Now, I have had this scar ever since I was a kid (Saw a photo from when I was in like 2nd grade), worst part about it is that it's approx in the middle of my forehead, i've never heard about people complaining about my look though, i've had a gf but broke up few months ago but thing is, some people have asked me ''what is that on your forehead?'', that has really gotten to me.
Well, i've started wearing cap, so you can't really see it just until I can find something to treat it with but eitherway, everytime I look myself in the mirror I get depressed so bad
Took this picture from the worst lightning I could possibly find.
Looks like the mark I have beside my eyebrow from a case of chicken pox as a kid. Had it as long as I can remember... It is human nature to judge. We judge each other, but we are the most harsh with ourselves.
It is most definitely depressing when we can't be perfect, and it's ok to feel that way. People may notice your scar, but keep in mind they are much more aware of their own imperfections.
This is going to sound a bit harsh, but its important that you internalize it.
Getting depressed over something that mild is crazy. You're a man, men aren't meant to be perfect or have porcelain flawless skin. In the caveman days, do you think having a tiny scar like that would affect whether or not you would be accepted into a tribe, or affect your potential with a mate?
That isn't even the point. My point here is that: that scar is so mild & so irrelevant. Stop seeking approval from others just to feel good about yourself. The only approval you NEED is the approval from YOURSELF. If someone notices, who cares? They're just curious on how you got it. If they think it looks weird (which I doubt anyone does, cause its barely noticeable), ignore it. Be in charge of your own emotions, it'll help you in the long run when you have an ACTUAL problem worth stressing out over.
People are so freaking rude.
I suggest having a sarcastic response like ... " its called a scar, ever heard of chicken pox?" and then follow up with a jab at them. " I was wondering what's that strange growth on you neck ...but I've realized, its your head"
I have lots of rude quips foir rude people, its kind of a hobby.
13 hours ago, snarkygirl said:People are so freaking rude.
I suggest having a sarcastic response like ... " its called a scar, ever heard of chicken pox?" and then follow up with a jab at them. " I was wondering what's that strange growth on you neck ...but I've realized, its your head"
I have lots of rude quips foir rude people, its kind of a hobby.
Having a response like that just goes to show you're really insecure and offended by it. Why not just brush it off like its nothing, cause in reality, it really is nothing to worry about. No need to get all defensive
7 minutes ago, Tretinoin said:Having a response like that just goes to show you're really insecure and offended by it. Why not just brush it off like its nothing, cause in reality, it really is nothing to worry about. No need to get all defensive![]()
well...they don't call me " snarky girl" for nothing
When I see scars like that on guys it turns me on faster than lightning. Literally, if you think this scar is the reason you're not getting any guys or girls you'd be wrong. Instead of worrying about this little mark on your face that actually looks sexy, go work on being able to strike up conversations; I bet that's where your true faults lie.
edit: AND BY FAULTS I MEAN NOT HAVING THE ABILITY TO BE CHARISMATIC AND CHARMING.
On 6/26/2016 at 5:51 AM, Kevin9k9 said:Now, I have had this scar ever since I was a kid (Saw a photo from when I was in like 2nd grade), worst part about it is that it's approx in the middle of my forehead, i've never heard about people complaining about my look though, i've had a gf but broke up few months ago but thing is, some people have asked me ''what is that on your forehead?'', that has really gotten to me.
Well, i've started wearing cap, so you can't really see it just until I can find something to treat it with but eitherway, everytime I look myself in the mirror I get depressed so bad
Took this picture from the worst lightning I could possibly find.
It doesn't look as bad as you see it. I've seen a lot worse. so yeah, Cheer up!
On 2016-06-27 at 5:12 AM, WelcomeSmirk said:When I see scars like that on guys it turns me on faster than lightning. Literally, if you think this scar is the reason you're not getting any guys or girls you'd be wrong. Instead of worrying about this little mark on your face that actually looks sexy, go work on being able to strike up conversations; I bet that's where your true faults lie.
edit: AND BY FAULTS I MEAN NOT HAVING THE ABILITY TO BE CHARISMATIC AND CHARMING.
Might be a late reply, been really busy but eh, not sure how scars can turn on girls, I would understand if it was like line scars, like battlescars are sorta badass but eh, rounded scar in the middle of like forehead is another thing and I think any other person who has or would imagine having it, would see it the way I do. But thanks anyway lad
On 2016-06-27 at 8:31 AM, MissyCheyser said:It doesn't look as bad as you see it. I've seen a lot worse. so yeah, Cheer up!
Well idk how you see it but thank you.
On 2016-06-26 at 6:40 AM, Tretinoin said:This is going to sound a bit harsh, but its important that you internalize it.
Getting depressed over something that mild is crazy. You're a man, men aren't meant to be perfect or have porcelain flawless skin. In the caveman days, do you think having a tiny scar like that would affect whether or not you would be accepted into a tribe, or affect your potential with a mate?
That isn't even the point. My point here is that: that scar is so mild & so irrelevant. Stop seeking approval from others just to feel good about yourself. The only approval you NEED is the approval from YOURSELF. If someone notices, who cares? They're just curious on how you got it. If they think it looks weird (which I doubt anyone does, cause its barely noticeable), ignore it. Be in charge of your own emotions, it'll help you in the long run when you have an ACTUAL problem worth stressing out over.
Well, you're not the first person to put a harsh comment.
Kevin9k9:
You should do some research on asymmetrical attraction of the opposite sex. How imbalances like scars and minor positional flaws make people more attractive. There's actual psychological studies to support my claim that I find scars like yours an instant turn on.
PS : I wouldn't mind your scar one bit if I had it, I bet I'd still pull .
17 hours ago, WelcomeSmirk said:Kevin9k9:
You should do some research on asymmetrical attraction of the opposite sex. How imbalances like scars and minor positional flaws make people more attractive. There's actual psychological studies to support my claim that I find scars like yours an instant turn on.
PS : I wouldn't mind your scar one bit if I had it, I bet I'd still pull .
Well I appreciate this but when I get abit older i'll probably do something about it
16 hours ago, snarkygirl said:I honestly don't mind scars on men especially. Its actually harder for women with scars as women are supposed to be " smooth and pristine"... Lol.
tbh, irather have a gf with something like acne(scars) thats minor rather than flawless skin, because i'm not attracted to girls with like way to perfect skin.