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(@bee4acne)

Posted : 07/08/2013 7:14 am

post-101310-0-78270300-1373295914_thumb.An elderly lady at lunch today asked if I had been bruised on my right cheek. She said it looked like I'd been punched in the face. Then she said, "maybe it's sunburn". I said "it's my scarring" and she apologised, but the damage was done sad.png I haven't had any active acne on that cheek for about 8 years so all the hyperpigmentation is goine. I was in the sun a lot over the weekend and I was wearing "Dallas" by "Benefit" bronzer, but I wouldn't have thought it was enough to make me look like I'd been punched. I mainly have rolling and icepick scars. Can't work out why it should look like that sad.png

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(@moonlitriver)

Posted : 07/08/2013 7:26 am

It's so disheartening when something like this happens. I remember once having a big cyst on my forehead and I had so many people asking if I'd hit my head on a door or something. Made me feel so much more self-conscious than I already did even though there was nothing I could do about it :( I guess we just have to remember that people say these things through ignorance not through any sort of malicious intent. Still makes you feel awful though!

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(@frasier)

Posted : 07/08/2013 8:18 am

When stuff like that happens life is very difficult, at least that's how I feel. We can't do nothing else but being strong and keep on being active when it comes to find solutions for are troubles :)

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(@mogthemighty)

Posted : 07/08/2013 8:41 am

You should have spat at her :D

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(@panos)

Posted : 07/08/2013 8:47 am

An elderly lady at lunch today asked if I had been bruised on my right cheek. She said it looked like I'd been punched in the face. Then she said, "maybe it's sunburn".

I said "it's my scarring" and she apologised, but the damage was done sad.png

I haven't had any active acne on that cheek for about 8 years so all the hyperpigmentation is goine. I was in the sun a lot over the weekend and I was wearing "Dallas" by "Benefit" bronzer, but I wouldn't have thought it was enough to make me look like I'd been punched.

I mainly have rolling and icepick scars. Can't work out why it should look like that sad.png

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Do it .Good luck with your new regenerated life.

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(@wheatfree)

Posted : 07/08/2013 8:53 am

That's one of those situations where I always think of what I should have said later, i.e. " You should have seen the other guy," All you can do is be thankful that this person was caring enough to take interest in your well-being. At least she meant well. Try growing up with a large port-wine stain birth mark that can't be covered up. Kids teased me all the time and they did not mean well! Acne made me even more popular and confident plus I never outgrew my acne. Maybe after menopause?? Anyway, be thankful for people who care enough to ask because the alternative might be nobody caring at all.

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(@simonukox)

Posted : 07/09/2013 5:59 pm

Your skin looks great in this photo! You skin tone is so even! Perhaps you just caught the light bad (which is something anyone can do)!

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(@aquasea)

Posted : 07/09/2013 8:44 pm

Bee4acne, I think the lady probably meant well...and your overall complexion looks really good...as for your scaring, that will heal 100% too with the right mesotherapy/ healthy diet/ lifestyle & key topicals....just remember your scar is temporary, and you WILL heal & have healthy skin in the very near future...so focus on that & just keep getting better & stronger each and every day...in the meantime, just take it slow & steady everyday, and learn to be relaxed, easygoing & hopeful about life in general....healing scars is a marathon event so don't sweat the small stuff....focus on your goals & not the obstacles...learn to be a wellness warrior & you'll become stronger & more resilient in the future as a result.... All the best!

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(@bee4acne)

Posted : 07/11/2013 3:36 am

This is a photo of my skin without makeup. You can see the hyper and hypopigmentation and some vetical lines of icepick scarring as well as rolling scars.post-101310-0-97389100-1373531757_thumb.

What would be my best course of treatment?

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