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Valentines day

DireStraits

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So its valentines day today and i had a special gift for that special someone in mind.

I have a thing for this girl i deliver mail to every morning and i bought a rose for her. I gave it to her and she was blushing big time. I told her exactly how i felt since i really liked her and she was speechless. I gave her my number on a small strip of paper and now i just have to wait for her call, thats if she does call.

I hope she doesn't play games with me as in calling me 2 or 3 days after, i hate that.

I still dont know what to make of her blushing, either she felt uncomfortable or if she felt warm inside because of the rose.

If she doesn't end up calling ill just try and take this in my stride. Maybe she doesn't think im good looking enough for her? Meh...looks havent ever been important to me im honestly probably a 5/10 so i've dealt with life the way i am, no biggie. Some people put massive importance on their looks even though looks fade but personality stays....

Ok im done..



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Wow man you have guts. Thats a nice move.However it can get awkward if shes not into relationship and you will still have to see her often (delivering mail as you said)?Dont be demanding, in my opinion, go on about your day as usual, if shes ready and willing she will make/has to make the next move.

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Wow man you have guts. Thats a nice move.However it can get awkward if shes not into relationship and you will still have to see her often (delivering mail as you said)?Dont be demanding, in my opinion, go on about your day as usual, if shes ready and willing she will make/has to make the next move.
Hey bro i appreciate the comment lol.I never knew anyone was reading this shit hahaha.Sorry, i should have replied sooner dude my bad. Here goes my situation.Yeah it took a lot of balls, i mean a lot. But i mustered it up through going out frequently on weekends and talking to girls and if i got rejected i didn't care, it was more for the experience lol.Anyway, it was literally my last day of work on Valentines day (i told her this as well) so i went all out and explained how i felt towards her. So if she wasn't into me (or a relationship) there would be no awkwardness because that was the last day of work thus the last day i'd see her. So what did i have to lose? Not much aye.Yes i delivered mail to her every weekday morning. Now, this may seem like some drop kick job but it fitted in perfectly with my university timetable. She could have in her mind though the same thing, im just some mail delivery dude, he doesn't have a lot going for him. But im studying engineering, ill be making the big bucks in one years time, no joke. But i didn't tell her that cause i didnt wanna come off as arrogant. Im 23 and shes probably 26 so I also maybe a bit young for her.The time was right so i just went for it. You only live once and you dont wanna end up thinking what might have been, so i took a chance.Again thanks for the comment...

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But i mustered it up through going out frequently on weekends and talking to girls and if i got rejected i didn't care, it was more for the experience lol.
Yeah, practice makes perfect. Just 2 weeks ago I went outside and decided I will stop 10 random women and ask some random stuff and see how and where the conversation goes. (like the text below suggests it). I stopped only 3 women, because it was cold outside and I think I made a friend, nothing romantic involved, we already set the boundaries, just somebody to talk to.You are right, no worse thing than "what if..."10. REJECTION PRACTICEInstead of trying to get a date or phone number make it your goal to get rejected. Your job is to approach someone and just say hello, how are you...my name is. You might then just decide to talk about something really boring. You are trying to see how many times you get rejected. Perhaps make it a goal to get rejected 10 times in one night. If you are afraid you will end up in an awkward conversation or moment, just say thankyou for your time after telling them your name and just walk off. The change in your own motivation for approaching someone can alter how you will react significantly. If approaching the opposite sex is too difficult you might just ask people for the time but remember you are trying to see how many times you will be rejected.

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But i mustered it up through going out frequently on weekends and talking to girls and if i got rejected i didn't care, it was more for the experience lol.
Yeah, practice makes perfect. Just 2 weeks ago I went outside and decided I will stop 10 random women and ask some random stuff and see how and where the conversation goes. (like the text below suggests it). I stopped only 3 women, because it was cold outside and I think I made a friend, nothing romantic involved, we already set the boundaries, just somebody to talk to.You are right, no worse thing than "what if..."10. REJECTION PRACTICEInstead of trying to get a date or phone number make it your goal to get rejected. Your job is to approach someone and just say hello, how are you...my name is. You might then just decide to talk about something really boring. You are trying to see how many times you get rejected. Perhaps make it a goal to get rejected 10 times in one night. If you are afraid you will end up in an awkward conversation or moment, just say thankyou for your time after telling them your name and just walk off. The change in your own motivation for approaching someone can alter how you will react significantly. If approaching the opposite sex is too difficult you might just ask people for the time but remember you are trying to see how many times you will be rejected.
^^^Bingo my friend. Spot on.

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