Guest *Clara Share Posted October 16, 2005 A threat... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CursedSkin 0 Share Posted October 16, 2005 these ugly men you speak of are the rich ones.a ugly broke dude with a hot girl is very unlikely but its still possible. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
htownballa 0 Share Posted October 16, 2005 A threat... I'm a guy and I'll tell you that its definitely easier for a guy with acne to get a HOT girl than it is for a girl who has acne to get a HOT guy. A guy could care less about whether a girl has confidence while this is a HUGE factor to girls in choosing a mate. Guys care mainly about looks and sometimes only looks. Sure girls care about looks a lot too, but confidence in a guy is just as important. If you hear a girl say to someone "I'm so attracted to him" it usually means that she is attracted to the guy's confidence AND looks, while a guy saying the same thing would usually just mean the girl is attractive. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
girl3900 0 Share Posted October 16, 2005 I just think it's funny when you hear a guy that isn't blessed in the looks departement, talk about how he's "saving" himself for the perfect woman. I literally have to listen to guys complain everyday about how so and so isn't good looking enough for them when in reality, they'd be lucky to get someone even remotely as attractive as the girls they put down. so comical. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
o_Adam_o 12 Share Posted October 16, 2005 these ugly men you speak of are the rich ones. a ugly broke dude with a hot girl is very unlikely but its still possible. so true ... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest mishmosh Share Posted October 16, 2005 I go for ugly broke dudes, so it is possible :lol2: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starlight1515 0 Share Posted October 16, 2005 I just think it's funny when you hear a guy that isn't blessed in the looks departement, talk about how he's "saving" himself for the perfect woman. I literally have to listen to guys complain everyday about how so and so isn't good looking enough for them when in reality, they'd be lucky to get someone even remotely as attractive as the girls they put down. so comical. Ha ha ha ......... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest *Clara Share Posted October 16, 2005 I go for ugly broke dudes, so it is possible :lol2: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest mishmosh Share Posted October 16, 2005 oi you! are you implying mishmosh is ugly? hahaha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest *Clara Share Posted October 16, 2005 No... just a dirrrrty girly! :lol2: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest mishmosh Share Posted October 16, 2005 you seen my ex then?My dog's bum was better looking! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest *Clara Share Posted October 16, 2005 You deserve better mishmosh. Not sweaty fat guys with low hygiene. :lol2: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
o_Adam_o 12 Share Posted October 16, 2005 Ok im not belssed in the looks department mostly due to scars as below anyways im more of the mindset of most gals are outta myleague as in they could do much better than me with how i look. So i dont even try, its also that i lack confidence i suppose, but ill be lucky to get anyone.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
htownballa 0 Share Posted October 16, 2005 Ok im not belssed in the looks department mostly due to scars as below anyways im more of the mindset of most gals are outta myleague as in they could do much better than me with how i look. So i dont even try, its also that i lack confidence i suppose, but ill be lucky to get anyone.. Adam stop feeling sorry for yourself all the time and stop dwelling so much on your imperfections. Your pictures aren't even that bad yet you are acting like half of your face is missing or something. Focus on something else besides for your acne/scars. Go to the gym, get a job, try to get better grades etc...Also, try to go out more and socialize. Make little baby steps: make more eye contatct that you normally would in the beginning. After a week, try smiling at people as you make eye contact with them. Keep building yourself up until you feel comfortable striking up a conversation with a stranger. These things will gradually build up your confidence Adam. Having confidence will ultimately build up your mental and even physical health. Do these things Adam and you will be just fine I promise. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
InfiniteQuestions 6 Share Posted October 16, 2005 Adam stop feeling sorry for yourself all the time and stop dwelling so much on your imperfections. Your pictures aren't even that bad yet you are acting like half of your face is missing or something. Focus on something else besides for your acne/scars. Go to the gym, get a job, try to get better grades etc...Also, try to go out more and socialize. Make little baby steps: make more eye contatct that you normally would in the beginning. After a week, try smiling at people as you make eye contact with them. Keep building yourself up until you feel comfortable striking up a conversation with a stranger. These things will gradually build up your confidence Adam. Having confidence will ultimately build up your mental and even physical health. Do these things Adam and you will be just fine I promise. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Baldr 0 Share Posted October 16, 2005 Adam, don't put yourself down like that.. rise above it. If you want some honest feedback, get a haircut, join a gym, eat 6 meals a day, get out in the sun a bit more and enjoy life in general. You seem fixated on your acne/scars try and find some hobbies you enjoy that take you away from this board and thinking about acne. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BFGUITAR 0 Author Share Posted October 16, 2005 Go the gym and get a haircut is your best bet.Boosts self confidence through the roof. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest *Clara Share Posted October 16, 2005 Why does he have to get a haircut? It's the style today. I agree about the exercise. I've been working out to these Billy Blanks dvds and I look/feel great. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elsewhere 33 Share Posted October 16, 2005 I do not excersise. Ever.But that's because my job equals out to burning 2,300 calories on an average 6 hour day. Stupid manual labor. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BFGUITAR 0 Author Share Posted October 17, 2005 Long hair is not the style today. Short hair is the way to go.His hair was the style 30 years ago. Many people have long hair to show that they have interest in that period of time. But that doesnt mean its in style.But if your happy with it than confidence is better than looks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
htownballa 0 Share Posted October 17, 2005 yeah short hair on guys is usually better and in Adam's case it definitely is Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
S2000 0 Share Posted October 17, 2005 long hair is a style, but u have to look "right" to have long hair or else u look like a fag !! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Baldr 0 Share Posted October 17, 2005 Adam's facial structure, skin tone and hair texture would be more suited to a shorter hair style. It's looks like he said "not even trying". Long hair looks good with olive clear skin and dead straight or close to hair. Adam keep your head up champ when you start making changes and take pride in your appearance things will start happening for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
o_Adam_o 12 Share Posted October 17, 2005 Ok im not belssed in the looks department mostly due to scars as below anyways im more of the mindset of most gals are outta myleague as in they could do much better than me with how i look. So i dont even try, its also that i lack confidence i suppose, but ill be lucky to get anyone.. Adam stop feeling sorry for yourself all the time and stop dwelling so much on your imperfections. Your pictures aren't even that bad yet you are acting like half of your face is missing or something. Focus on something else besides for your acne/scars. Go to the gym, get a job, try to get better grades etc...Also, try to go out more and socialize. Make little baby steps: make more eye contatct that you normally would in the beginning. After a week, try smiling at people as you make eye contact with them. Keep building yourself up until you feel comfortable striking up a conversation with a stranger. These things will gradually build up your confidence Adam. Having confidence will ultimately build up your mental and even physical health. Do these things Adam and you will be just fine I promise. hmm ok, its much easyer said then done though.. but thanks for outlining what i should be doing, coz i dont have a clue where to start really Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MoonSpoon 0 Share Posted October 17, 2005 I'd keep the hair.And yeah, I am not the best looking person around. But I have met the most beautiful girl. Ah man, she is great. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
