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Heitea it's a shame that your skin broke out so badly to coincide with your camping trip, sounds like you managed to have a good time despite it though. Sounds like an amazing place you went to 
Must have been crap feeling like you had to sleep in your make up then re-apply it again when you get up without anyone noticing. Urgh hun I've been there done that before 
My skin has calmed down a little today but loads of flat red marks on my cheeks, have been invited to a beach BBQ this afternoon and although I want to go, I do feel too self conscious about my skin so will have to wear some make up which I hate doing at the beach. But the BBQ sounds like a really social thing where people will be trying to talk to me and I want to feel as confident as I can. Especially after I refrained going to Memorial Day events yesterday due to feeling so bad about my skin.
ibiza,
I'm sorry that you didn't get to go to the Memorial Day festivities, but I'm glad you made the decision to go to the barbecue! I love barbecues! For, me a barbecue is a lovely excuse to have a *regular* coke and some potato salad with chips and talk to lots of people! Fun! 
Have you been able to speak to your husband yet? I know you've been having a hard time letting him know your feelings and insecurities, but please do let us know when you tell him! It's a difficult thing to do, but it's SO nice to have someone with you at all times that understands you. It's like your own personal security. Anytime I was sad on my camping trip, I could just look at my boyfriend and tell him that I was feeling embarrassed over my skin and he'd hug me. That really helped me get through it. So let your husband know ASAP! 
P.S. Makeup at the beach-- ick. However, I have no idea what it feels like to go to the beach WITHOUT it. haha. I haven't been out of the house without makeup since I was around 15!
ibiza,
I'm sorry that you didn't get to go to the Memorial Day festivities, but I'm glad you made the decision to go to the barbecue! I love barbecues! For, me a barbecue is a lovely excuse to have a *regular* coke and some potato salad with chips and talk to lots of people! Fun!
Have you been able to speak to your husband yet? I know you've been having a hard time letting him know your feelings and insecurities, but please do let us know when you tell him! It's a difficult thing to do, but it's SO nice to have someone with you at all times that understands you. It's like your own personal security. Anytime I was sad on my camping trip, I could just look at my boyfriend and tell him that I was feeling embarrassed over my skin and he'd hug me. That really helped me get through it. So let your husband know ASAP!
P.S. Makeup at the beach-- ick. However, I have no idea what it feels like to go to the beach WITHOUT it. haha. I haven't been out of the house without makeup since I was around 15!
Yeah will go along to the BBQ, although on my own to meet our mutual friends as my hubby is working today so can't join us. I am new to the area cos I moved from UK to USA to marry him you see so am already a little shy in social situations, skin problems don't help with this!!!
Hate that my skin has become so bad that I will have to put a full face of make up on just to go to the bloody beach, last summer I had minimal breakouts so to go to the beach I was able to get away with going bare faced and just dotting concealer where I needed it. Now it's a different story.
No still not spoken to my husband about my skin, I tried to on Friday, Saturday and again last night but just couldn't spit the words out. It is so uncomfortable and cringeworthy as you are well aware. I aim to do it sooner rather than later though as I want to have some skin resurfacing done sometime soon and will obviously need my husband's support during this time. He cuddled me and told me whatever the problem is he finds me beautiful, and that when I am ready to open up he is here for me. Aww he is so lovely, feel guilty that I'm dragging him through this. But maybe he already has a feeling what the issue is. Again, so embarrassing!
Your boyfriend sounds so loving, supportive and understanding. It must feel so good to know that he gets you, and when your skin upsets you, you can tell him and know he will be there for you.
ibiza,
I'm sorry that you didn't get to go to the Memorial Day festivities, but I'm glad you made the decision to go to the barbecue! I love barbecues! For, me a barbecue is a lovely excuse to have a *regular* coke and some potato salad with chips and talk to lots of people! Fun!
Have you been able to speak to your husband yet? I know you've been having a hard time letting him know your feelings and insecurities, but please do let us know when you tell him! It's a difficult thing to do, but it's SO nice to have someone with you at all times that understands you. It's like your own personal security. Anytime I was sad on my camping trip, I could just look at my boyfriend and tell him that I was feeling embarrassed over my skin and he'd hug me. That really helped me get through it. So let your husband know ASAP!
P.S. Makeup at the beach-- ick. However, I have no idea what it feels like to go to the beach WITHOUT it. haha. I haven't been out of the house without makeup since I was around 15!
Yeah will go along to the BBQ, although on my own to meet our mutual friends as my hubby is working today so can't join us. I am new to the area cos I moved from UK to USA to marry him you see so am already a little shy in social situations, skin problems don't help with this!!!
