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Besides, it'd be cruel to pass down my high hairline, rosacea/acne prone skin and ugly bone structure to future generations.
Ok Ive read a couple of your previous post and you are being ridiculous in my opinion. Youre not going to be single for ever unless you keep that attitude. Now I have no idea what you look like but I high doubt youre as ugly as youre making yourself out to be. Now Im not the best looking guy out there and I get girls so Im sure you can too. You just have to have something else to offer other than your looks. Now if you are only trying to get girls that are 10/10 then yeah you probably are going to have a hard time as would 99 percent of guys. You have to remember that there are a lot of "average" looking girls out there too that like you have a lot more to offer than their looks so why dont you go after them?
Ok Ive read a couple of your previous post and you are being ridiculous in my opinion. Youre not going to be single for ever unless you keep that attitude. Now I have no idea what you look like but I high doubt youre as ugly as youre making yourself out to be. Now Im not the best looking guy out there and I get girls so Im sure you can too. You just have to have something else to offer other than your looks. Now if you are only trying to get girls that are 10/10 then yeah you probably are going to have a hard time as would 99 percent of guys. You have to remember that there are a lot of "average" looking girls out there too that like you have a lot more to offer than their looks so why dont you go after them?
10/10 girls LOL. Please tell me you're trolling? I am realistic and stay in the 4-5/10 league. My only condition is I dont date girls heavier than myself.
The only guy who could get a 10/10 girlfriend would be a 11/10 guy with millions in inheritance.
I've had multiple sources say that the girls I went on "dates" with were looksmatched or lower on the looks scale than me.
Girls are the choosers and tend to date up.
Nobody chooses their genetics. The "success" good-looking men have, and the lack thereof that the rest of us have, are merely the result of genetic accident at birth. No man has ever earned sex by anything they've done in life, despite any assertions they may make to the contrary. Because their genes are the only thing that matter to a woman, a good-looking man's existence is just as hollow and pointless as everyone else's is.
That's so disrespectful towards women!
Nobody chooses their genetics. The "success" good-looking men have, and the lack thereof that the rest of us have, are merely the result of genetic accident at birth. No man has ever earned sex by anything they've done in life, despite any assertions they may make to the contrary. Because their genes are the only thing that matter to a woman, a good-looking man's existence is just as hollow and pointless as everyone else's is.
That's so disrespectful towards women!
Wrong.
The only thing I disrespect is my shit genetics.
Women have been the choosers since the beginning of time. If women weren't picky the gene pool would be lower quality.
Nobody chooses their genetics. The "success" good-looking men have, and the lack thereof that the rest of us have, are merely the result of genetic accident at birth. No man has ever earned sex by anything they've done in life, despite any assertions they may make to the contrary. Because their genes are the only thing that matter to a woman, a good-looking man's existence is just as hollow and pointless as everyone else's is.
That's so disrespectful towards women!
Wrong.
The only thing I disrespect is my shit genetics.
Women have been the choosers since the beginning of time. If women weren't picky the gene pool would be lower quality.
That's a very unoriginal thing to say and you obviously don't even mean it!
Post a picture of yourself man. That way we can see if you genuinely are unattractive of if you just need to get over this negativity.
It's OK to be alone homie. Some people die before having sex and some are alone until they are 50. If your body is "sub-par" work on improving your mind. F*ck other people do it for yourself, you will feel much more fulfilled. Read books, learn another language (duolingo.com!!!), join a church group, start following a local sports team or find another hobby you enjoy. It will take your mind off your body and give yourself goals to strive for. It's OK to be alone just don't let your mind and body rot because you aren't getting laid. Even if they won't sex you plenty of women will be your friend if that's why you feel alone.
I definitely feel the way you do at times but i have to remind myself that each and everyone of us was created to be unique beings and no matter our draw backs, WE ALL HAVE SOMETHING TO OFFER. Looks do count but let me tell you, a positive attitude and an outgoing personality can make up for a lot. Learn to love yourself, flaws and all and recognize that until you can accept your flaws, no one will accept you the way that you deserve.
Keep up the god fight.
The suggestion find a hobby or join a church is spot on. It was during my darkest times that i reached out to God and felt that i was not alone. If you ever need to talk PM me.
Nobody chooses their genetics. The "success" good-looking men have, and the lack thereof that the rest of us have, are merely the result of genetic accident at birth. No man has ever earned sex by anything they've done in life, despite any assertions they may make to the contrary. Because their genes are the only thing that matter to a woman, a good-looking man's existence is just as hollow and pointless as everyone else's is.
That's so disrespectful towards women!
