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I agree with this thread...and I think it's partially down to typical gender roles with guys approaching girls which a few people have already said...but pretty sure everyone so far has missed out an obvious reason - make up. I think that anyone with acne goes through the same stuff regardless of gender but us girls can at least cover it up or distract from it a little with make up, not to mention the fact that it gives us a huge confidence boost. This is why most girls won't go out the house without a full face of make up and another thing I've noticed on this site is a lot of girls saying that their boyfriends haven't even seen them without make up.
I do think it's unfair on guys but like others have said, any girls that would reject you because of acne is not a girl worth having. Plus I don't mean to be harsh but you seem more concerned about getting laid than actually getting to know a girl and we're not stupid, that kind of attitude usually shows. Also try and remember that sometimes you just won't be someone's type, they may not see that initial physical attraction regardless of your acne - you'll never please everyone so don't take it so personally.
IMHO, I think it's your facial features, which are hard to see from a distance, and your behavior. Maybe, you should have a longer haircut and wear glasses in order to look smarter, police will no longer think your a thug . Also, your muscles and thick neck make your head look small. Why do you look like your crying in the last pic? In all the pics your facial expressions are alarming. Smile!
its what u think.people who called u dirty(i am just taking ur words but its quite hard for me to believe) are hopeless and immature and unworthy of u or anyone.
its mostly the way one thinks that changes the scene.
like i freak out when i need to ago near the person i have a crush on,thinking my acne will not let him like me..but thats what i think.
he might not have that in mind at all.
infact,now am quite sure he doesnt because with time i've realised he's not the dumb superficial kind who sees just skin or looks.
no wonder i like him for who and what he is as a person.
We already know that personality matters little and is second to looks, so if I act and behave normally, and get constantly rejected how is it not a looks issue then?
personality is second to looks?
i am single and i've been single for a long while and that has nothing to do with my acne.
i have had flings now and then and the reasons they dint work are anything but my or their skin.
i personally never fall for men who 'just' look good.
i actually have a crush on a guy who's short ,dark and not with the best skin(if that even matters) but he's so stable,mature and charming in a subtle way(no he doesnt do stand up comedy in the group and neither does he crack jokes every other minute).he's quiet,with a good persona(personality n volume are two different things,eh!) and a good good MENTALITY.
oh thats one long list.=p
OP... I agree that looks are important. But "good looks" are highly subjective. You are an overall good-looking guy. But judging by your posts...holy crap, you seem so arrogant. Girls may not want to date you because all you care about it "getting laid" and how hot you are. It's nice to be handsome and fit, but good lord, have some respect for women and maybe you'll find your situation to be a little different. You seem immature-- especially because you're so proud of "grinding on two girls at once." That's nasty...
Girls do like handsome men, but they also like a man that will treat them nicely and with respect. It doesn't sound like you really give off that "nice guy" vibe. Arrogance is not sexy....OVER confidence is not sexy... re-evaluate how you're talking to girls and try not to come off as a douchebag. 
One thing I can DEFINITELY agree with you on...the percentage of girls with acne and boyfriends on this site FAR exceeds the percentage of guys with acne and girlfriends on this site. I think that has a lot to do with the fact that the gender roles dictate that a male is supposed to approach a female to initiate contact/a future relationship and it's damn near impossible to approach girls when you're a guy with acne. It takes a huge toll on your self-confidence to even try because the fear of rejection is amplified to like 10 times the normal rate (I'm talking just normal fear of rejection that most guys experience, THEN you gotta add acne into the mix)
Honestly I think acne affects both genders equally and it's just as painful and emotionally tough for women as it is for men so I could never say that acne is "easier" for girls to deal with because I just don't think that's true, but I do think it is much easier for girls with acne to find significant others as opposed to guys with acne. My reasoning there is that's just the way the gender roles are set up....the guy is supposed to chase the girl, etc etc. It sucks a whole lot and I'd love to have a girlfriend to have some kind of support system in place where I could hear some encouraging words sometimes even when I'm feeling low about my skin, but right now I'm trying trying to get myself clear so that I can find the confidence to get a girlfriend.
Look man, I have no fear of approaching and I have been approached, yet it all ends in rejections?
It's already hard enough when your a stranger approaching a girl on a bus, street or train, since you are a stranger to them and they'res no familarity and it's always no matter what going to be a low success rate ( unless you look like an international male model. ) but when you have acne it's going to make it much much harder.
