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Thanksgiving disaster?

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I was going to leave acne.org since my face isn't breaking out because of Accutane, another product, and it just seemed like I was done. Well if you know me from another thread I made I said my "friends" abandoned me when they discovered a secret about me. Anyway I'm back because I have no one to talk to about my life situations except a couple of great online friends. Thanksgiving is awkward because my parents don't understand me for the way I am. They both got extremely drunk this morning, yelled, fought, and acted stupid. My parents aren't usually like this but I know that after years of marriage or maybe just getting older they both are freaking loopy in the head. They'd be a lot more mellow if they smoked weed istead of getting drunk. Before the dinner was done I was already in my car looking for a motel room to stay and sleep in for the day because I know I didn't want to hear them both act like zoo animals. I got back a few hours ago and they're both asleep. I know they wouldn't care much if I didn't have dinner with them since they're too self-absorbed in themselves. Ha! It feels good saying all this. I'm just glad their b/s is done with and that I was able to tell someone. Am I the only one with fucked up parents? Lol, Thank you. :angel:

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Glad you're back! :dance:

And yes, my parents got into an argument today, as usual. Then they sort of made-up and left to go to the casino. :confused: You're not the only one with weird/crazy parents lol.

:)

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Holidays are stressful, people try to hard to do too much. You have to be here at a certain time an you want to look just so , and impress Uncle so and so, whom you haven't seen in a year, etc..etc.. Holidays can bring ou thte best and the worst in people. Of course alcjohal is always a great catalyst for the worst!

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Theres tension in my house too, not as much as there used to be (used to be a hell of alot). But I'm at the point in my life where that shit wont happen. You said you were in your car looking for a motel room? if my parents got like that, im at the point in my life where I'd go nuts, and straighten em out.

My parents have a good marage, but they have their disagreements. anyway beng in in italian family where sometimes nothing is a big deal... there was a big blow up between my parents over something stupid a couple weeks ago. i got mad, and flipped out and ended the arguement. then when my parents weren't tlaking for a while after that i told em straight up what was what and tried to get em to cut it out.

Im a nice calm laid back guy. but theres a few certain things that i wont stand for. I dont want my family gettin outta control, so i wont hesitate to voice my opinions and if my parents gotta outta control like that i wouldn't have it.

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Heres a quick secret...Everyones family is screwed up. Seriously does anyone know a person who's family isn't in some way shape or form?

I have 3 friends who seem to have brady bunch families! lol. That was 1 thing i always told them i admired about their lives. But again, im sure their family isn't as much of a black and white tv sitcom family that i think of them to be, but they are a good family.

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Heres a quick secret...Everyones family is screwed up. Seriously does anyone know a person who's family isn't in some way shape or form?

I have 3 friends who seem to have brady bunch families! lol. That was 1 thing i always told them i admired about their lives. But again, im sure their family isn't as much of a black and white tv sitcom family that i think of them to be, but they are a good family.

No everyone has a cousin or an uncle or some kinda of relation that is messed up (don't fight me on this one I'm hoping to make people feel better :D)...those are just the relatives you don't hear about ;).

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Heres a quick secret...Everyones family is screwed up. Seriously does anyone know a person who's family isn't in some way shape or form?

I have 3 friends who seem to have brady bunch families! lol. That was 1 thing i always told them i admired about their lives. But again, im sure their family isn't as much of a black and white tv sitcom family that i think of them to be, but they are a good family.

No everyone has a cousin or an uncle or some kinda of relation that is messed up (don't fight me on this one I'm hoping to make people feel better :D)...those are just the relatives you don't hear about ;).

i know i was jus playing around alil bit. but hey, the grass always looks greener on the otherside theory right?

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So...am I lucky to be sent by my parents to study here alone in NZ?

But, I know they love me from inside, they just don't know how to express it outside.

Matheus, your parents love you!

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How can someone love you when they pay no attention to you? I only have myself just like so many people only have themselves. Anyway I'm just sick of their drama fests. I'm old enough to move out but I don't know when since I'm still taking a few school classes that I need to make up to graduate.

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Nope. :snooty: They wouldn't miss me either. They didn't even wonder where I was today, I'm sure. Do your parents care about you?

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Even if a family you know looks like the Brady Bunch from the outside, I can guarantee it won't look the same way behind closed doors. Every family has its faults, and chances are you won't see what that family is really like unless you are part of it.

Unfortunately, you can't choose your family, and so you have to make the best of what you have got. Somebody somewhere would give anything to have a family like yours, just like you would probably give anything to have a family like someone elses.

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Nope. :snooty: They wouldn't miss me either. They didn't even wonder where I was today, I'm sure. Do your parents care about you?

Why didn't you tell them where you went instead of waiting them to ask you?

I am not living with my parents.. I am with myself here in NZ.

They haven't called me for months. This doesn't mean that they don't care me at all.

Answer back to your question, I am the one who indeed should really call them and tell them my live here, instead of them calling me lol.

I love my parents, and I am SURE that they love me from inside.

I miss them :cry:

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Am I the only one with fucked up parents?

One Thanksgiving a couple of years ago my Dad got mad and drop-kicked the turkey, so my answer is, uh.. NO. There is no perfect family; they are all dysfunctional to a certain extent. My sis and dad used to fight like crazy, all the time, no one could stand to be around them when they were together. She moved out and now they get along really good. I think it would be wise for you to take advantage of a rent-free atmosphere while you are going to school, though, but once you feel comfortable moving out, I say go for it. You may find that you and your parents end up with a totally different and rewarding relationship.

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Heres a quick secret...Everyones family is screwed up. Seriously does anyone know a person who's family isn't in some way shape or form?

my family is cool.. even though i been bitching about my mom lately :). but my parents are divorced so :razz:

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