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losing friend of 6-7 yrs over acne

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(@kenharrison)

Posted : 11/07/2016 1:46 pm

I just don't know what to say or think....Fuck . okay let me summarize what the hell happened. okay i recently had a breakout, picked at it and left scabs everywhere all over my face. So today i decided to go to my friends house you know to get it off my mind but i had a weird vibe that he was using it to his advantage to fuck with me. He started off by touching my face after cleaning dishes or whatever the hell said He was doing, i tried to block him with my arms and hands but of course he wanted to touch my face. Later he made a comment about have you looked in the mirror lately , it upset me but had to keep positive thoughts but i did say yeah i got acne everywhere lol . Later after that, after he gotten done cooking oily ass chicken he decided he wanted to push it further by putting his dirty hands again on my face, i got up started backing up telling him to stop fucking around but he keep coming towards me with his hands in the air coming towards my face so i launch right at his chest ,not to hard but hard enough that i was not fucking around anymore. He got pissed yelling at me to get out , i started backing up towards the door as he was walking up own me n me trying to explain to him he kept pushing it but he was pissed and i can't argue him without messing up my words when i'm in flight or fight moment so i left know back here on my laptop telling you ladies and gents. Fuck man this makes me not want to leave until my face heal. I feel bad about everything but i'm sensitive when it comes to my acne and he kept pushing it. Makes me want to tear up because i don't know what to do feel or think. Fucking hate acne

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(@alyleiii)

Posted : 11/07/2016 2:34 pm

Wow, I'm sorry this happened to you. Your friend sounds like he has a lot of his own issues and it's rude that he disrespected your feelings and personal space by trying to touch your skin. I'm not sure what his problem is, but you sound better off without someone who is going to torment you for acne you can't control.

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(@kenharrison)

Posted : 11/07/2016 3:27 pm

42 minutes ago, cloudydreamer said:

Wow, I'm sorry this happened to you. Your friend sounds like he has a lot of his own issues and it's rude that he disrespected your feelings and personal space by trying to touch your skin. I'm not sure what his problem is, but you sound better off without someone who is going to torment you for acne you can't control.

Hey thanks and yeah your right he's been going through alot. Idk 6-7 yrs it going to be hard as hell to just drop him like that, i've been thinking about it ever since even my emotions and maturity is telling me to cut him but easy said then to be done but thanks again i guess things happen for a good reason so ill just try to accept it. hopefully we can talk this out but i still can't believe it like why, he knows how i feel about my skin.

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(@clareabella)

Posted : 11/07/2016 4:01 pm

You sound really down and your friend having known you for so long should know what your weaknesses are. Although maybe he did genuinely think he was just having a laugh. Iv got a friend who doesn't let much bother her so when I feel down about certain things ( skin being one of them) she just doesn't get it. I don't think she means to be insensitive I just think it's the way she is. Maybe your friend truly doesn't understand how you feel and didn't mean to hurt your feelings or wind you up. He is probably feeling pretty crap right now if he has realised how he has upset you but you men can be stubborn in owning up sometimes ;)

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(@kenharrison)

Posted : 11/07/2016 5:14 pm

1 hour ago, clareabella said:

You sound really down and your friend having known you for so long should know what your weaknesses are. Although maybe he did genuinely think he was just having a laugh. Iv got a friend who doesn't let much bother her so when I feel down about certain things ( skin being one of them) she just doesn't get it. I don't think she means to be insensitive I just think it's the way she is. Maybe your friend truly doesn't understand how you feel and didn't mean to hurt your feelings or wind you up. He is probably feeling pretty crap right now if he has realised how he has upset you but you men can be stubborn in owning up sometimes ;)

Yeah its all cool, i hope he does own up 2 it, but he knew how i felt about my skin, he knows are limits but today he lost his head. 

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(@mr22ausman)

Posted : 11/14/2016 12:24 am

Sounds like a shit mate you have there....my mates and myself only ever felt sorry for each other when we had bad skin. think hanging around with a guy like that will only be a waste of time. You want mates who have your back! Not tease you or piss you off.

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(@alice-read)

Posted : 11/22/2016 3:32 pm

Sounds like a crap friend
you deserve better than people that treat you in that way
then again, most people don't understand how much of a sensitive topic it is for a huge. Number of people.
you want a mate who Has some kind of sense

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(@kenharrison)

Posted : 11/22/2016 6:32 pm

2 hours ago, Riveralice said:

Sounds like a crap friend
you deserve better than people that treat you in that way
then again, most people don't understand how much of a sensitive topic it is for a huge. Number of people.
you want a mate who Has some kind of sense

hey thanks slot n yeah your right people just don't understand or care

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