To the people saying it's confidence... when you talk to someone you do not see their confidence, the fact that I even approach a girl that is a stranger shows I have confidence in the first place, my posture is good, my physique is good.
Why do they reject?
Because I have bloody red spots all over my forehead.
I completely agree here friend. yeah I do think girls are way more shallow then guys when it comes to picking a mate. woman in America only want to thing either a hot guy or a rich one. I have a similar dilemma even though im only 19 im a tall guy 6ft and 170-5 so im slim, from a far I can tell that at least initially I do get the attention of other females. but when they take that close look and see my dark marks, it's over. I really want to be clear from everything by the time im 21, I swear if I do I'll hit on any fine girl without a bf lol. I went to the zoo today and god dame man let me tell you, I was looking more at the hot a$$'s there then the animals LOL. so many hot girls there bro, I want so bad to have that flirting experience with all of them. seriously though so many sexy girls I was like dame this is crazy! and because it's hot out they all had very sexy clothes! sigh... I want to bang real bad, but of course dame acne is messing up my chances right now. good luck to you and tell us how you manage to succeed when you do!
Legit post man,legit post.
I'm no feminist but jheeeeez you are completely objectifying women...you should be listening to FlaggLives, he seems to have a bit of respect for women - but you and fatalbert911 just sound like horny teenagers! Acne isn't stopping you from getting girls, it's the fact that you're so obviously desperate to 'grind' or 'get laid'!
I'm no feminist but jheeeeez you are completely objectifying women...you should be listening to FlaggLives, he seems to have a bit of respect for women - but you and fatalbert911 just sound like horny teenagers! Acne isn't stopping you from getting girls, it's the fact that you're so obviously desperate to 'grind' or 'get laid'!
I am only 20 years old, I have high testosterone levels and am masculine and have a very high sex drive, I cannot control myself, I go to the gym almost every day and lift heavy and see attractive girls around my age wearing tight yoga pants who are in good shape and I just want to pound them, but I know that my acne is holding me back and repulsive to them.
I don't understand what I am doing wrong or what I am saying wrong, I know other guys in similar shoes with similar physiques who act and feel the same way as I do, as our high testosterone levels and high masculinity causes a high sex drive and they feel the same beliefs the only difference is...
they have clear skin so girls are ok with it and willing to smash.
Where as because I have acne they think I'm a disgusting pervert or something.
Acne has fucked me over, now it's time to fuck acne over and then move on.
I'm no feminist but jheeeeez you are completely objectifying women...you should be listening to FlaggLives, he seems to have a bit of respect for women - but you and fatalbert911 just sound like horny teenagers! Acne isn't stopping you from getting girls, it's the fact that you're so obviously desperate to 'grind' or 'get laid'!
I am only 20 years old, I have high testosterone levels and am masculine and have a very high sex drive, I cannot control myself, I go to the gym almost every day and lift heavy and see attractive girls around my age wearing tight yoga pants who are in good shape and I just want to pound them, but I know that my acne is holding me back and repulsive to them.
I don't understand what I am doing wrong or what I am saying wrong, I know other guys in similar shoes with similar physiques who act and feel the same way as I do, as our high testosterone levels and high masculinity causes a high sex drive and they feel the same beliefs the only difference is...
they have clear skin so girls are ok with it and willing to smash.
Where as because I have acne they think I'm a disgusting pervert or something.
Acne has fucked me over, now it's time to fuck acne over and then move on.
You sound like a silly little teenager.
Let me repeat my last post: You are NOT being rejected because of your acne. You are being rejected because you are staring at women in "tight yoga pants." Btw...it's not your acne that's making people think you're a disgusting pervert. It's the fact that you're SO intensely into looks and you just want to have sex with everything that seems attractive to you. Women care WAY more about personality than you're giving them credit for. Because you haven't said one thing about conversing with women-- only about how they think you look and how you think they look-- your true character is revealed.
Why are you commenting more on the guys' posts here rather than listening to what the actual GIRLS have to say? Isn't that the problem in the first place? Grow up a little, learn that objectifying women for your sexual arousal isn't the way to go, and maybe things will be different.
