Is sounds like you need to hydrate your skin and perhaps unclog your pores. I recommend the Origins Charcoal Masque and Eminence products (see my signature)...or you can use Aloe Vera to regain moisture to your skin. I am sorry to hear about what you are going through... I haven't heard of BB Cream being absorbed into your skin... might I suggest loose mineral foundation? I use a wonderful line called Lily Lolo (see signature)... you can make it as light or full coverage.

I would do the charcoal masque 2-3x p/week and use the Aloe Vera or Stone Crop.

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