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Who here is still a virgin?

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The reason I asked this is because in my human sexuality class my professor asked us to write down on a piece of paper if we are a virgin or not. She then collected the papers and did a poll and to my amazement I found that I am the only virgin in the class.

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Alot of them would have lied so you're not the only one.

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my guess is some did lie, but not sure what grade ur in. im a senior and would say maybee 10% are virgin, and those are the extreme fundamienalist catholics (i go to a catholic skool). with so many whores, any1 who wants to get laid can get sum pretty easily even if ur ugly as fukkkkkkkkkk

i am religious, and if i could go back I would like to be a virgin, but sadly i am too weak, and tempation and sin got to me. after a while, idk, sex just doesn't seem that important. i guess its for status in society, but im already established. the reason for sex is procreation anyways, i guess,

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yea maybe

It was anonymous though..

even if i was the only virgin i dont care. I actually proud to still remain one.

my guess is some did lie, but not sure what grade ur in. im a senior and would say maybee 10% are virgin, and those are the extreme fundamienalist catholics (i go to a catholic skool). with so many whores, any1 who wants to get laid can get sum pretty easily even if ur ugly as fukkkkkkkkkk

i am religious, and if i could go back I would like to be a virgin, but sadly i am too weak, and tempation and sin got to me. after a while, idk, sex just doesn't seem that important. i guess its for status in society, but im already established. the reason for sex is procreation anyways, i guess,

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if it was anonoyous then i dont see why any one would have lied,

and you should be proud as long as your a virgin by choice, not just cause u got no game or some shit like that

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if it was anonoyous then i dont see why any one would have lied,

and you should be proud as long as your a virgin by choice, not just cause u got no game or some shit like that

exactly, I was just amazed that i was the only one. kinda shocking

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if it was anonoyous then i dont see why any one would have lied,

and you should be proud as long as your a virgin by choice, not just cause u got no game or some shit like that

exactly, I was just amazed that i was the only one. kinda shocking

not to be rude by have u been living under a rock.

i live in a rural, conservative town in michigan, go to a conservative school, and yet society around me is liberal. I mean people now a days (including my self) have no morals, and only are concerned with please. sex, smoke weed, every1 does it, every 1.

america has no morals. and i am in a racist, god fearing town of whites. your out in liberal cali, i can only imagine how f'd up society is there.

out next president is a socialist and supported killing babies after failed aboritons. we live in a sick country. is it shocking? maybee it should be, but what do you expect. never cornform to the norm, keep your values, cause once you loose em, there lost forever

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my guess is some did lie, but not sure what grade ur in. im a senior and would say maybee 10% are virgin, and those are the extreme fundamienalist catholics (i go to a catholic skool). with so many whores, any1 who wants to get laid can get sum pretty easily even if ur ugly as fukkkkkkkkkk

i am religious, and if i could go back I would like to be a virgin, but sadly i am too weak, and tempation and sin got to me. after a while, idk, sex just doesn't seem that important. i guess its for status in society, but im already established. the reason for sex is procreation anyways, i guess,

Its not really religion thats stopping me from having sex. For me I see sex as the most intimate sign of love that should be saved for someone you truly love. Sex nowadays is so watered down and completely lost its intimacy.

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I'm 24 and a virgin. It's not completely by choice (*disclaimer* I'm not qualifying this. Do. Not. Ask. I will ignore any comments pertaining to it. *end disclaimer*), but it's not something I feel bad about. Hey, it's the ultimate method of birth control! Though, I hate it when I tell people this, and they say my boyfriend of about 7 years is cheating on me. Um, it's possible to keep it in your pants, people. I hate it when doctors don't believe me, too.

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I'm 24 and a virgin. It's not completely by choice (*disclaimer* I'm not qualifying this. Do. Not. Ask. I will ignore any comments pertaining to it. *end disclaimer*), but it's not something I feel bad about. Hey, it's the ultimate method of birth control! Though, I hate it when I tell people this, and they say my boyfriend of about 7 years is cheating on me. Um, it's possible to keep it in your pants, people. I hate it when doctors don't believe me, too.

yes I agree its completely possible to keep it in your pants and thats coming from a guy. It just takes self-control. My longest relationship was 3 years and I never gave into the temptation! many close calls but still strong haha. And yes abstinence is the ultimate birth-control!

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if it was anonoyous then i dont see why any one would have lied,

and you should be proud as long as your a virgin by choice, not just cause u got no game or some shit like that

exactly, I was just amazed that i was the only one. kinda shocking

not to be rude by have u been living under a rock.

i live in a rural, conservative town in michigan, go to a conservative school, and yet society around me is liberal. I mean people now a days (including my self) have no morals, and only are concerned with please. sex, smoke weed, every1 does it, every 1.

america has no morals. and i am in a racist, god fearing town of whites. your out in liberal cali, i can only imagine how f'd up society is there.

out next president is a socialist and supported killing babies after failed aboritons. we live in a sick country. is it shocking? maybee it should be, but what do you expect. never cornform to the norm, keep your values, cause once you loose em, there lost forever

thats my boy right there took the words right outta my mouth.. turned down plenty of offers b/c sex is supposed to mean something especially your 1st time..