Tell those people to fuck off and surround yourself with good people who won't give a damn about your skin and who will appreciate you for being you. Back in elementary school, I was called a "nerd", "reject", "loser". My acne wasn't bad, but I was bullied like this because I had good grades and I wore glasses. It's the same thing with acne. People will bully you because you are different, that's just how it is. Instead of succumbing to their remarks and wanting them to like me, I hung out with people who were nice and supportive to me. You can't live your life having to please everyone, and if you've found a couple of friends who like you and don't give a flying fuck about your acne, then that's not bad, is it? As the saying goes :" Those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind."
I saw a lot of your posts here about girls rejecting you. Maybe it's not your acne, but you just think it is because of what you've been through in high school. I also blame my acne when guys don't text or call back, but deep down, I think it's my confidence that's been crushed by acne and what I've been through in the past. I've always been reserved , shy and awkward around people, and with the acne, that makes it 10X worse. Maybe the guys I've met are more into extroverted girls, or maybe it was something I said that turned them off, who knows, it's all in the past, and I just move on and forget about them because they weren't that significant in my life in the first place anyway.
By the way, judging by the pictures in your other posts, your acne isn't bad at all. If I saw you in the streets, I wouldn't even take notice of it.
I'm no feminist but jheeeeez you are completely objectifying women...you should be listening to FlaggLives, he seems to have a bit of respect for women - but you and fatalbert911 just sound like horny teenagers! Acne isn't stopping you from getting girls, it's the fact that you're so obviously desperate to 'grind' or 'get laid'!
I am only 20 years old, I have high testosterone levels and am masculine and have a very high sex drive, I cannot control myself, I go to the gym almost every day and lift heavy and see attractive girls around my age wearing tight yoga pants who are in good shape and I just want to pound them, but I know that my acne is holding me back and repulsive to them.
I don't understand what I am doing wrong or what I am saying wrong, I know other guys in similar shoes with similar physiques who act and feel the same way as I do, as our high testosterone levels and high masculinity causes a high sex drive and they feel the same beliefs the only difference is...
they have clear skin so girls are ok with it and willing to smash.
Where as because I have acne they think I'm a disgusting pervert or something.
Acne has fucked me over, now it's time to fuck acne over and then move on.
You sound like a silly little teenager.
Let me repeat my last post: You are NOT being rejected because of your acne. You are being rejected because you are staring at women in "tight yoga pants." Btw...it's not your acne that's making people think you're a disgusting pervert. It's the fact that you're SO intensely into looks and you just want to have sex with everything that seems attractive to you. Women care WAY more about personality than you're giving them credit for. Because you haven't said one thing about conversing with women-- only about how they think you look and how you think they look-- your true character is revealed.
Why are you commenting more on the guys' posts here rather than listening to what the actual GIRLS have to say? Isn't that the problem in the first place? Grow up a little, learn that objectifying women for your sexual arousal isn't the way to go, and maybe things will be different.
Conversation doesn't matter, they'res no magic words that you can say to get a girl to like you.
I have approached girls and I act normal, don't think that because of what I say on this forum that I go up to a girl and say that sort of stuff, basically you approach a girl saying hey excuse me, state interest that you think she's hot or cute, if she doesn't reject you right there, ask her name and about her, then ask for her number, then ask her to hangout.
Usually they will either reject you when you state interest about 50% of the time, and if they don't reject you there, they usually give their phone number the other 33% of the time, and the other time they find some excuse to not give it, then when she gives her phone number, most of the time they find an excuse to not hangout if they respond back.
Don't think that because I talk about wanting to get laid or get sex only on here, that I walk up to a girl and say something like hey want to have sex... that's not the issue, the issue is my skin.
Also girls care about a man's looks more then a man cares about a girls looks, if you don't agree... then why is it that I haven't seen one pussy slayer with skin as bad as mine? I see guys with less masculine and worse facial structures, worse hair, worse physiques, shorter then me who get attractive girls, but not one with skin as bad as mine?
Why is it that I see plenty of unattractive fat and out of shape girls with in shape guys, yet you don't ever see fat and out of shape guys with girls at all?
75% of men are so desperate to get laid because of having a higher sex drive, that they will literally have sex with anything, and stick their penis into a tree hole if they could get off by that. If you dispute this, pick the worst looking girl in your highschool and the best looking man, and make an online dating profile, and the girl will get 10X more messages from men, then the guy would get from women.