Wrong.
The only thing I disrespect is my shit genetics.
Women have been the choosers since the beginning of time. If women weren't picky the gene pool would be lower quality.
It's not genetics. It's culture.
Coming on here won't do anything. My friend has acne and he gets girls, same with me.
It's about confidence. Also girls are choosers becuse guys get so desperate to get with them they put the vagi*as on the pedalstole so just act yourself like who cares. A girl will come alone I will guarantee you that.
You should definitely find a hobby and join groups of people with like-minded interests whatever that maybe. On the other hand I would advise against the suggestion of going to church but this is just my personal feelings. I no longer want to believe in a God that would think it is just to curse children with acne and horrible skin. I'm now an atheist. This is your own personal decision of course.
Coming on here won't do anything. My friend has acne and he gets girls, same with me.
It's about confidence. Also girls are choosers becuse guys get so desperate to get with them they put the vagi*as on the pedalstole so just act yourself like who cares. A girl will come alone I will guarantee you that.
It's true that acne isnt the be all and end all but it can spell disaster if combined with a plethora of other genetic defects (like in my case a high hairline, rosacea redness all over my face, an overly protrusive brow, bulbous nose and a horsey face)
Nobody chooses their genetics. The "success" good-looking men have, and the lack thereof that the rest of us have, are merely the result of genetic accident at birth. No man has ever earned sex by anything they've done in life, despite any assertions they may make to the contrary. Because their genes are the only thing that matter to a woman, a good-looking man's existence is just as hollow and pointless as everyone else's is.While it hurts to know I won't get the kind of girl I want, at least I no longer feel frustration because I now know it is not my fault and never was.Besides, it'd be cruel to pass down my high hairline, rosacea/acne prone skin and ugly bone structure to future generations.
What the hell?
I went from having a hopeless future to creating my own success by working my ass off. My parents were C students if that throughout high school. My sister followed suit. I on the other hand, raked in honor rolls, student of the quarter yearly, and graduate with honors. I graduated college with a 3.8 GPA after that. Where's the genetics in that one?
Women want more than genes just like men want more than sex in a true relationship. There is more to life than that.
*Get the girl. You earn the girl by being you, not by doing something.
If you seriously think that sex validates you and your life... go pay for someone's company.
Nobody chooses their genetics. The "success" good-looking men have, and the lack thereof that the rest of us have, are merely the result of genetic accident at birth. No man has ever earned sex by anything they've done in life, despite any assertions they may make to the contrary. Because their genes are the only thing that matter to a woman, a good-looking man's existence is just as hollow and pointless as everyone else's is.While it hurts to know I won't get the kind of girl I want, at least I no longer feel frustration because I now know it is not my fault and never was.Besides, it'd be cruel to pass down my high hairline, rosacea/acne prone skin and ugly bone structure to future generations.
What the hell?
I went from having a hopeless future to creating my own success by working my ass off. My parents were C students if that throughout high school. My sister followed suit. I on the other hand, raked in honor rolls, student of the quarter yearly, and graduate with honors. I graduated college with a 3.8 GPA after that. Where's the genetics in that one?
Women want more than genes just like men want more than sex in a true relationship. There is more to life than that.
*Get the girl. You earn the girl by being you, not by doing something.
If you seriously think that sex validates you and your life... go pay for someone's company.
That doesn't work for us.
Nobody chooses their genetics. The "success" good-looking men have, and the lack thereof that the rest of us have, are merely the result of genetic accident at birth. No man has ever earned sex by anything they've done in life, despite any assertions they may make to the contrary. Because their genes are the only thing that matter to a woman, a good-looking man's existence is just as hollow and pointless as everyone else's is.While it hurts to know I won't get the kind of girl I want, at least I no longer feel frustration because I now know it is not my fault and never was.Besides, it'd be cruel to pass down my high hairline, rosacea/acne prone skin and ugly bone structure to future generations.
What the hell?
I went from having a hopeless future to creating my own success by working my ass off. My parents were C students if that throughout high school. My sister followed suit. I on the other hand, raked in honor rolls, student of the quarter yearly, and graduate with honors. I graduated college with a 3.8 GPA after that. Where's the genetics in that one?
Women want more than genes just like men want more than sex in a true relationship. There is more to life than that.
*Get the girl. You earn the girl by being you, not by doing something.
If you seriously think that sex validates you and your life... go pay for someone's company.
