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Being with three ladies in the elevator talking bout ugly people

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YEsterday i was with three ladies in the elevator with my friend. When i entered the elevator they just laughed out loud.

Ill quote what were they saying

one of their friends just got out and i met her on her way out.

1. "Anna just texted me that an ugly person will ride into that operator" and obviously it was me who bout to enter the elevator. "

2. "I wonder how they take all the insult daily. IMagine you are being make fun of your face everyday and you cant do something.

3. "I dont want to think what will happen to there kids if they made one. "

The Other lady respond

"Of course if you have big ears and big eyes that will be also your kid looks"

"IF it ever happens to me ill definitely throw it in the trash can."

4. "My cousin have an ugly nephew and they always make fun of his face"

5. "My god horrible to be make fun of all people"

After that when the elevator was filling up

They already talked bout diet

YEsterday was the worst day of my life and i was thinking of killing myself. I was shocked on what i was hearing

I was shocked and stunned i fucking freezed on what they were talking. And the worst part is i was with my friend.

He looks feel sorry for me for what happened

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So many people are vacuous I've noticed. Tv contributes to it I'm sure. I've been in similar situations and it can be nightmarish. I always wear sunglasses and remain silent because of evil people like that. I hope you never stoop to their level and know others like me deal with this. They aren't worth anyone's time. :cool2:

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Wow, reading that made me fucking rage. If I was in the same elevator with them when they said that I would have definitely snapped on them.

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this is what happens when you don´t feel good about yourself that´s what happens when people laugh at us. i´m an 19 year old girl who suffered from acne since i was 10 now i have mild acne but i still have some pimples and red marks going on there in my face. but i´ve noticed that alot of girls stare at me including boys but i know they are not staring at my skin is just because one time a girl told me that she liked the way i dressed. i´m not being vain or anything like that. but if i ever hear someone say something negative about my skin i would smack them. i´m a very nice girl but with a terrible attitude and sometimes agressive. i´m not saying that you should beat up anybody who said something negative about you but when once you tell them that they should stop talking trash and discriminate you because of your acne than they would respect you more because they know better not to mess up with people. you need to get their attention. if i was there in that elevator, i would just tell them ´´please be nice to other people nobody is perfect and i´m not gonna let you or anybody to discriminate or laugh at other people´s look is that clear!?´´ if you just stand there and you let them eat you! than they would never respect you.

in this world if you want to survive! you first need to accept yourself and make others respect you. teach them and show them who you are!. nobody ever said something about my acne but maybe is because they really know when i stare at them kind of bad! you can´t stand there and let them laugh at you and not doing anything!. even if they were not talking about you or whatever we people who are nice we need sometimes to stand for other people who can´t stand for themselves because they either are scare, shy, don´t have attitude. etc. i just wish i was there with you, and you will see how their faces would turn RED! they ain´t gonna play with me and i´ll fight for other people who have acne like me. we need to get respect! we are humans! nobody is gonna respect you if you stand there doing and saying nothing to defend yoursefl. i feel sorry for you i really do i know how you feel and sometimes negative comments can hurt our feelings so much! sometimes words hurt more than physically. (in some cases)

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omgoshhhh :( WHY are humans this way sometimes???=/ i study the human brain and no matter what i study i just....ugh=/ people are so MEAN.

sigh. the other day in my class we always have group to discuss a certian topic my teacher gives us. theres this girl in my group and shes judgmental of EVERYONE! and she was talking shit about some girl who "asks too many questions in class" and my group was like "wait which girl?" and she was like "the red head with all the ugly fucking acne!". and im sitting there next to her, with acne=/ i felt like sinking in my seat. siiiigh. why do we have to be judged for our skin???

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wow dude, i feel you.... sometimes i fear soo much that people will make fun of my acne...and many people have actually....but i give them the benefit of the doubt... somehow i see/read from most people that when we acne sufferers battle this long hard battle and get made fun off,we start to be insensitive towardsthese crude comments...

andin a way ...my opinion..is that we dont expect perfect noses clear skin etc anymore....we start to appreciate ourselves carry on with our lives and strive merely for- no acne...and any remaining scars whatsoever we ll try to improve...and take pride that we ve overcomed a battle that affected us soo much... and not to mention the knowledge we have picked upalong the way in our journey.

i am 18 and at a time where friends starrt clubbing socialising...i havent even had my first kiss yet...bla bla bla.... and notto mention suuferring from severe acne,scars and even hair loss all due to the dreaded oily skin.... but as time moves on...i started to see myself as someone whom i can accept......... many i wont even have a relationship in my life.... but nevertheless strives to find a solution.

i have gone through the phase of suicide/depression everything you ca think offf.... and yet still am suffering ffrmo acne...

but one thing i have realised is that if there is anything- one should always respect himself/herslef....accept themselves.... we might not be as priveleeged as stars etc...

but dont commit the crime of not accepting yrslf...