My looks would be amongst the elite in my community if I had clear skin. But I don't so it has fucked me over, and makes people repulsed to me, before I even talk to them, even my dog started to hate me and leaves when I started to get acne I can't help it, I need to get rid of this monster that's ruining my life and I need to fix it.
Tell those people to fuck off and surround yourself with good people who won't give a damn about your skin and who will appreciate you for being you. Back in elementary school, I was called a "nerd", "reject", "loser". My acne wasn't bad, but I was bullied like this because I had good grades and I wore glasses. It's the same thing with acne. People will bully you because you are different, that's just how it is. Instead of succumbing to their remarks and wanting them to like me, I hung out with people who were nice and supportive to me. You can't live your life having to please everyone, and if you've found a couple of friends who like you and don't give a flying fuck about your acne, then that's not bad, is it? As the saying goes :" Those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind."
I saw a lot of your posts here about girls rejecting you. Maybe it's not your acne, but you just think it is because of what you've been through in high school. I also blame my acne when guys don't text or call back, but deep down, I think it's my confidence that's been crushed by acne and what I've been through in the past. I've always been reserved , shy and awkward around people, and with the acne, that makes it 10X worse. Maybe the guys I've met are more into extroverted girls, or maybe it was something I said that turned them off, who knows, it's all in the past, and I just move on and forget about them because they weren't that significant in my life in the first place anyway.
By the way, judging by the pictures in your other posts, your acne isn't bad at all. If I saw you in the streets, I wouldn't even take notice of it.
Those pics were in good lighting or I photoshopped the acne out of it.
Also again I have posted about how confidence does not matter, we need to understand one thing.
If a man approaches a women in the street/train/bus/gym, etc... in the first place he automatically has shown levels of high confidence to even go up to her and talk to her and be direct with her, because he has already shown that he is willing to accept rejection and does not fear it.
Thus you cannot say, you were not confident enough, if you have shown interest and asked them out.
I'm no feminist but jheeeeez you are completely objectifying women...you should be listening to FlaggLives, he seems to have a bit of respect for women - but you and fatalbert911 just sound like horny teenagers! Acne isn't stopping you from getting girls, it's the fact that you're so obviously desperate to 'grind' or 'get laid'!
I am only 20 years old, I have high testosterone levels and am masculine and have a very high sex drive, I cannot control myself, I go to the gym almost every day and lift heavy and see attractive girls around my age wearing tight yoga pants who are in good shape and I just want to pound them, but I know that my acne is holding me back and repulsive to them.
I don't understand what I am doing wrong or what I am saying wrong, I know other guys in similar shoes with similar physiques who act and feel the same way as I do, as our high testosterone levels and high masculinity causes a high sex drive and they feel the same beliefs the only difference is...
they have clear skin so girls are ok with it and willing to smash.
Where as because I have acne they think I'm a disgusting pervert or something.
Acne has fucked me over, now it's time to fuck acne over and then move on.
You sound like a silly little teenager.
Let me repeat my last post: You are NOT being rejected because of your acne. You are being rejected because you are staring at women in "tight yoga pants." Btw...it's not your acne that's making people think you're a disgusting pervert. It's the fact that you're SO intensely into looks and you just want to have sex with everything that seems attractive to you. Women care WAY more about personality than you're giving them credit for. Because you haven't said one thing about conversing with women-- only about how they think you look and how you think they look-- your true character is revealed.
Why are you commenting more on the guys' posts here rather than listening to what the actual GIRLS have to say? Isn't that the problem in the first place? Grow up a little, learn that objectifying women for your sexual arousal isn't the way to go, and maybe things will be different.
Conversation doesn't matter, they'res no magic words that you can say to get a girl to like you.
I have approached girls and I act normal, don't think that because of what I say on this forum that I go up to a girl and say that sort of stuff, basically you approach a girl saying hey excuse me, state interest that you think she's hot or cute, if she doesn't reject you right there, ask her name and about her, then ask for her number, then ask her to hangout.
Usually they will either reject you when you state interest about 50% of the time, and if they don't reject you there, they usually give their phone number the other 33% of the time, and the other time they find some excuse to not give it, then when she gives her phone number, most of the time they find an excuse to not hangout if they respond back.
Don't think that because I talk about wanting to get laid or get sex only on here, that I walk up to a girl and say something like hey want to have sex... that's not the issue, the issue is my skin.