I think going to college and get high DPA not as easy as you mentioned. I'm going to college I know how difficult to have friends with my condition like this. Without relation it's very hard to get high score. All I observe, people not only talk to the subjects of the study but more than that. Then as our age that talking to women is interesting stuff, it makes me difficult to talk about this thing. I really can relate between genetics with DPA. If you live with a good genetics, you have more chances to explore yourself. You can focus on what you want without worrying being discriminated and unrespected. And unfortunately, the students who got top highest DPA in my college are all good-looking people. I don't want to judge women but there are some women that don't trat men based on appearance just like men also do. But still appearance has big influence in someone's carrier and relationship. We live in modern world with the globalization and a lot of cultures now becomes almost same to define success. Now, old generation people around me that used to care and love each other the new generation are now selfish. Kindness is almost no longer important because having fun is more interesting.
Nobody chooses their genetics. The "success" good-looking men have, and the lack thereof that the rest of us have, are merely the result of genetic accident at birth. No man has ever earned sex by anything they've done in life, despite any assertions they may make to the contrary. Because their genes are the only thing that matter to a woman, a good-looking man's existence is just as hollow and pointless as everyone else's is.While it hurts to know I won't get the kind of girl I want, at least I no longer feel frustration because I now know it is not my fault and never was.Besides, it'd be cruel to pass down my high hairline, rosacea/acne prone skin and ugly bone structure to future generations.
What the hell?
I went from having a hopeless future to creating my own success by working my ass off. My parents were C students if that throughout high school. My sister followed suit. I on the other hand, raked in honor rolls, student of the quarter yearly, and graduate with honors. I graduated college with a 3.8 GPA after that. Where's the genetics in that one?
Women want more than genes just like men want more than sex in a true relationship. There is more to life than that.
*Get the girl. You earn the girl by being you, not by doing something.
If you seriously think that sex validates you and your life... go pay for someone's company.
I think going to college and get high DPA not as easy as you mentioned. I'm going to college I know how difficult to have friends with my condition like this. Without relation it's very hard to get high score. All I observe, people not only talk to the subjects of the study but more than that. Then as our age that talking to women is interesting stuff, it makes me difficult to talk about this thing. I really can relate between genetics with DPA. If you live with a good genetics, you have more chances to explore yourself. You can focus on what you want without worrying being discriminated and unrespected. And unfortunately, the students who got top highest DPA in my college are all good-looking people. I don't want to judge women but there are some women that don't trat men based on appearance just like men also do. But still appearance has big influence in someone's carrier and relationship. We live in modern world with the globalization and a lot of cultures now becomes almost same to define success. Now, old generation people around me that used to care and love each other the new generation are now selfish. Kindness is almost no longer important because having fun is more interesting.
I had a hard time reading this. And further more don't agree with it partly because i see the opposite in where i live and work compared to what you say. ]
I focused on what i wanted to shut out the "bad" i saw about me. We are our own worst critics and I was definitely that even in my "good times." I learned to grow brass balls figuratively speaking because my life had no other way to go, so i worked in the midst of looking like a freak show. Of course i became a callus, quite, and further shy person that avoided social situations as much as i could. I despised people with perfect features. And t then i just didn't care because i knew what i wanted and was going to get it to prove "them" wrong. When in reality i was fighting myself instead of the world i thought i was. I created my own enemy , and projected it on others. I regret it now.
I know many nurses who don't look the part like you say. They are successful and great nurses. Those are the type i would have take care of me because they often tend to come across as ore human, forgiving, understanding, and compassionate about work rather than the pay check.
You will always run into those who judge men based on appearance instead of qualities and character traits,That is their own ignorance. Them you pay no attention to.
Word to the wise: You can be "like" them or you can be different, better.
Up to you.
K3tchup.. Sorry for my english. Im glad you could overcome your bad. I agree that at the end, it's all going back to individual choice. But what I want to underline is the level of acne severity. I know what you mean we are at worst critics. However, if you had tens acne as a result from hormonal imbalance and some low level of acne scars, I can understand you were able to handle this. But for some people acne problem has made their face to the level that other people sees them like seeing a facial defect. It can make you getting less respected. I think your place and my place are almost same. Here, I have seen people with many acne in their face enjoying their life but all I see these people not getting serious face problem like sevre scars. Some scars on cheek I think eryone can accept it as a normal ex acne person. But if you got so many scars till trigger reaction from people who look at you. I think it's a big problem.
