My sons got rid of the redness when they switched grapeseed oil for their moisturizer. It seemed no matter what moisturizer they tried, their skin was always red. Now they just use pure grapeseed oil in place of moisturizer and it completely calms their skin. Also fades red marks quicker. It may not be moisturizing enough for everyone because it's a light oil, but they've had great results.

Maybe your skin is sensitive to one of the ingredients, not bp nessecerily. Try to use a calming face cream. Pure aloe gel is the best. You can make a face mask from yoghurt, or use sudocrem in a thin layer overnight. Generally, you need smth we use in skin irritations or sunburn. Avoid aha and other acids for a few days.