Also girls care about a man's looks more then a man cares about a girls looks, if you don't agree... then why is it that I haven't seen one pussy slayer with skin as bad as mine? I see guys with less masculine and worse facial structures, worse hair, worse physiques, shorter then me who get attractive girls, but not one with skin as bad as mine?
Why is it that I see plenty of unattractive fat and out of shape girls with in shape guys, yet you don't ever see fat and out of shape guys with girls at all?
75% of men are so desperate to get laid because of having a higher sex drive, that they will literally have sex with anything, and stick their penis into a tree hole if they could get off by that. If you dispute this, pick the worst looking girl in your highschool and the best looking man, and make an online dating profile, and the girl will get 10X more messages from men, then the guy would get from women.
My looks would be amongst the elite in my community if I had clear skin. But I don't so it has fucked me over, and makes people repulsed to me, before I even talk to them, even my dog started to hate me and leaves when I started to get acne I can't help it, I need to get rid of this monster that's ruining my life and I need to fix it.
Darling, asking for a girl's number right off the bat like that will not get you a date. That's creepy and weird to most girls.
I'm sorry...but it's NOT your acne that's repulsive. It's your attitude.
Do you not realize that I am a real-life girl trying to give you advice?
I'm no feminist but jheeeeez you are completely objectifying women...you should be listening to FlaggLives, he seems to have a bit of respect for women - but you and fatalbert911 just sound like horny teenagers! Acne isn't stopping you from getting girls, it's the fact that you're so obviously desperate to 'grind' or 'get laid'!
I am only 20 years old, I have high testosterone levels and am masculine and have a very high sex drive, I cannot control myself, I go to the gym almost every day and lift heavy and see attractive girls around my age wearing tight yoga pants who are in good shape and I just want to pound them, but I know that my acne is holding me back and repulsive to them.
I don't understand what I am doing wrong or what I am saying wrong, I know other guys in similar shoes with similar physiques who act and feel the same way as I do, as our high testosterone levels and high masculinity causes a high sex drive and they feel the same beliefs the only difference is...
they have clear skin so girls are ok with it and willing to smash.
Where as because I have acne they think I'm a disgusting pervert or something.
Acne has fucked me over, now it's time to fuck acne over and then move on.
You sound like a silly little teenager.
Let me repeat my last post: You are NOT being rejected because of your acne. You are being rejected because you are staring at women in "tight yoga pants." Btw...it's not your acne that's making people think you're a disgusting pervert. It's the fact that you're SO intensely into looks and you just want to have sex with everything that seems attractive to you. Women care WAY more about personality than you're giving them credit for. Because you haven't said one thing about conversing with women-- only about how they think you look and how you think they look-- your true character is revealed.
Why are you commenting more on the guys' posts here rather than listening to what the actual GIRLS have to say? Isn't that the problem in the first place? Grow up a little, learn that objectifying women for your sexual arousal isn't the way to go, and maybe things will be different.
Conversation doesn't matter, they'res no magic words that you can say to get a girl to like you.
I have approached girls and I act normal, don't think that because of what I say on this forum that I go up to a girl and say that sort of stuff, basically you approach a girl saying hey excuse me, state interest that you think she's hot or cute, if she doesn't reject you right there, ask her name and about her, then ask for her number, then ask her to hangout.
Usually they will either reject you when you state interest about 50% of the time, and if they don't reject you there, they usually give their phone number the other 33% of the time, and the other time they find some excuse to not give it, then when she gives her phone number, most of the time they find an excuse to not hangout if they respond back.
Don't think that because I talk about wanting to get laid or get sex only on here, that I walk up to a girl and say something like hey want to have sex... that's not the issue, the issue is my skin.
Also girls care about a man's looks more then a man cares about a girls looks, if you don't agree... then why is it that I haven't seen one pussy slayer with skin as bad as mine? I see guys with less masculine and worse facial structures, worse hair, worse physiques, shorter then me who get attractive girls, but not one with skin as bad as mine?
Why is it that I see plenty of unattractive fat and out of shape girls with in shape guys, yet you don't ever see fat and out of shape guys with girls at all?
75% of men are so desperate to get laid because of having a higher sex drive, that they will literally have sex with anything, and stick their penis into a tree hole if they could get off by that. If you dispute this, pick the worst looking girl in your highschool and the best looking man, and make an online dating profile, and the girl will get 10X more messages from men, then the guy would get from women.
