's all but then again a lot of girls like shy guys its cute actually

Here we go again. "I need a guy to be funny". Why don't you go and date a comedian then? It's just so immature to me. This type of thinking.

To say that personality is more important than looks and subsequently saying that if a guy isn't funny he isn't worth dating doesn't make you come across as someone who isn't superficial. It's incredibly superficial to say "This guy is boring" and to subsequently lose interest in getting to know someone.

to be truly honest with you girls go for personality more than looks, as long as you come across as someone whos outgoing, funny, caring, and understanding your good. so don't put yourself down because you got scars

You've got nice hair in your photo.

Anyway, I think when there's chemistry between two people there automatically is laughter. But sometimes I hear women say they "need a guy to be funny" and it just rubs me the wrong way as the way they put it it really is something else that they are referring to than when I was referring to "chemistry".

I never said he HAS to be funny its jst wat girls go for that's all but then again a lot of girls like shy guys its cute actually

Here we go again. "I need a guy to be funny". Why don't you go and date a comedian then? It's just so immature to me. This type of thinking.

To say that personality is more important than looks and subsequently saying that if a guy isn't funny he isn't worth dating doesn't make you come across as someone who isn't superficial. It's incredibly superficial to say "This guy is boring" and to subsequently lose interest in getting to know someone.

to be truly honest with you girls go for personality more than looks, as long as you come across as someone whos outgoing, funny, caring, and understanding your good. so don't put yourself down because you got scars

i was never the one who likes fall-down-laughing humor infact,i dont tend to like guys who are always at the middle of the group passing comments or cracking jokes.

i prefer stable mature men who usually has that sense of responsibility and certain graveness in the way they approach things.many find that boring including my sisters or frnds bt i am somehow attracted to quiet (not that they wont scream if needed) but subtle guys.

everyone is different and their expectations are varied too.

well tnk yu very much and yah I totally understand what yu mean...

 

You've got nice hair in your photo.

Anyway, I think when there's chemistry between two people there automatically is laughter. But sometimes I hear women say they "need a guy to be funny" and it just rubs me the wrong way as the way they put it it really is something else that they are referring to than when I was referring to "chemistry".

I never said he HAS to be funny its jst wat girls go for that's all but then again a lot of girls like shy guys its cute actually

Here we go again. "I need a guy to be funny". Why don't you go and date a comedian then? It's just so immature to me. This type of thinking.

To say that personality is more important than looks and subsequently saying that if a guy isn't funny he isn't worth dating doesn't make you come across as someone who isn't superficial. It's incredibly superficial to say "This guy is boring" and to subsequently lose interest in getting to know someone.

to be truly honest with you girls go for personality more than looks, as long as you come across as someone whos outgoing, funny, caring, and understanding your good. so don't put yourself down because you got scars