K3tchup.. Sorry for my english. Im glad you could overcome your bad. I agree that at the end, it's all going back to individual choice. But what I want to underline is the level of acne severity. I know what you mean we are at worst critics. However, if you had tens acne as a result from hormonal imbalance and some low level of acne scars, I can understand you were able to handle this. But for some people acne problem has made their face to the level that other people sees them like seeing a facial defect. It can make you getting less respected. I think your place and my place are almost same. Here, I have seen people with many acne in their face enjoying their life but all I see these people not getting serious face problem like sevre scars. Some scars on cheek I think eryone can accept it as a normal ex acne person. But if you got so many scars till trigger reaction from people who look at you. I think it's a big problem.
Its never easy. I stepped into a patient room yesterday and today, feeling incomptent about me, my jobs, skills-being a nurse because of the recent flare up i had. I got upset, went into somewhat of a panic (all before hand) and it really has made my two days hell. I was followed by another nurse one day and the patient though I was the aide. I about flipped. I look young for my age compounded by the fact i suffer from the social stigma of a young peoples problem. My soon to be workers? Not so much or buy damn good makeup.
I might not have hormonal, or may. But still can't identify the triggers. I think shaving has a big deal to do with it (affecting the way my skin exfoliates, hair grows back). This has led to a nice size scar on my left check with several other small (but i say moderate or bigger) sized pitting scars in my right side. ANd i can't seem to 100% eliminate it unless i stop shaving, but hate how i look with facial hair. I do not know what to do with it nor make it compliment my facial structure or hair style (which sucks too). I look plain jane boring. I don't stand out like my personality does. I am mad about it. And just as put down like you are about your ailments.I don't get the respect i should get either. But i have gotten used to it.
I just try to focus on goal or a positive-that not always being about me, but maybe something that involves me. Its just how i deal with what you have described and others have stated.
Nobody chooses their genetics. The "success" good-looking men have, and the lack thereof that the rest of us have, are merely the result of genetic accident at birth. No man has ever earned sex by anything they've done in life, despite any assertions they may make to the contrary. Because their genes are the only thing that matter to a woman, a good-looking man's existence is just as hollow and pointless as everyone else's is.While it hurts to know I won't get the kind of girl I want, at least I no longer feel frustration because I now know it is not my fault and never was.Besides, it'd be cruel to pass down my high hairline, rosacea/acne prone skin and ugly bone structure to future generations.
You sell yourself way too short. The first step in finding a successful partnership/deeper connection is to love yourself. Yes, you have acne, rosacea and features that may not be what society tells us is normal but own it anyway. I struggle with this everyday but everyday i choose to still go out, showing my flaws to the world is a day i have won. Love will find you when you least expect it so don't give up. Live your life without expectation and live it to the fullest. The rest will fall into place the way it is meant to. And remember, you can still be partnered up and be very much alone.
In my opinion, most people here who could enjoy their life and not worrying about the scars do not have any serious acne scars. You may have acne scars 2, 3, or some scars that do not significantly destroyed your face. I hope you can give an advise appropriately. imagine if you had so many acne scars and wherever you go, when you got close to people and then till they questioned your face. Isn't that hard thing in life? When many people can talk about relationship with a girl or their partner, but you can't, how did you feel? When you have tried hard to make a relation with people till you brave to throw away your shyness with a hope people can accept you, but you are then ignored, they aren't interested in you. ISn't that hurt? If you tried to do all any social interaction in any group but at the end you were be rejected although not being told directly, how should we use our time and not waste it? You can register as a member in any group, but then no one wants to talk with you instead of you just make them uncomfortable with your presence. They just feel sorry to you, they come to you just for a sympathy not because they are truly interested in you. Don't we disturb them? To be honest, I am one that is really confused to think about the God's way of thinking.
In my opinion, most people here who could enjoy their life and not worrying about the scars do not have any serious acne scars. You may have acne scars 2, 3, or some scars that do not significantly destroyed your face. I hope you can give an advise appropriately. imagine if you had so many acne scars and wherever you go, when you got close to people and then till they questioned your face. Isn't that hard thing in life? When many people can talk about relationship with a girl or their partner, but you can't, how did you feel? When you have tried hard to make a relation with people till you brave to throw away your shyness with a hope people can accept you, but you are then ignored, they aren't interested in you. ISn't that hurt? If you tried to do all any social interaction in any group but at the end you were be rejected although not being told directly, how should we use our time and not waste it? You can register as a member in any group, but then no one wants to talk with you instead of you just make them uncomfortable with your presence. They just feel sorry to you, they come to you just for a sympathy not because they are truly interested in you. Don't we disturb them? To be honest, I am one that is really confused to think about the God's way of thinking.
Thank you for the thoughtful post. It also applies for facial redness.
So depressing 
Im trying to live my life though as though the female gender dosent exist and just pursue my dream house/car.