My looks would be amongst the elite in my community if I had clear skin. But I don't so it has fucked me over, and makes people repulsed to me, before I even talk to them, even my dog started to hate me and leaves when I started to get acne I can't help it, I need to get rid of this monster that's ruining my life and I need to fix it.
Darling, asking for a girl's number right off the bat like that will not get you a date. That's creepy and weird to most girls.
I'm sorry...but it's NOT your acne that's repulsive. It's your attitude.
Do you not realize that I am a real-life girl trying to give you advice?
I do not know any girls in real life, I have no social life outside of going to the gym.
So if your going to suggest making friends with girls, or getting to know them first before doing that... remember that I cannot do that.
If I wanted to I could not leave my house if I wanted for months, and when I do leave my house I usually do not see attractive women that are even in a position to be approached, as I usually just walk to the train and go to the gym then come back home.
If I max out my looks, it will work as I have gotten girls to kiss me before that I didn't know, and have gotten a girl to meet up with me, and had one girl who wanted to meet me at a motel but I didn't have money or a car to go, but for these 3 events I have probably been rejected 200 times in one way or another, and all of these girls eventually rejected me later anyway.
For the girls who say personality or confidence matters, I bring to you the male model experiments.
*Moderator edit - Images removed. Do not post personal chat logs without the approval of all participants, especially since these logs contained information that can be used to contact the chatter*
HERE IS ONLINE DATING THESE ARE THE RESULTS OF 4 MONTHS OF ONLINE DATING MAILBOX...
OBESE UGLY WOMEN GETS ALMOST AS MANY MESSAGES AS THE SECOND MOST ATTRACTIVE IN SHAPE MAN.
THE MOST ATTRACTIVE MAN GETS LESS THEN 10X THE MESSAGES THE MOST ATTRACTIVE WOMEN GOT.
THE OUT OF SHAPE MAN GOT 0 MESSAGES.
THE AVERAGE OR ABOVE AVERAGE WOMEN GET A FILLED MAILBOX.
Maybe you should look out for the desperate girls then you'll get lucky.
No such a thing as a desperate 18 to 21 year old girl, unless she is deformed or 500 lbs.
The fattest girl in my middle school and highschool got a new boyfriend once every 3 months, the best looking guy could not get a new girlfriend once every 3 months.
Her boyfriends are in better shape then her as well, and most of them are average and not fat as well.
Why did you make this thread?
You are a hazard to women everywhere. Your attitude disgraces the meaning behind sexual attraction and relation.
Please do not hurt any women or treat them like they are only for sex. They deserve more than that. They are human beings-- not sexual objects who are there to get "banged" or "smashed" or whatever nasty words you were using.
Proof you are an ignorant, sexist person:
You described the woman in the picture as "UGLY AND OBESE"
You described the man in the picture as merely "OUT OF SHAPE"
....interesting...
Why did you make this thread?
You are a hazard to women everywhere. Your attitude disgraces the meaning behind sexual attraction and relation.
Please do not hurt any women or treat them like they are only for sex. They deserve more than that. They are human beings-- not sexual objects who are there to get "banged" or "smashed" or whatever nasty words you were using.
Proof you are an ignorant, sexist person:
You described the woman in the picture as "UGLY AND OBESE"
You described the man in the picture as merely "OUT OF SHAPE"
....interesting...
In the words of lost cause on another forum he said this...
I don't condemn women for being superficial, I condemn women for being fake
See, I understand that girls care about looks, as in they want to fuck hot guys. What's there to hate? We want to fuck hot girls too. Nothing groundbreaking.
What I hate and makes me want to be featured in the next Fox News Alert is the fact that they WILL NOT ADMIT that being superficial is in fact being realistic, because looks are everything, and attraction equals looks.
They still want to be seen as deep creatures. They DONT WANT TO ADMIT THAT THEY ARE ATTRACTED TO A CERTAIN GUY BASICALLY BECAUSE OF HIS SKULL SHAPE, HAIRLINE, BODYCOMPOSITION ETC. By admiting this, they would be "just like guys", aka too realistic. They just dont want to lose that stupid Disney factor they grew up with, where everything is beautiful and pink. Fucking nope. Nature is brutal.