P.S - how yoou look and the being inside of you is 2 seperate entities.

hope you keep faith and strive on.....

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YEsterday i was with three ladies in the elevator with my friend. When i entered the elevator they just laughed out loud.

Ill quote what were they saying

one of their friends just got out and i met her on her way out.

1. "Anna just texted me that an ugly person will ride into that operator" and obviously it was me who bout to enter the elevator. "

2. "I wonder how they take all the insult daily. IMagine you are being make fun of your face everyday and you cant do something.

3. "I dont want to think what will happen to there kids if they made one. "

The Other lady respond

"Of course if you have big ears and big eyes that will be also your kid looks"

"IF it ever happens to me ill definitely throw it in the trash can."

4. "My cousin have an ugly nephew and they always make fun of his face"

5. "My god horrible to be make fun of all people"

After that when the elevator was filling up

They already talked bout diet

YEsterday was the worst day of my life and i was thinking of killing myself. I was shocked on what i was hearing

I was shocked and stunned i fucking freezed on what they were talking. And the worst part is i was with my friend.

He looks feel sorry for me for what happened

We may be "ugly" to them. Unlike them, we have beautiful souls, which is what really matters.

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I walked up on a convo at work and these two (not that amazing themselves) guys were talking about how a girl who has acne can be a turn off. I'm like "even one pimple?" and he's like "yeah, even one ruins it." I go "really boys? beggers can't be chosers" and walked away. I talked to my bf later and he said those guys are morons, it really doesn't matter what a girls skin looks like.

I have a really bad breakout right now and am about to go to work, hope they enjoy my face :ninja:

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I walked up on a convo at work and these two (not that amazing themselves) guys were talking about how a girl who has acne can be a turn off. I'm like "even one pimple?" and he's like "yeah, even one ruins it." I go "really boys? beggers can't be chosers" and walked away. I talked to my bf later and he said those guys are morons, it really doesn't matter what a girls skin looks like.

I have a really bad breakout right now and am about to go to work, hope they enjoy my face :ninja:

i LOVE when i read that girls or guys have a significant other that doesnt care about their acne=) makes me happy=)

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Gah if someone said anything about my skin i'd probably punch them in the face. I'm so sensitive about it i'd rather react angrily and hurt them back physically for causing me emotional pain lol.

Although violence solves nothing, it would make me feel better :{

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omgoshhhh :( WHY are humans this way sometimes???=/ i study the human brain and no matter what i study i just....ugh=/ people are so MEAN.

sigh. the other day in my class we always have group to discuss a certian topic my teacher gives us. theres this girl in my group and shes judgmental of EVERYONE! and she was talking shit about some girl who "asks too many questions in class" and my group was like "wait which girl?" and she was like "the red head with all the ugly fucking acne!". and im sitting there next to her, with acne=/ i felt like sinking in my seat. siiiigh. why do we have to be judged for our skin???

oh sweetheart i feel sorry for you she is totally a bitch! you know what? she probably hates you because she sees that you are waaayyy to beautiful don´t matter if you have acne or not. and that´s what she sees in you, that don´t matter if you have acne she can still see how beautiful you are. people who critize others by their looks is because they feel inferior to them and they are not confortable how they look. i´ve seen tons of girls with clear skin and some of them weren´t cute at all. but yesterday i met a girl who is 17 years old and has moderated to severe acne but she looks like a model! tall, blonde hair, blue eyes. and i can still see how beautiful she is despite the acne. besides nobody is perfect, and everyobdy has acne. that´s why nobody ever said something about my acne in front of me because i got to admit that i´m quiet agressive and they just don´t want to mess with me. so if i was there with you and that girl said that in front of me...holy cow her face would turn fully red of how hard i would have slap her in her face. and i can assure you she would never EVER say something about someone´s acne. trust and believe.

