1. Your Scars remind you where you have been, they don't have to dictate where you are going.
2. No one can make you feel inferior without your consent and other peoples opinon of you does not have to become your reality.
3. It's never to late to become the person you once thought it was too late to be.
4. Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do
than ones you did, and the only way to build your self confidence is to do the things you fear.
5. Don't judge yourself through someone elses eyes.
6. Commit to improving your life by improving your self esteem, it affects the people that you attract in your life, your career, your family life and so much more. Each relationship you have with another person reflects the relationship you have with yourself.
7. Put yourself in a state of mind where you say to yourself, "Here is an opportunity for you to celebrate like never before, my own power, my own ability to get whatever I want out of this life!"Only when you become conscious of old and unchosen negative thought patterns will you allow yourself to change them, and even so, change, no matter how much for the better, still feels cold and lonely at first because it doesn't feel like home but remember: You are today where your thoughts have brought you; you will be tomorrow where your thoughts take you!
Don't wait to start living and enjoying your life until everything is just right. It will never be perfect. There will always be challenges, obstacles and less than perfect conditions. So what. Get started now. With each step you take, you will grow stronger and stronger, more and more skilled, more and more self-confident and more and more successful.
For everyone dealing with pain in this forum,
This is my wish for you,
Comfort on difficult days, smiles when sadness intrudes, rainbows to follow the clouds, laughter to kiss your lips, sunsets to warm your heart, hugs when spirits sag, beauty for your eyes to see, friendships to brighten your being, faith so that you can believe, confidence for when you doubt, courage to know yourself, patience to accept the truth, Love to complete your life.