*Moderator edit - Read the board rules!*
That's what lost cause ( who is a mid 20's male in good shape with an above average face, who has dedicated his life to having sex with escorts, because dating for a male is like trying to run a race in a wheelchair. ) has to say, and I agree with him here.
I'm no feminist but jheeeeez you are completely objectifying women...you should be listening to FlaggLives, he seems to have a bit of respect for women - but you and fatalbert911 just sound like horny teenagers! Acne isn't stopping you from getting girls, it's the fact that you're so obviously desperate to 'grind' or 'get laid'!
I am only 20 years old, I have high testosterone levels and am masculine and have a very high sex drive, I cannot control myself, I go to the gym almost every day and lift heavy and see attractive girls around my age wearing tight yoga pants who are in good shape and I just want to pound them, but I know that my acne is holding me back and repulsive to them.
I don't understand what I am doing wrong or what I am saying wrong, I know other guys in similar shoes with similar physiques who act and feel the same way as I do, as our high testosterone levels and high masculinity causes a high sex drive and they feel the same beliefs the only difference is...
they have clear skin so girls are ok with it and willing to smash.
Where as because I have acne they think I'm a disgusting pervert or something.
Acne has fucked me over, now it's time to fuck acne over and then move on.
Come on, what's holding them back from having sex with you is not your acne. Unlike you, they have self-control and ,more importantly, you're a stranger to them. If a guy asks for my number to have sex with me , that turns me off, even if he was Johnny fucking Depp.
I was about to say something inspiring and insightful, but I don't think you're willing to hear it OP. You have an idea in your head and refuse to yield to the truth. Whilst I agree with the title, I don't agree that the reason you're being rejected is because of your acne. Your attitude and perception of women is bad.
I'm sure if you took a step back and analyzed each situation where you were rejected, I'm damn sure you'll find that the majority of the time, your acne had nothing to do with it. I'm a very in shape guy too but that can be a hindrance. They may find you intimidating (I've been told this), they may feel you're only out to use them for sex, they may feel that they'll be under pressure to look better (No one likes feeling insecure and having a partner who's in great shape, when you're not, screws with your head and self-image). There could have been a plethora of reasons and acne wouldn't be my best bet.
I should also mention that women smell desperation like a dog smells fear. Relax man, take it easy and get to know a woman. Find common ground and allow things to flow. If it works out it works out, if it doesn't, don't dwell on it. Your body language reflects your mood, kill the desperation. With fire.
AND for those few who really wouldn't give you a chance because of your acne, fuck 'em. You don't need them and when shit hits the fan, it's these types of people that are first to turn tail.
It's primarily the type of interaction you are engaging in. It sounds like you are randomly approaching girls that are complete stranger and you have no social circle. You'd have to be insanely good-looking for that to work. If you are just walking up to a girl you don't know, you are obviously going to be judge almost exclusively on your appearance. If you're not top-tier, then you need to meet people the good old-fashioned way through school and work and whatnot.
I'm an ugly guy (much uglier than you are) and life is pretty awful for us. At least prostitution is legal here
I was about to say something inspiring and insightful, but I don't think you're willing to hear it OP. You have an idea in your head and refuse to yield to the truth. Whilst I agree with the title, I don't agree that the reason you're being rejected is because of your acne. Your attitude and perception of women is bad.
I'm sure if you took a step back and analyzed each situation where you were rejected, I'm damn sure you'll find that the majority of the time, your acne had nothing to do with it. I'm a very in shape guy too but that can be a hindrance. They may find you intimidating (I've been told this), they may feel you're only out to use them for sex, they may feel that they'll be under pressure to look better (No one likes feeling insecure and having a partner who's in great shape, when you're not, screws with your head and self-image). There could have been a plethora of reasons and acne wouldn't be my best bet.
I should also mention that women smell desperation like a dog smells fear. Relax man, take it easy and get to know a woman. Find common ground and allow things to flow. If it works out it works out, if it doesn't, don't dwell on it. Your body language reflects your mood, kill the desperation. With fire.
AND for those few who really wouldn't give you a chance because of your acne, fuck 'em. You don't need them and when shit hits the fan, it's these types of people that are first to turn tail.
Beautiful.
"I should also mention that women smell desperation like a dog smells fear." This. They can also detect creeper stranger danger in the same way.