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I smile and placate their negative comments, seems to enrage them when they see your reaction, like nothing phases me. even a slight smirk. It is entertaining to say the least. Just dont let it get to you, It stings, but the reaction is even more irritating to them.

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This thread should be retitled "Being with three ugly ladies in the elevator talking about other people because they have their own qualities that they are insecure about." :lol:

Seriously, people like that talk about other people in order to take their mind off of their own insecurities and to try and distract themselves, but of course they aren't consciously aware of this. These shallow people may be appear to be happy, and maybe even have other external qualities that make it seem like their life is somehow better than someone else's, like a lot of friends or a significant other, but like attracts like and it's just a bunch of other shallow people. Someone who says that they'd throw a baby in a garbage clearly has insecurities about being judged themselves. I wouldn't let what they say get you down!

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omgoshhhh :( WHY are humans this way sometimes???=/ i study the human brain and no matter what i study i just....ugh=/ people are so MEAN.

sigh. the other day in my class we always have group to discuss a certian topic my teacher gives us. theres this girl in my group and shes judgmental of EVERYONE! and she was talking shit about some girl who "asks too many questions in class" and my group was like "wait which girl?" and she was like "the red head with all the ugly fucking acne!". and im sitting there next to her, with acne=/ i felt like sinking in my seat. siiiigh. why do we have to be judged for our skin???

oh sweetheart i feel sorry for you she is totally a bitch! you know what? she probably hates you because she sees that you are waaayyy to beautiful don´t matter if you have acne or not. and that´s what she sees in you, that don´t matter if you have acne she can still see how beautiful you are. people who critize others by their looks is because they feel inferior to them and they are not confortable how they look. i´ve seen tons of girls with clear skin and some of them weren´t cute at all. but yesterday i met a girl who is 17 years old and has moderated to severe acne but she looks like a model! tall, blonde hair, blue eyes. and i can still see how beautiful she is despite the acne. besides nobody is perfect, and everyobdy has acne. that´s why nobody ever said something about my acne in front of me because i got to admit that i´m quiet agressive and they just don´t want to mess with me. so if i was there with you and that girl said that in front of me...holy cow her face would turn fully red of how hard i would have slap her in her face. and i can assure you she would never EVER say something about someone´s acne. trust and believe.

lol well she was saying it about another girl with acne in class, but since i have acne i felt so omg that she was saying that about someone with acne u know?? but i totally agree with u. its hard living in a world where so much is judged on looks. thank you tho=]

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Ugh. I hate hearing about things like this. It breaks my heart.

I was helping a customer the other day, and she told me the person who helped her earlier was really helpful. I asked who it was, and she said "the boy with the horrible complexion".

That boy is my best friend, and it bugs me she couldn't think of any other way to describe him. Not hair color, height, facial hair....She didn't mean anything by it, but still....

Is that all people see us for?

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There's a lot of asshats in the world, but there's plenty of nice people too.

Some people's lives are so pathetic and miserable that they try and make themselves feel better by hurting others.

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im very sry for this bro :< but ykno if u werent feeling so insecure n freezed at that moment u probably wouldve noticed how fugly those bitches are themselves! ;/ at most cases ppl who ramble in that way r rly ugly n insecure themselves i can bet on that, so u just were paralysed by hearing those nasty words n didnt noticed. but hey those ugly bitch opinions doesnt matter dude, they can go n fck themselves, dont take too close to heart what low lifes whine there, i know its harder to do than say ofc, but rly try to be above all that, i mean its not like it was said by someone who matters right? just some random fugly unimportant bitches, they can go just to hell, just forget about this like ud forget seeing some nasty bug!

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Last week while in fitting room testing out some clothes i heard this:

Girl 1: i have low blood becos i dont eat vegetables, i only eat meat, which explains my skin not very nice.

Girl 2: oh then try to eat more vegetables. you know to girls skin is very important. even you are pretty you skin not good is useless. but if you dont have very good looks, a good skin would still makes you pretty you know. skin is very important to girls.

My heart sank. Though i know they arent refering anything about me cos when i step out, i could see the girl face quite pale and not those typical glowing shinning face. PLUS i was wearing think makeup as usual.

But it's still quite disheatening for thats also what i think too. Skin is really important.

I have people come to me can comment i have sweet and pretty face.

But i was never truly happy and over thrilled by it. My face would be worst than a shit if without makeup. I swear.

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