Hate that my skin has become so bad that I will have to put a full face of make up on just to go to the bloody beach, last summer I had minimal breakouts so to go to the beach I was able to get away with going bare faced and just dotting concealer where I needed it. Now it's a different story.
No still not spoken to my husband about my skin, I tried to on Friday, Saturday and again last night but just couldn't spit the words out. It is so uncomfortable and cringeworthy as you are well aware. I aim to do it sooner rather than later though as I want to have some skin resurfacing done sometime soon and will obviously need my husband's support during this time. He cuddled me and told me whatever the problem is he finds me beautiful, and that when I am ready to open up he is here for me. Aww he is so lovely, feel guilty that I'm dragging him through this. But maybe he already has a feeling what the issue is. Again, so embarrassing!
Your boyfriend sounds so loving, supportive and understanding. It must feel so good to know that he gets you, and when your skin upsets you, you can tell him and know he will be there for you.
Girl, just remember you are beautiful! REALLY YOU ARE!!! And also hun, the fact that your hubby is such a supporting man is absolutely amazing! Do not worry if you are not ready! Don't pressure yourself. Only you will realize when the right moment is!
XOXO! We are here for you
ibiza,
I'm sorry that you didn't get to go to the Memorial Day festivities, but I'm glad you made the decision to go to the barbecue! I love barbecues! For, me a barbecue is a lovely excuse to have a *regular* coke and some potato salad with chips and talk to lots of people! Fun!
Have you been able to speak to your husband yet? I know you've been having a hard time letting him know your feelings and insecurities, but please do let us know when you tell him! It's a difficult thing to do, but it's SO nice to have someone with you at all times that understands you. It's like your own personal security. Anytime I was sad on my camping trip, I could just look at my boyfriend and tell him that I was feeling embarrassed over my skin and he'd hug me. That really helped me get through it. So let your husband know ASAP!
P.S. Makeup at the beach-- ick. However, I have no idea what it feels like to go to the beach WITHOUT it. haha. I haven't been out of the house without makeup since I was around 15!
Yeah will go along to the BBQ, although on my own to meet our mutual friends as my hubby is working today so can't join us. I am new to the area cos I moved from UK to USA to marry him you see so am already a little shy in social situations, skin problems don't help with this!!!
Hate that my skin has become so bad that I will have to put a full face of make up on just to go to the bloody beach, last summer I had minimal breakouts so to go to the beach I was able to get away with going bare faced and just dotting concealer where I needed it. Now it's a different story.
No still not spoken to my husband about my skin, I tried to on Friday, Saturday and again last night but just couldn't spit the words out. It is so uncomfortable and cringeworthy as you are well aware. I aim to do it sooner rather than later though as I want to have some skin resurfacing done sometime soon and will obviously need my husband's support during this time. He cuddled me and told me whatever the problem is he finds me beautiful, and that when I am ready to open up he is here for me. Aww he is so lovely, feel guilty that I'm dragging him through this. But maybe he already has a feeling what the issue is. Again, so embarrassing!
Your boyfriend sounds so loving, supportive and understanding. It must feel so good to know that he gets you, and when your skin upsets you, you can tell him and know he will be there for you.
Enjoy BBQ hun!!! This is your time to not care about eating healthy YAY!
Hahaha yeah sometimes I need a break from all the juicing/smoothies/oily fish/water/fruit & veg etc. Although I am very confident that my skin issue is not diet related, it does make me feel better if I am eating well therefore feel I am doing all I can! But even during a BBQ I won't eat too badly, I rarely eat meat so will choose a veggie burger and salad over a cheeseburger and fries, haha! 
Doing alright today, skin seems to be calming down a bit so that's a good thing. Seeing all these husband/boyfriend posts in here lately makes me wish I had a girlfriend even more, haha. You guys are lucky!
Doing alright today, skin seems to be calming down a bit so that's a good thing. Seeing all these husband/boyfriend posts in here lately makes me wish I had a girlfriend even more, haha. You guys are lucky!
yup no kidding ^^
as for me...I have this annoying sub dermal pimple on the side of my nose, not really visible but...A WORLD OF HURT
omg does this one hurt, it's ridiculous, I'm actually suffering
Doing alright today, skin seems to be calming down a bit so that's a good thing. Seeing all these husband/boyfriend posts in here lately makes me wish I had a girlfriend even more, haha. You guys are lucky!
Ha ha, yeah, I've been single for ever and so I wanna know how it feels like being in love! I guess I am not trying at all. Well, I've decided to finish with my career first.
However, I will be pretty old by then.. Aargh. Life's complicated.
