Hey everyone I know I'm not always the most cheerful person on here because I have my depressing days x_x. But I think if I can really make someone smile on here, it will make my year! Here's just a couple things I wanted to get off my chest.
Guys who have acne/scarring .. you look fine! Trust me. I've seen many guys with it so bad but that never stopped me from being attracted to them. In fact, for some reason, it made them more attractive. Maybe because it indicates more testosterone? Which is always super sexy to a girl I'd actually prefer a guy who does NOT have perfect skin over a guy who does. Maybe this is me just being bias because I don't have perfect skin myself but whatever. The "rough" look is super sexy to some girls! I don't know about ALL girls but I know some who agree with me. So work it, guys!
Girls who have acne/scarring.. you look fine too! One of my best friends has it very severe at the moment but believe me, she gets approached by guys ALL the time. They don't seem to care so much for some reason. I understand feeling like shit because of it (I do most days) but I also get approached by guys/checked out still. & You all probably do as well but just don't notice it because you are too busy being down on yourselves. So smile because you're beautiful & know that this is not forever
Let's all work on de-stressing, relaxing, and living our lives properly I think this might even heal our skin!
I hear girls compliment me, I get approached by girls at the train station or at the gym every now and then, or by gay guys, I see girls checking me from a distance often... yet I don't get laid?
Why? The only things I can think of are my acne, they get close up to me and see my forehead is full of bloody open red marks.
You don't understand the pain it is to be a man with acne, just about any man would fuck just about any women if she makes it easy for him no matter her looks, where as you need to be close to be a male model to get laid with attractive women easily.
My acne has ruined my aesthetics, and I am in a constant battle and struggle day in and day out to try and become as aesthetic and good looking as possible, because I know the power that good looks ( and not some nonsense like personality or confidence that cannot be seen. ) brings.
I have no reason to smile, because society started to hate me when I got acne, they see me as subhuman or something, even my own dad hates me and would yell at me and start fights with me almost every day of my life from 9th grade on ( when I started to get acne. ) and tried to get me arrested and kicked me out of the house, now Ilive with only my mom and my bipolar and schizophrenic brother and my mom only makes minimum wage and can hardly support us so not only do I have acne but I am poor as well. Along with not having any people I talk to or hangout with outside of the gym anymore.
am sorry but acne or no acne is(ideally) never the reason one likes or dislikes someone.
if one does,then well,they need to re-think.doesnt he/she have any other REAL quality u like/dislike??
his mentality,his personality,the way he carries himself,way he thinks or may be the way he treats u.smiles!or talks!or works!or shares!or helps others!
u either like the PERSON or u dont.
u could like a nice great GUY with acne and dislike(or have no feelings at all) for someone who looks like david beckham and has PERFECT skin.
acne is just like any other physical attribute.
like height or weight or may be hair.
its not one reason for genuinely liking or disliking a guy.
also,if someone really likes or dislikes u for 'just' the way u look..i'd be careful if i were u mate.
for either he/she is superficial and is likely to end things soon so be ready!
and secondly they aint even worth it.
they dont deserve u.period!
u deserve better!
Confidence or personality does not matter much, looks matter more... proof.
For the girls who say personality or confidence matters, I bring to you the male model experiments.
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HERE IS ONLINE DATING THESE ARE THE RESULTS OF 4 MONTHS OF ONLINE DATING MAILBOX...
OBESE UGLY WOMEN GETS ALMOST AS MANY MESSAGES AS THE SECOND MOST ATTRACTIVE IN SHAPE MAN.
THE MOST ATTRACTIVE MAN GETS LESS THEN 10X THE MESSAGES THE MOST ATTRACTIVE WOMEN GOT.
THE OUT OF SHAPE MAN GOT 0 MESSAGES.
THE AVERAGE OR ABOVE AVERAGE WOMEN GET A FILLED MAILBOX.
You are a swetheart dreamergirl
Thank you, just trying to make things brighter around here
Misclegend, you are looking at things in a negative perspective. Of course personality and confidence matters! Are you kidding me? I don't know what kind of girls you are around but something's definitely messing with your head. And I don't think it's acne, to be honest. Honestly, I'm going to be completely honest, and don't think I'm hitting on you or anything... but you're super sexy lookswise. However, personality matters as well. I'm sure these girls are noticing you letting the acne get to you and that's why they probably don't want to be a part of the drama that comes with someone being insecure. I'm just trying to be really honest here, hun. You gotta work with what you were given. If I saw a guy like you somewhere WITH confidence, I'd think dayyummmm. But if you seemed very insecure or something, it would probably make me feel bad for you and therefore I wouldn't wanna flirt, etc. Does that make sense?
Don't think about your acne stopping you from getting laid. Lol, come on now. It's totally normal to think like that, but my guy friends have a lot of acne and still get laid. Because, like aanabill said, there's more to a person than just their acne. You gotta show the girls that!
You are a swetheart dreamergirl
Thank you, just trying to make things brighter around here
Misclegend, you are looking at things in a negative perspective. Of course personality and confidence matters! Are you kidding me? I don't know what kind of girls you are around but something's definitely messing with your head. And I don't think it's acne, to be honest. Honestly, I'm going to be completely honest, and don't think I'm hitting on you or anything... but you're super sexy lookswise. However, personality matters as well. I'm sure these girls are noticing you letting the acne get to you and that's why they probably don't want to be a part of the drama that comes with someone being insecure. I'm just trying to be really honest here, hun. You gotta work with what you were given. If I saw a guy like you somewhere WITH confidence, I'd think dayyummmm. But if you seemed very insecure or something, it would probably make me feel bad for you and therefore I wouldn't wanna flirt, etc. Does that make sense?
Don't think about your acne stopping you from getting laid. Lol, come on now. It's totally normal to think like that, but my guy friends have a lot of acne and still get laid. Because, like aanabill said, there's more to a person than just their acne. You gotta show the girls that!
I have not seen one person with acne as bad as mine get laid consistently with attractive girls.
In highschool kids who were...
uglier
fatter
shorter
then me were able to get a few attractive girlfriends and live a normal life.
Where as with my acne the girls in my class thought I was dirty, and I had one freshmen girl who was a 6/10 and sisters with my friends who liked me when I was junior or senior but I fucked it up because I was being an idiot ( although it was funny atleast. )
My acne has prevented me from living the life that I want to live.