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I've been confused about my looks for the past four years, and of course acne doesnt help my pain. Really, my self esteem is totally low, actually i have none, when im around my friends or people in general i try not to show it, people see me as a funny kinda guy who doesnt take life seriously. But this isnt what i see. What i see is a monster and i mean, i've been living with this problem for a long time now, thankfully its getting better, im getting just a tiny bit of confidence day by day. But i was wondering do you think im an attractive person or not? And please dont lie, im not looking for pity and im not looking for compliments either. I just want total honesty. I'd rather be good lookign and have acne then be ugly and have a clear face to be honest. Because someday acne will go away and your looks will stay. So please give me your honest opinion. I mean i've put my picture on hotornot.com and my rating is like 4.7 so i dont get it.

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Guest Grow_To_Overthrow

I'm a guy so you probably don't want my feedback, but i think you're a decent looking bloke.

I personally can relate to the whole monster thing. I've been struggling for a while with how i feel that i look. I try not to draw attention to my woes though, because then people draw thier judgements about my looks on the fact that i am unsure about being attractive. Confidence speaks for itself, looks make it that bit sweeter.

And besides, there are many different people in this world and equally as many views on what is attractive.

Even when i had no acne, i had people who thought i was ugly.

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I don't think you are ugly either. You've got nice eyes and a cute smile.

I agree with what Grow_To_Overthrow has said as well.

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Its not worth worrying about what you look like theres nothing you can do about it. If youre comfortable with what youve got and smiling like you are in your pic then noone else will worry about it either.

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your not ugly..your just a nice normal attractive looking guy..and thats it. sometimes when i feel ugly i get my hair done, buy new clothes. usually its how we feel..i think deep down u know u arent ugly..maybe u had some bad experience and u see yourself everyday so u are picking at yourself..from a first impression and i am a stranger that doesnt know u, i say u are attractive. i wouldnt bother writing the post if i thought otherwise..i know it sounds a bit dicky but if u write down a few lines about how u look good, how u feel good and u repeat it to yourself everyday in front of the mirror or just to yourself u will feel it..for a ugy, if he walks with confidence and smiles, that in itself is attractive..me personally, i like sex appeal, status and confidence, looks is about a 3rd.

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i'd probably sell my soul to look like Brad Pitt, i look oriental and that is automatically considered ugly in our society thats why its twice as hard, i wish i was white

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if u want my opinion :think: u just look like a normal dude. trust me when i say this, if your friends see u as a funny, carefree guy, that is GOOD. in my experience, when people find out i'm insecure, it tends to result in negative consequences. when i am happy and just being myself, i may not win the ladies but people seem to enjoy my company.

i know that asian men are marginalized in terms of sexuality in this society--but we should fight to change that... even if its disheartening

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if u want my opinion :think: u just look like a normal dude. trust me when i say this, if your friends see u as a funny, carefree guy, that is GOOD. in my experience, when people find out i'm insecure, it tends to result in negative consequences. when i am happy and just being myself, i may not win the ladies but people seem to enjoy my company.

i know that asian men are marginalized in terms of sexuality in this society--but we should fight to change that... even if its disheartening

see thats why i hate, being normal, i dont want to be normal, i want to be above average damn it. I dont want to be an average Joe :(

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if u dont want ot b average then u probably arent..if u go your wholelife thinking like that, that u wish u were white then u will never amount to anything. guess what, nobody really cares about anyone else but themselves anyway..if u bcame an actor everyone would think u were hot..its all about status for a guy. if your a cool guy and u look attractive to females then there is no such thing as no.1..there never will be, everybody likes something different. i dont even like brad pitt..i lived in japan for 4 years..i liked those japanese men, they were sexy...get real, its not about what u look like its what u give out to the world u will get back, ppl can pick up on your vibe.

just because of how u think about yourself, that right there is ugly..that would push meaway both appeal wise and physically it would turn meoff. but looking at your photo i like what i see..if u get over oyurself and like who u are then the world is in your hands..

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Be who you are, proud of your orgin. To be honest, i hate people like u whining about how u wanna look like a fucking celebrity. If u have crooked eyes, bald head and all that bullshit then i probably wont say anything but you are fucking OKAY, suck it up dude. Your problem is that u care too much about ur look ....

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dude...seriously i agree with the post above...be proud of who u are ...ur a good looking guy...personally im not into asian guys but if i was...i'd be into u ...ur such a cutie pie and i'm not lying to u...no reason to..i dont know u ... stop concentrating on trying to be something ur not...embrace everything that u are .... u wanna be white? i mean, thats ridiculous! love ur asian-ness damnit! uve got nice features no need to wanna be like brad pitt ....what i just srcolled up once again ...ur coo-koo :wacko: ur a very cute guy stop being silly

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I've been confused about my looks for the past four years, and of course acne doesnt help my pain. Really, my self esteem is totally low, actually i have none, when im around my friends or people in general i try not to show it, people see me as a funny kinda guy who doesnt take life seriously. But this isnt what i see. What i see is a monster and i mean, i've been living with this problem for a long time now, thankfully its getting better, im getting just a tiny bit of confidence day by day. But i was wondering do you think im an attractive person or not? And please dont lie, im not looking for pity and im not looking for compliments either. I just want total honesty. I'd rather be good lookign and have acne then be ugly and have a clear face to be honest. Because someday acne will go away and your looks will stay. So please give me your honest opinion. I mean i've put my picture on hotornot.com and my rating is like 4.7 so i dont get it.

As a professional bitch monger, i can info'm ya'll niggaz dat wehn it cums to pimpin' hoes, it ain't a thang. A true playa be bonne wit dem skillz yo,. keeping a hoe aint't a thang either, u just gotta slap dat shit now n' den n keep da wordz "bitch, where muh money!don't make me feel sorry fo' yo' ugleh ass now hoe!" ringin in dey ears.

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I used to suffer from low self esteem....one bit of advice. GO LIVE.

Adopt an outgoing personality, a good sense of humour and a unique but fashionable dress sense. Have your own opinions, express them and you will be respected. Have a smile on your face as you work/socialise etc.

Your self esteem will no doubt increase as friends will grow closer or your friendship circle increases.

You have alot of things going for you i.e. your healthy, ur acne is mild and your independent.

good luck.

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im not even supposed to be asian, im 100% russian, and im supposed to be white damn it

but thanks, you're probably right

dude...seriously i agree with the post above...be proud of who u are ...ur a good looking guy...personally im not into asian guys but if i was...i'd be into u ...ur such a cutie pie and i'm not lying to u...no reason to..i dont know u ... stop concentrating on trying to be something ur not...embrace everything that u are .... u wanna be white? i mean, thats ridiculous! love ur asian-ness damnit! uve got nice features no need to wanna be like brad pitt ....what i just srcolled up once again ...ur coo-koo :wacko: ur a very cute guy stop being silly

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Wow, I know a lot of Russians and they are all very white, blond with blue eyes. But anyways, your not ugly at all. Your cute cheer up. :D

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Wow, I know a lot of Russians and they are all very white, blond with blue eyes. But anyways, your not ugly at all. Your cute cheer up. :D

hahaha thats why im so pissed, but thanks for trying to cheer me up

Its like god took a day off when he made me

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