hellstorm 0 Share Posted December 1, 2009 my ex would always make mean comments about my face... and his acne was wayyy worse than mine. but it still ruined my self esteem. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
JayQ 4 Share Posted December 1, 2009 my ex would always make mean comments about my face... and his acne was wayyy worse than mine. but it still ruined my self esteem. Wow that is a lil messed up to me. Even if he is not serious, still not something to joke about. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
treefase93 1 Share Posted December 1, 2009 (edited) I joke about how ugly I am all the time. Makes the ladies more comfortable being around a handsome young stallion like myself . But I would never mention theirs, just like they'd never mention mine... just common courtesy. Assuming it wasn't bad. If I was a total pizza-face I doubt I'd even be talking to girls in the first place. I digress... He's a jerk... Unless you're both on close terms with eachother on your skin's progress, it's not really something that should come up unless he has... issues.Edit: ^granted I'm not a girl. Edited December 1, 2009 by treefase93 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Geeking 100 Share Posted December 1, 2009 good thing he's your ex Quote Link to post Share on other sites
whoalisa 3 Share Posted December 1, 2009 Maybe he did it to boost his own confidence about his acne? Or maybe he was joking with you because he knew his acne was way worse, and thought you'd get the joke? A very insensitive thing to do, regardless. Agree with Geeking though, good thing he's gone My boyfriend once said I looked particularly scacne-ish (scabby with acne? ) one day. It came out of nowhere, especially since I considered him to be more sensitive than that. It really hurt my feelings and quite honestly just about put me in tears. Not to mention I hadn't slept in god knows how many days, AND he was giving me a ride to a psychologist. Sheesh. Guys can be real jerks sometimes Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Kairasa 264 Share Posted December 1, 2009 Well that is horrible and I am glad he's your ex now.No, no man has ever made a comment about my face. I would never consider dating one who did either. That's just rude, no matter the motives behind it. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
dykim90 2 Share Posted December 1, 2009 the dude is a jackass. my girlfriend has not made any comments about my skin and she has flawless skin, literally. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Rwink 1 Share Posted December 1, 2009 My ex was incredibly sweet about it and didn't care except that it was a sign of ill health and made me really moody and irritable. He hated when I wore makeup, hid my face from him, or put prescription products on my skin that he thought were toxic. It turned out he was completely right, too. Anyway, I wish the same gentleness on everyone who has acne. You're still beautiful! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
hellstorm 0 Author Share Posted December 1, 2009 My ex was incredibly sweet about it and didn't care except that it was a sign of ill health and made me really moody and irritable. He hated when I wore makeup, hid my face from him, or put prescription products on my skin that he thought were toxic. It turned out he was completely right, too. Anyway, I wish the same gentleness on everyone who has acne. You're still beautiful! aw, he sounds like a keeper! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
hellstorm 0 Author Share Posted December 1, 2009 the dude is a jackass. my girlfriend has not made any comments about my skin and she has flawless skin, literally. good! with or without acne, i'm sure you're cute either way. you're lucky to have a girl thats willing to look past the acne. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Jerichoa 0 Share Posted December 1, 2009 What a jerk! None of my exes ever commented on it, and my current boyfriend hasn't either. He's a sweetheart. I've talked to him about it and he says it doesn't bother him. Of course, he hasn't seen me without makeup yet! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Jlisondra 47 Share Posted December 1, 2009 My ex was incredibly sweet about it and didn't care except that it was a sign of ill health and made me really moody and irritable. He hated when I wore makeup, hid my face from him, or put prescription products on my skin that he thought were toxic. It turned out he was completely right, too. Anyway, I wish the same gentleness on everyone who has acne. You're still beautiful! aw, he sounds like a keeper! yup he does. my ex never made a comment about my skin, and if he did make fun of me, we would have broken up sooner. lol. i used to complain about feeling shitty if my skin broke out, but he'd always say you're beautiful. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Vicious Lyss 12 Share Posted December 1, 2009 If any guy made fun of my acne period I wouldn't want to be associated with them. Let alone date them. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
pog 0 Share Posted December 3, 2009 What an asshole. I wouldn't want to be with a guy that was always pointing out my flaws. That's just a mean way for insecure guys to bring you down so you feel lucky to have their sorry ass. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Missfig59 2 Share Posted December 3, 2009 Apparently my guy thinks my acne is cute. Cute or not, I want it gone! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Geeking 100 Share Posted December 3, 2009 aww that made me smile ^^ Quote Link to post Share on other sites
sarahjn 0 Share Posted December 3, 2009 He is just insecure with himself and trying to put you down to make himself feel better. good thing you arent with him anymore. I went from flawless skin to a face full of acne two years ago right after my wedding and my husband always says he doesnt see it, he just see his beautiful wife. You will find a nice guy who loves you for you. trust me. I know how acne can make you hurt. You dont need an asshole putting you down. Its his own issues, not you. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
o_Adam_o 12 Share Posted December 3, 2009 my ex would always make mean comments about my face... and his acne was wayyy worse than mine. but it still ruined my self esteem. wow what a dumbass, that sucks ! did u try talking about it with him :S?! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
gda_11 2 Share Posted December 3, 2009 Why are guys such pricks?... And yeah I'm a guy too, at least I can admit it! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
kkjones 0 Share Posted December 4, 2009 I'm kind of in the same boat. My boyfriend has very, very mild acne (maybe just one pimple every two weeks...lucky bastard) and he hates when I wear makeup or use acne products. He's always told me that he doesn't care about my acne, which does help a little, but it doesn't change the fact that I just want it gone!!! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
doomsday 0 Share Posted December 4, 2009 Lol your meant to love each other. fuck this whole topic its pointless ;p Quote Link to post Share on other sites
hellstorm 0 Author Share Posted December 4, 2009 I'm kind of in the same boat. My boyfriend has very, very mild acne (maybe just one pimple every two weeks...lucky bastard) and he hates when I wear makeup or use acne products. He's always told me that he doesn't care about my acne, which does help a little, but it doesn't change the fact that I just want it gone!!! aw i know how you feel. your boyfriend sounds sweet :) Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Siava 55 Share Posted December 5, 2009 my ex would always make mean comments about my face... and his acne was wayyy worse than mine. but it still ruined my self esteem. What a jerk! No, my ex husband and current boyfriend never made comments. Actually, my boyfriend asked me if Accutane was helping (last year). I said, "I think so. You don't see a difference?!" He said, "I don't know. Your acne never bothered me to begin with so I can't tell." Very sweet. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Scar_Tissue 6 Share Posted December 5, 2009 In middle school my guy friend and I would tease each other but one tiem he brought up my acne and it hurt alot. I knew he wasn't calling me ugly because he kinda had a crush on me but still Quote Link to post Share on other sites
