Montoya 0 Share Posted February 25, 2006 Everyday I see my face in the mirror,i feel like crap,it looks hiddeous.I have a face full of coin sized rolling scars on my cheeks and deepish pitts scattered all over my forehead and a couple deep ones on my cheeks.It looks terrible in certain light.I've never had a girlfriend.The thing is though people ask me all the time if I have a girlfriend.The one day my phone gets an sms,and my friend asks me if thats my girlfriend.Then another time when i had to go out to a certain place,someone asked me if I'm bringing my girlfriend.I keep wondering if theyre just trying to make me feel better about myself by saying that,coz I certainly feel like I stand no chance of getting a girl.The other day a black girl I know came greeted me and when I greeted them back,they said " your so nice,I wish you were black".And a year and a half ago,the hottest chick in the school liked me,but my self confidence was way too low to do much and I think that i have got one or two more scars since then.Its so confusing,because I know how bad my skin looks,and I know that some people make comments about it behind my back.Then there are the other comments that I mentioned that keeps me wondering Quote Link to post Share on other sites
artlez 0 Share Posted February 25, 2006 Well for me it doesn't matter if a guy has scars on his face or not. I'm really shy around guys and don't talk to them at all. I guess that's from growing up with acne and redmarks. Anyway I'm sure there are plenty of girls willing to go out with you. Skin problems don't matter to me and probably don't for many girls. I've seen guys with acne holding hands with girls around town so it's not as big a deal as we think it is. problem is - if you're a guy and have scars, you need to compensate with a charming personality, which is hard to pull off with scars... you'd have to admit, most girls are shallow. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Donkey143 0 Share Posted February 26, 2006 Well for me it doesn't matter if a guy has scars on his face or not. I'm really shy around guys and don't talk to them at all. I guess that's from growing up with acne and redmarks. Anyway I'm sure there are plenty of girls willing to go out with you. Skin problems don't matter to me and probably don't for many girls. I've seen guys with acne holding hands with girls around town so it's not as big a deal as we think it is. problem is - if you're a guy and have scars, you need to compensate with a charming personality, which is hard to pull off with scars... you'd have to admit, most girls are shallow. So are guys but not everyone is. I think us many acne sufferers are the least shallow people. Not on ourselves but others because we can relate. I agree. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