On 5/27/2013 at 7:47 PM, ibiza1987 said:No still not spoken to my husband about my skin, I tried to on Friday, Saturday and again last night but just couldn't spit the words out. It is so uncomfortable and cringeworthy as you are well aware. I aim to do it sooner rather than later though as I want to have some skin resurfacing done sometime soon and will obviously need my husband's support during this time. He cuddled me and told me whatever the problem is he finds me beautiful, and that when I am ready to open up he is here for me. Aww he is so lovely, feel guilty that I'm dragging him through this. But maybe he already has a feeling what the issue is. Again, so embarrassing!
Hi ibiza
I've seen a few of your posts talking about this. Sorry it's causing you such grief to talk about it. I can hardly manage to talk to someone face to face about my skin/acne and how it makes me feel without crying...
I know this sounds weird - but have you thought of / tried writing out what it is you want to say to him and giving what you write to him? Sort of like a letter I guess. I just find sometimes I can express myself more easily in writing, when I'm trying to discuss a topic that makes me emotional or anxious, than verbally.
Regardless, I hope you find a way to speak to him soon. From what you've said he sounds so lovely and supportive of you, I'm sure he'll understand. I bet he can see that you're upset / worried over something and just wants to see you happy again
Doing alright today, skin seems to be calming down a bit so that's a good thing. Seeing all these husband/boyfriend posts in here lately makes me wish I had a girlfriend even more, haha. You guys are lucky!
Ha ha, yeah, I've been single for ever and so I wanna know how it feels like being in love! I guess I am not trying at all. Well, I've decided to finish with my career first.
However, I will be pretty old by then.. Aargh. Life's complicated.
You both are handsome and seem like amazing guys. You'll definitely find someone! Ghost, you've gotta put yourself out there if you want to find love! Don't wait until you've finished your career! What's success if you can't share it with someone? 
Update on my skin/feelings: I used my facial brush and a honey/cinnamon/lemon mask last night and this morning and my skin is looking MUCH healthier and is way smoother feeling. And of course, all of that is slightly drying my skin out so my coconut oil is a lifesaver. The great thing is that I KNOW I'll be at least mostly clear by my festival date, so thank goodness. If this was a couple years ago, I'd be afraid of breaking out all the way up until the festival. I've definitely gotten better at caring for my skin. Also, my stress levels are WAAAY down. I'm a teacher of those lovely high schoolers and it's summertime! Wee!
No still not spoken to my husband about my skin, I tried to on Friday, Saturday and again last night but just couldn't spit the words out. It is so uncomfortable and cringeworthy as you are well aware. I aim to do it sooner rather than later though as I want to have some skin resurfacing done sometime soon and will obviously need my husband's support during this time. He cuddled me and told me whatever the problem is he finds me beautiful, and that when I am ready to open up he is here for me. Aww he is so lovely, feel guilty that I'm dragging him through this. But maybe he already has a feeling what the issue is. Again, so embarrassing!
Hi ibiza
I've seen a few of your posts talking about this. Sorry it's causing you such grief to talk about it
I can hardly manage to talk to someone face to face about my skin/acne and how it makes me feel without crying...
I know this sounds weird - but have you thought of / tried writing out what it is you want to say to him and giving what you write to him? Sort of like a letter I guess. I just find sometimes I can express myself more easily in writing, when I'm trying to discuss a topic that makes me emotional or anxious, than verbally.
Regardless, I hope you find a way to speak to him soon. From what you've said he sounds so lovely and supportive of you, I'm sure he'll understand
Hi there,
Yes this is just so rough. To be honest my recent new scars are upsetting me even more than the acne, I have such strong hatred of my face right now. It does make me panic too wondering if these scars are permanent or whether there might be successful treatment for them, reading through information on here and online in general there is a lot of conflicting information out there. Some say there is no solution for acne scars and I find that very scary indeed. The thought of being stuck like this forever is just too much to bear, not that I even remember what it feels like to look in the mirror and see a flawless face staring back, as I have battled acne since I was 11 years old and I'm now 31. It is just too much to take.
I know life is unfair for everyone but persistent acne plus being rejected by my family/bullied all my life/going blind in one eye (losing central vision) is brutal. So as you've gathered acne is just the tip of the iceberg, my life has been tough in many other ways too, having acne has made things even harder to deal with and also made some of my other problems escalate and the frustration of not being able to talk about the skin condition is making me lash out at my poor husband, he is being so nice about it though. I am grateful for all I do have, but don't think I can ever be happy until my skin is at least looking okay. I am also grateful that my scars are fairly minor but it is still so distressing. Just the constant battle with my skin for 20 years, it just gets too much.
Maybe your idea of a letter might be the way forward, will see how it goes. Hoping I finally tell him tonight.
