To hit on the original topic, no you're not deceiving anyone in my opinion. I believe if anyone has a problem with how they look, they should do whatever they can to make it better, including putting on makeup.

It's nice to say stuff like "beauty is on the inside" and all of that, which I think is true. However, it doesn't really make it any easier. Especially with acne because you can do everything right and still have it.

On the bright side, if you find a guy that's good to you when you have problem skin, which I'm sure you can, you'll know he likes you for you and thinks you're beautiful no matter what.

haha..u're such a stubborn idiot.

u still refuse to believe its ur crazy mentality thats a turn off..u still blame it on acne.

omg!

It's not like when I approach a girl that I say this sort of stuff, when I approach a girl I act normal and behave properly, so if she rejects me that's not the reason, it's likely in my looks, and the only major issue I see is my acne anyway.

what do you usually tell them when you meet them, anyway?

Usually I just go up to them and say something like...

Hey this is random but I think your cute or something like that, then ask them questions about themselves then ask for their phone number.

Game does not exist so it's not really very important, as long as you are not very awkward, or weird, or scare them off it's mostly looks and not what you say.

Misc., I feel like you are lost and confused. Deep down you are a nice guy but you are confused because of acne. First of all, just relax and just remember that you are not hated because of your acne. Also, stop being shallow! Shallowness will not help! I also recommend counselling. Cheers!

To hit on the original topic, no you're not deceiving anyone in my opinion. I believe if anyone has a problem with how they look, they should do whatever they can to make it better, including putting on makeup.

It's nice to say stuff like "beauty is on the inside" and all of that, which I think is true. However, it doesn't really make it any easier. Especially with acne because you can do everything right and still have it.

On the bright side, if you find a guy that's good to you when you have problem skin, which I'm sure you can, you'll know he likes you for you and thinks you're beautiful no matter what.

Thank you Tim! I appreciate your input

Thank you Tim! I appreciate your input

i dont know how it works everywhere else but in my country and in a few countries i have some idea about,just walking up to a girl on the road and saying u're cute,can i have ur number isnt confidence ..its desperation.

which btw is evident from the way u go on and on about getting laid.

i am 21 and a medical student.my study group has mostly guys who deal with several 'hot' things everyday.

i have never seen or heard desperation in their voice.

they all clean minded and may be thats why their dog dont hate them.

do u have a mind?

u need counselling man.

u actually think ur dog hates u because u got acne??seriously?

Yes my dog started to hate me around the time I got acne...

why?

Because a dog sees a human and understands good genes and good health, my acne to my dog is an indicator of poor health, my poor dog probably thinks that I have some sort of contagious disease and runs away from me because of it.

In a way I feel bad for having acne because I feel like I failed the people I know, my parents didn't deal with this issue, neither did my brother so they don't understand it.

They think I just need to wash my face with water more and it will go away but we know that doesn't work.

Also if I do not know any girls because I don't have a social life, and I am not in school, how else am I supposed to meet girls other then approaching them on the street or on the train? Also I tell them I am attracted to them, because it lets them know my intent and my interest, so they don't wonder why I am randomly talking to them.

any idea of how a brain works?

how different homo sapiens(us,human) are from other animals?

any idea how wrong u r about women and about urself?

any idea how desperate and immoral u sound?

u can go "anywhere" - not just a gym..a social place and start getting friendly.

befriend someone,like her for what she is..be FRIENDS !damn it!

all u think abt is how hot someone is and 1st thing that makes u go to them is the idea of getting laid.

if u were someone i knew,i would myself take u to a psych consult and get ur head straight.

because honestly,this way u'll NEVER get a girl and all that will happen is u'll get all the more desperate and brainless.

sometimes,i feel sorry for u.

i understand that u need guidance..and i dont wanna sound like i know anything - i am really a no one with whatever sense i imbibe from around.

i am may be a year older than u but believe me i wasnt this thick when a year ago.

and the worst part is u wont take help.u wont listen.

u keep saying its ur acne ,u've everything else fine - u r masculine and hot and all that stupid stuff!

look at the posts u've done.

so many REAL girls have tried explaining u things - but all u do is keep posting male model pics and saying girls only care abt looks and body.

boys dnt care abt looks.

they'd do anyone unless they aint deformed..including a tree.

are u that dumb?really brother?

girls put on make up?

yes.

do u realise why?

a girl,by standard description , is expected to be 'beautiful'..u understand that?

To respond to the original topic - No, I don't think you're deceiving anyone. I wear makeup almost everyday (though I do go out without any on occasionally) but I do it for me, not really anyone else. I do it because it makes me feel more comfortable, and basically, prettier. I feel more confident and outgoing when I have my makeup on - it's the same reason why people go out and get their hair done, or get nicer clothes.

Don't think of it as deceiving, just think of it as something you do for yourself to make yourself more comfortable. I think it's perfectly fine to try and conceal a blemish or something else that's temporarily on your face. It'll be gone eventually, so why not hide it now?

To respond what this guy is saying about women always rejecting men with acne, and women having it "easier"...

That is absolutely not true. I have known many women to be attracted to men with acne before. Case in point - one of my closest friends had a HUGE crush on one of our guy friends that had moderate - severe acne. She never mentioned it once; she thought he was really cute (and he didn't have a super muscular body either). You're classifying all women as incredibly shallow, which is insulting. Personality is really what matters the most. And game IS important. You can't just go up to a girl and say whatever and expect them to like you.

To respond to the original topic - No, I don't think you're deceiving anyone. I wear makeup almost everyday (though I do go out without any on occasionally) but I do it for me, not really anyone else. I do it because it makes me feel more comfortable, and basically, prettier. I feel more confident and outgoing when I have my makeup on - it's the same reason why people go out and get their hair done, or get nicer clothes.

Don't think of it as deceiving, just think of it as something you do for yourself to make yourself more comfortable. I think it's perfectly fine to try and conceal a blemish or something else that's temporarily on your face. It'll be gone eventually, so why not hide it now?

To respond what this guy is saying about women always rejecting men with acne, and women having it "easier"...

That is absolutely not true. I have known many women to be attracted to men with acne before. Case in point - one of my closest friends had a HUGE crush on one of our guy friends that had moderate - severe acne. She never mentioned it once; she thought he was really cute (and he didn't have a super muscular body either). You're classifying all women as incredibly shallow, which is insulting. Personality is really what matters the most. And game IS important. You can't just go up to a girl and say whatever and expect them to like you.

liked!

(since i can't like ur post - i am told i've reached the quota of positive votes for the day )

To respond to the original topic - No, I don't think you're deceiving anyone. I wear makeup almost everyday (though I do go out without any on occasionally) but I do it for me, not really anyone else. I do it because it makes me feel more comfortable, and basically, prettier. I feel more confident and outgoing when I have my makeup on - it's the same reason why people go out and get their hair done, or get nicer clothes.

Don't think of it as deceiving, just think of it as something you do for yourself to make yourself more comfortable. I think it's perfectly fine to try and conceal a blemish or something else that's temporarily on your face. It'll be gone eventually, so why not hide it now?

To respond what this guy is saying about women always rejecting men with acne, and women having it "easier"...

That is absolutely not true. I have known many women to be attracted to men with acne before. Case in point - one of my closest friends had a HUGE crush on one of our guy friends that had moderate - severe acne. She never mentioned it once; she thought he was really cute (and he didn't have a super muscular body either). You're classifying all women as incredibly shallow, which is insulting. Personality is really what matters the most. And game IS important. You can't just go up to a girl and say whatever and expect them to like you.

Thank you girl! Your post made my day!