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Would you prefer someone who has acne, had acne, or a clear face...

I would prefer someone who has acne.. or had acne myself... but I only seem to find the ones with a clear face and my self esteem lowers ...

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If you mean being around people, I feel more comfortable being around people with mild acne. I have a harder time maintaining eye contact with clear skinned people and focusing on the conversation, because I'm juggling the convo with internal thoughts wondering what they think of my acne.

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It is irrelevant to me. As long as they are okay with the fact that I struggle to keep my skin clear.

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It definately depends on personality. I mean, obviously it brings down your self-esteem if your best friend has perfect skin and you're always breaking out, but if they have a good, supportive personality, who cares?

That's what I think anyway.

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i'm far less judgemental over bad skin than i am over weight , so how good or bad their skin was wouldn't bother me, i actually would in way like a girl to have quite bad acne and no nothing of how to treat it, so i can educate her and be like a Hero :D

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Based on reproducing, no acne - don't want my kids to have a multiplication factor of acne.

Based on dating, acne but clear skin now - they can relate.

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i would def prefer to date someone who has average acne [like me] or who has had acne in the past-i actually find it kinda a turn off when guys have beautiful clear babysoft skin [as well as the fact that it makes me jealous haha]

but ultimately i have been attracted to loads of people regardless of skin weight height colour style etc... beauty is sooo much more than just outward apperence!!!

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Personality and compatibility are obviously the deal-breakers, but assuming he has those, then my looks preference would be as follows:

Since I am the girl in the relationship, I would want to be better looking 'overall'. We could have equal acne, his could be worse, or his could be better, so long as my total package of looks (body + face) was slightly better than his. This might explain why I like dirty/rugged more than clean/respectable types. Aka, no pretty boy male models!

The current bf has better skin, but he doesn't manage it very well, so we are in a similar acne bracket right now. Lol

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Based on reproducing, no acne - don't want my kids to have a multiplication factor of acne.

Based on dating, acne but clear skin now - they can relate.

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Don't mind really, i think some girls with acne r petty. I can't say a lot cuz i got ance and if i have a girlfriend with ance and she was a good person on the inside i would not give a shit, cuz if u love some on thats all that matters.

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