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thats my boy right there took the words right outta my mouth.. turned down plenty of offers b/c sex is supposed to mean something especially your 1st time..

same here...my friends jaw dropped and they literally punched me (jokingly in the shoulder) when they found out about some of the gorgeous girls i could have "had"

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yes sex is the most intimate thing you can do with somebody! do it with someone you love!

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yeah i just hope i can find someone that will respect it and have similar values. its starting to seem unlikely after seeing what i've seen in my 4 years in college.

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i think it's great that you're not caving in on what you believe just to appear "normal" and fit in. so many people end up doing it simply for that reason, and i think that's ashame.

i'm 22 and a virgin, and it's difficult, but worth it :)

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as i read this all i shake and nod my head at the same time

out of pity, sadness, anger, envy, confusion, inspiration

those who don't care about religion----virgins----by choice

just beyond my mind, but i guess i am pessimistic about the capability of humans, to act good for the sake of acting good, rather than acting good out of fear and hope of a reward from good behavior

I have an atheist friend. She is a good person. Respects and follows the law, and does no harm. She is atheist. She says to me "just cause i don't believe in god, don't believe in punnishment (hell) or reward (heaven), doesn't mean I don't believe in right or wrong."

IDK, it really opened up my mind. There are those who say sex is not a big deal; they are wrong. It is a huge deal, and the decisions you make about it reflect you. I remember the 1st time; I was supposed to feel accomplished, feel joy, feel, feel as though finally, my life means something, and yet it ment nothing. I felt empty. I remember the 2nd time, but not as specically. I remember the 3rd time, and the 4th. Each less meaninful, more barabic, more going threw the motions because this is what I am supposed to be doing. The is what society tells me to be. I had become everything i hated. At this point I have lost count

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Why did we have to make this about values in terms of morals and not just values in terms of priorities?

Anyone can get laid if they want to put in the time and effort and energy and their standards are in the range that will get them laid.

I know guys who go to clubs every weekend trying to meet women, guys who will hook up with a woman who they can't stand, guys who will hook up with women they say they wouldn't publicly date (like, fat chicks).

I know guys who are good-looking, have not been with women, who focus their energy on making music or on their studies or other things they enjoy.

Sex is kind of important to me, but being in a relationship with someone I genuinely like is a prerequisite.

People who use virgin as an insult or say things like "s/he's all pissy because s/he's not getting any action" simply have a different set of priorities than you or I.

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Why did we have to make this about values in terms of morals and not just values in terms of priorities?

Anyone can get laid if they want to put in the time and effort and energy and their standards are in the range that will get them laid.

I know guys who go to clubs every weekend trying to meet women, guys who will hook up with a woman who they can't stand, guys who will hook up with women they say they wouldn't publicly date (like, fat chicks).

I know guys who are good-looking, have not been with women, who focus their energy on making music or on their studies or other things they enjoy.

Sex is kind of important to me, but being in a relationship with someone I genuinely like is a prerequisite.

People who use virgin as an insult or say things like "s/he's all pissy because s/he's not getting any action" simply have a different set of priorities than you or I.

I almost never post in this subforum, but I have to say, I love your post. I am also of like mind. I'm not having sex until I'm married to the guy who is my husband and best friend. End of story.

I'm not depriving myself of anything, I am simply holding onto something I will experience at some point. It's possible to keep yourself under control. And I know that when I have sex for the first time, it's going to be even more amazing cause it's with somebody I'll completely trust and love.

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Why did we have to make this about values in terms of morals and not just values in terms of priorities?

Anyone can get laid if they want to put in the time and effort and energy and their standards are in the range that will get them laid.

I know guys who go to clubs every weekend trying to meet women, guys who will hook up with a woman who they can't stand, guys who will hook up with women they say they wouldn't publicly date (like, fat chicks).

I know guys who are good-looking, have not been with women, who focus their energy on making music or on their studies or other things they enjoy.

Sex is kind of important to me, but being in a relationship with someone I genuinely like is a prerequisite.

People who use virgin as an insult or say things like "s/he's all pissy because s/he's not getting any action" simply have a different set of priorities than you or I.

I almost never post in this subforum, but I have to say, I love your post. I am also of like mind. I'm not having sex until I'm married to the guy who is my husband and best friend. End of story.

I'm not depriving myself of anything, I am simply holding onto something I will experience at some point. It's possible to keep yourself under control. And I know that when I have sex for the first time, it's going to be even more amazing cause it's with somebody I'll completely trust and love.

now thats what im talking about!! i couldnt agree with you more

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I carry around a chastity card in my wallet, and that i'll give it to my wife. It works well when girls dont understand my choice i show my card to them, and say how would it make you feel if your husband said "i've been waiting to give this to you my entire life". The usually get the point, plus its a good reminder for me.

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I carry around a chastity card in my wallet, and that i'll give it to my wife. It works well when girls dont understand my choice i show my card to them, and say how would it make you feel if your husband said "i've been waiting to give this to you my entire life". The usually get the point, plus its a good reminder for me.

I love that idea. That's really sweet. Lucky future girl :)

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