Ziggy 0 Share Posted March 27, 2006 I met this guy online, and he really wants to meet me in person. He has "fallen in love" with my pictures, he tells me.. the thing is, you can't exactly see all the flaws in my skin in these pictures. What's worse is that I had a very bad breakout this weekend and I am going to be seeing this guy for the first time. I almost feel like telling him I can't go, because I am too ashamed. I don't know what to do! IT REALLY SUCKS. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
lena_2202 0 Share Posted March 27, 2006 You only get ONE chance to make a first impression.......atleast offline. my advice (and I speak from experience) wait until your comfortable enough with your skin to not regret your choice to meet this guy.Also you may be surprised, It might be he that may be lacking in skin perfection, just a thought... Quote Link to post Share on other sites
rmc 0 Share Posted March 27, 2006 I've never understood how you can fall for someone over the internet. I mean, it's just text. You have no idea who you are typing to....Anyway, different strokes for different folks and all that jazz. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
noteworthy 0 Share Posted March 27, 2006 so ur gonna meet up with a stranger who said he fell in love with ur pictures? tell me at least its a myspace thing where he has friends and stuff and not some random guy you chat with Quote Link to post Share on other sites
BFGUITAR 0 Share Posted March 27, 2006 That cantbe good...He fell in love with your pictures? Thats the biggest load of crap. Sure he may find you cute, but doesn he like you for you? He may have told you that he likes ur personality but so far all youve told us is that he likes you for your looks.Not much of a relationship there...Also make sur ehe isnt a 50 year old rapist... Quote Link to post Share on other sites
-Ru- 0 Share Posted March 27, 2006 hm, be careful ziggy is all I can say. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
peace of mind 0 Share Posted March 27, 2006 I've never tried meeting someone I met online but I'd also say be careful. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
belle83 0 Share Posted March 27, 2006 Hi, I met a guy online and ever since he's my boyfriend! He's the greatest guy ever and I'm so glad I met him. Anyway, like you, I was also a bit concerned about showing up with acne on my face. A few times, I didn't want to meet him when my acne was getting worse! But then I realized, well, if he really likes me, and if we're in a serious relationship, then why hide and be ashamed? Just be yourself when you meet the guy. And if he can't deal with your acne, then too bad for him!! We're all beautiful, we just need to deal with this acne and it takes some time. Good luck with your date (if you're going).Also, I'd suggest talking to the guy on the phone first. Did you chat a lot online? make sure it's safe to meet him. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
I_Love_Marvin 0 Share Posted March 27, 2006 I met this guy online, and he really wants to meet me in person. He has "fallen in love" with my pictures, he tells me.. the thing is, you can't exactly see all the flaws in my skin in these pictures. What's worse is that I had a very bad breakout this weekend and I am going to be seeing this guy for the first time. I almost feel like telling him I can't go, because I am too ashamed. I don't know what to do! IT REALLY SUCKS. Maybe he'll end up being a psychotic killer and end your sadness that acne has caused. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
lena_2202 0 Share Posted March 27, 2006 I met this guy online, and he really wants to meet me in person. He has "fallen in love" with my pictures, he tells me.. the thing is, you can't exactly see all the flaws in my skin in these pictures. What's worse is that I had a very bad breakout this weekend and I am going to be seeing this guy for the first time. I almost feel like telling him I can't go, because I am too ashamed. I don't know what to do! IT REALLY SUCKS. Maybe he'll end up being a psychotic killer and end your sadness that acne has caused. ha ha thats so mean! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Vince Is A Stud Muffin 10 Share Posted March 28, 2006 I finally met a chick from online last weekend and I had a big ole zit on my cheek, but i dressed up nice and presented myself very well I thought and shes totally into me. I say just look as beautiful as I know you can and don't worry about it. best of luck and I wanna hear some updates on how this goes... Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Hi Im Bitter Share Posted March 28, 2006 Where are all these people meeting online? Yahoo! Personals? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Changes 0 Share Posted March 28, 2006 I wouldn't worry too much about your appearance. It's safe to assume that someone who fell in love with you from seeing your pictures online has some problems of his own.Uh, if you really must meet him, be sure to meet in a very public place. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Fayth 0 Share Posted March 29, 2006 Where are all these people meeting online? Yahoo! Personals? good question Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Vince Is A Stud Muffin 10 Share Posted March 29, 2006 dude get a myspace and just write stuff about yourself and post a pic where you think you look attractive. don't be afraid to message and add people who live near you cause you never know what could happen like with me... Quote Link to post Share on other sites
miracles 0 Share Posted March 29, 2006 I know two people who met their partner on line.one is a friend's sister who is a divorcee, she marriedthe guy and emigrated to America.The other was an ex-colleague who was pretty and veryoutgoing, so i was surprised when she told me she mether bf on line, (they even brought a house together).Strange but it does happen! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
IposhT 0 Share Posted March 29, 2006 I've had the same problem, thats why I dont like meeting ppl off then net. Bcus in my pictures you can't really tell I have acne but in real life, eeek. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
ashley 0 Share Posted March 31, 2006 I've had the same thing as well.. but you know what, i did my hair and make up and put on nice clothes.. and thats all you can do. I wouldnt say postpone it.. unless you really really feel its going to effect how you present yourself to him.. if he is really 'in love' with you, it should be the last thing on his mind. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
haleystar 0 Share Posted March 31, 2006 I know two people who met their partner on line. one is a friend's sister who is a divorcee, she married the guy and emigrated to America. The other was an ex-colleague who was pretty and very outgoing, so i was surprised when she told me she met her bf on line, (they even brought a house together). Strange but it does happen! that's funny because i know a guy who is good looking who found a girl online and they recently bought a house together. weird, is your friend in florida or is that just a coincedense? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
ashley 0 Share Posted April 1, 2006 Where are all these people meeting online? Yahoo! Personals? good question there are tons of dating sites out there.. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
