dog20 0 Share Posted October 13, 2006 i met someone that i like a lot. we are going to do something but its not a date. she said she would go with me because its "fun". this sucks. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
CalmCoolShot 1 Share Posted October 13, 2006 that does suck. i'm lonely too. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
dog20 0 Author Share Posted October 13, 2006 tell me about it, i think about her all the time. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
CalmCoolShot 1 Share Posted October 13, 2006 love sucks when it's not a mutual thing. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
dog20 0 Author Share Posted October 13, 2006 love sucks when it's not a mutual thing. she is really nice to me too. i guess she is just a nice person. oh well atleast i can do something with her. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Heartless 2 Share Posted October 13, 2006 There's nothing wrong with "fun". Many relationships have started from going out for "fun" and things have progressed from there. Give it time and a good chance - if it works out, it could go in the direction you desire. If it doesn't, just know you gave it your all and it wasn't meant to be. Good luck. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
dog20 0 Author Share Posted October 13, 2006 i doubt it'll turn into a relationship. she already knows how i feel about her so its time for her to make the move. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Necromancer 3 Share Posted October 13, 2006 i doubt it'll turn into a relationship. she already knows how i feel about her so its time for her to make the move. No, it's time for you to make a move. Go for a kiss or a hug or something. You obviously didn't let her know because if you did she would of either rejected you or accepted you. You must try because regret is a female dog and then you die. Go for platinum and you might strike gold at worst, go for coal and you will strike dirt at first. Good luck! Case closed. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Guest tvirus_outbreak Share Posted October 13, 2006 This will make you feel better:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W1kX_1T-sLYEither that or you'll just be very confused.It's catchy though Quote Link to post Share on other sites
santacruz 0 Share Posted October 13, 2006 she said she would go with me because its "fun". this sucks. You are on the friends ladder, sorry dude. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
answerme 0 Share Posted October 13, 2006 perhaps she just needs more time?...cheer up. it's probably too early to assume any particular response from her...just a two cents worth from a girl. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Mil0 0 Share Posted October 13, 2006 if she wants to have fun show her how much fun sh can have with you Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Fayth 0 Share Posted October 13, 2006 i doubt it'll turn into a relationship. she already knows how i feel about her so its time for her to make the move. No, it's time for you to make a move. Go for a kiss or a hug or something. You obviously didn't let her know because if you did she would of either rejected you or accepted you. You must try because regret is a female dog and then you die. Go for platinum and you might strike gold at worst, go for coal and you will strike dirt at first. Good luck! Case closed. I agree, Guy20, you must ''play'' with your life. Risk it all, fall, get back up. It's good experience. Wait for the vibe and move in Quote Link to post Share on other sites
dog20 0 Author Share Posted October 13, 2006 well its her move because she knows how i feel. i cant just force someone to be with me. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Guest been13years Share Posted October 13, 2006 It's hard to chill out and play it cool, but that's exactly what you have to do if you want a chance. Don't play head games with her, but just act casual and make her want to know more about you. I'm lonely too, but this is an off year. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
dog20 0 Author Share Posted October 13, 2006 i walked 10+ min. away from my car to walk with her to the dorms. then i walked all the way back to my car lol Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Guest been13years Share Posted October 13, 2006 Well, that's just chivalrous. Girls like being walked home. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
dog20 0 Author Share Posted October 13, 2006 i told her there was times where i wanted to walk with her. but, i didnt because she was busy talking to a friend on her way out (she said it was ok if i did). so i walked with her this time, they were talking for 8 min. then the friend left and i walked with her for the remainder of the time. i felt like an idiot lol. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
answerme 0 Share Posted October 13, 2006 so what did she say about that? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
dog20 0 Author Share Posted October 13, 2006 thanks for walking me to the dorm, i'll talk to you later, cya. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Guest been13years Share Posted October 13, 2006 Yeah, well, just give it time. Get to know her better. There have been a lot of times that I realized I really didn't like a guy after I got to know him better, even though I started out with a white-hot crush. Just protect yourself, dude, that's number one. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
dog20 0 Author Share Posted October 13, 2006 Yeah, well, just give it time. Get to know her better. There have been a lot of times that I realized I really didn't like a guy after I got to know him better, even though I started out with a white-hot crush. Just protect yourself, dude, that's number one. i dont think she has a crush on me lol Quote Link to post Share on other sites
answerme 0 Share Posted October 13, 2006 Yeah, well, just give it time. Get to know her better. There have been a lot of times that I realized I really didn't like a guy after I got to know him better, even though I started out with a white-hot crush. Just protect yourself, dude, that's number one. i dont think she has a crush on me lol perseverance can make her fall for you. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Necromancer 3 Share Posted October 13, 2006 Yeah, well, just give it time. Get to know her better. There have been a lot of times that I realized I really didn't like a guy after I got to know him better, even though I started out with a white-hot crush. Just protect yourself, dude, that's number one. i dont think she has a crush on me lol perseverance can make her fall for you. I don't agree. Guy20, you gotta make this move for real. It will have HUGE benefits for you in the long run. Even if you get rejected, you will feel a lot better and knowing that you tried. Regret is the worst feeling ever. What if some other guy starts doing the same thing and becomes HER boyfriend. How will you feel then? You were in the position to make a move but made none, and now you are going crazy thinking if that could of been you. The TIME is NOW. Make a move after you walk her to the dorm. Ask, "so what you think about us?" or better yet, "hey wanna check out a movie sometime?", or "let's get something to eat, you hungry?" You have all the skills you need. I will guide you through it all. Case closed. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
dog20 0 Author Share Posted October 13, 2006 Yeah, well, just give it time. Get to know her better. There have been a lot of times that I realized I really didn't like a guy after I got to know him better, even though I started out with a white-hot crush. Just protect yourself, dude, that's number one. i dont think she has a crush on me lol perseverance can make her fall for you. I don't agree. Guy20, you gotta make this move for real. It will have HUGE benefits for you in the long run. Even if you get rejected, you will feel a lot better and knowing that you tried. Regret is the worst feeling ever. What if some other guy starts doing the same thing and becomes HER boyfriend. How will you feel then? You were in the position to make a move but made none, and now you are going crazy thinking if that could of been you. The TIME is NOW. Make a move after you walk her to the dorm. Ask, "so what you think about us?" or better yet, "hey wanna check out a movie sometime?", or "let's get something to eat, you hungry?" You have all the skills you need. I will guide you through it all. Case closed. i asked her if she wanted to go bowling and she said yes. then i asked is this a good day and she said, "my boyfriend is visiting me that day." she broke up with him two days after that. so i asked her, "if the bowling thing was a date." she said, "no its just something thats for fun." and when i asked, "do you like me the way that i like you?" (i emailed her and told her how i felt). she said, "i just broke up with my b/f." so i guess that isnt a no. i dont know wtf to do guys. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