This is my first time here. It feels really good to know that there are people out there who are trying to clear their acne just like me. I always felt that no one understood, but I think I'm in a good place now. I am on my way to starting the regimen. Today was the second time I went out without makeup. And my face is literally covered and messed up. Scars, cysts, blackheads, you name it. So it was nerve wracking, and I did have someone comment on it. But other than that, I feel really good!
been stressin and broke out with a few. im numb right now its whatever. im tired. tomorrow is another day unfortunately.
@ ibiza hey are you ok? if anyone knows about anxiety and depression its me. id bet money im the worst off here when it comes to that. you offered help to me if i needed to talk a while back and the same goes to you. you're posts seem pretty dark lately. you should really talk to your husband and get it out of the way. i guarantee you will feel a million times better. just do it.
Doing alright today, skin seems to be calming down a bit so that's a good thing. Seeing all these husband/boyfriend posts in here lately makes me wish I had a girlfriend even more, haha. You guys are lucky!
>Ha ha, yeah, I've been single for ever and so I wanna know how it feels like being in love! I guess I am not trying at all. Well, I've decided to finish with my career first.
However, I will be pretty old by then.. Aargh. Life's complicated.
You both are handsome and seem like amazing guys. You'll definitely find someone! Ghost, you've gotta put yourself out there if you want to find love! Don't wait until you've finished your career! What's success if you can't share it with someone?
Update on my skin/feelings: I used my facial brush and a honey/cinnamon/lemon mask last night and this morning and my skin is looking MUCH healthier and is way smoother feeling. And of course, all of that is slightly drying my skin out so my coconut oil is a lifesaver. The great thing is that I KNOW I'll be at least mostly clear by my festival date, so thank goodness. If this was a couple years ago, I'd be afraid of breaking out all the way up until the festival. I've definitely gotten better at caring for my skin.
I utterly agree with you. I will make a strong effort to attend events more frequently from meetup.com and try to meet people in the university. I know most people in the university are either single or seeing someone, but I at least want friends. I've been trying some dating sites, but no luck whatsoever
Feeling less than confident in myself. My acne is flaring around my mouth and it sucks because i was having a few days of clearer skin. Also, realizing that i am lonley and alone in part to my lack of confidence. I know i am attractive and spunky and have a wicked sense of humor but i can't seem to break myself out of this emotional acne prison. is this going to be my life for the next 20 years?
Feeling less than confident in myself. My acne is flaring around my mouth and it sucks because i was having a few days of clearer skin. Also, realizing that i am lonley and alone in part to my lack of confidence. I know i am attractive and spunky and have a wicked sense of humor but i can't seem to break myself out of this emotional acne prison. is this going to be my life for the next 20 years?
I totally sympathize with what you wrote, hang in there!
I had some nasty flare ups today out of nowhere, and have been feeling down all day because all the progress has been undone yet again. I'm trying really hard not to let my depression spiral. I have been going to the gym, running, doing yoga & pilates, going for walks, listening to music, watching movies ...I don't know what else to do to feel better. It sucks that my close friends and family live so far away 
On the bright side, I found out that my insurance might be able to cover most of the cost for allergy testing....anyone know what the most reliable method to use would be (saliva, digital, blood, stools) and if that also tests for sensitivity rather than just intolerance? I might as well try this if it's not going to cost me much.
Really, really, really bad :-/ It's such a feeling of isolation for me. My heart hurts for me and everyone who must suffer... Today especially.
Sasch83!! I feel like I coulda written that post. Im a fun, spirited, nice girl... My acne affects me immensely though. The deep and countless scars make each day a trial.
Hey guys guys guys guys. Can we all post a few things that we like about ourselves? It'll make us feel better! This was actually brought on by my noticing that (drumroll please) I NEVER get blackheads!!!! So I have skin that is clear...of blackheads. My nose is fabulous, you guys! There are so many things I like about myself that don't relate to my appearance. But this is the first thing I've thought of related to my appearance that I actually like. My hair is meh. My eyebrows are meh. My skin is ew. My smile is okay. My ears stick out. My cheeks used to be my favorite part of my face before the acne. So, now I think it's the fact that I don't have blackheads. Whenever I'm feeling bad about the way I look, I'll look in the mirror at my blackhead free nose/skin and rejoice! 
Now your turn! What can you look at or think about that will make you feel good looking when you feel the burden of your acne?
Skinnie! You're right! Right now I hate my acne and scars but I love my perfectly white teeth and smile! Also, I rarely wear eye makeup and love that I don't need it.
Been working out a lot too and enjoy the results I see in that very much!!
Thanks for that encouragement. Wish I has joined these forums sooner!
I feel so much better right this second.
