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patrick92

Member Since 17 Aug 2013
Offline Last Active Sep 29 2014 03:38 AM

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In Topic: Noticing Lots Of Negative Topics...is It Just Me?

11 May 2014 - 12:37 AM

IMO there's nothing wrong with venting your frustrations or posting something a bit negative when your feeling down as theres lot of people on here who can help you feel a bit more positive again. I do however completely agree that there have been a select few  on here lately who seem to post the same old overly negative stuff all the time,  seemingly just to argue with others.
It's probably easiest to just ignore them as they seem to just want attention/an argument.

In Topic: Lol @ People Who Think "confidence" Gets You A Girlfriend

04 May 2014 - 06:39 AM

Oh great another one of these "I'm too ugly/women are so shallow threads" rolleyes.gif

Now this is not meant as an insult but you seem to make a lot of assumptions about what women think despite the fact you've made it very clear that you actually been unable to get to know any very well. Your probably a nice guy in real life, but if your attitude towards yourself in real life is anything like it is on here then I think that's probably the source of your problems with women!!


In Topic: Dating With Acne

30 April 2014 - 03:59 AM

I don't get the point of this post.....Are you just trying to make everyone on here feel bad or more self concious about themselves than they already are? 


In Topic: How Do My Fellow Ugly Guys Cope With Being Undesired?

25 April 2014 - 03:58 AM

Chemical castration!!!! That is a bit extreme.

I understand the frustration that comes with dating with acne, and I often struggle with my own self esteem, but...... and I don't want to seem harsh or judgemental here..... there always seems to be someone here making completely irrational statements about the opposite sex writing them off because of their appearance, seemingly with the sole intention of arguing with anyone trying to persuade them that actually people aren't that shallow or nasty!

 

Yes, acne can destroy your self-esteem, and yes, that makes it really hard to view yourself as attractive/desirable, but the thing that will actually put other people off is intense negativity and a complete lack of self confidence. If you spend the rest of your life feeling so intensely low and jaded, chances are you really will realise your worst fears and end up alone. Just try and be positive, do the things you enjoy, be friendly, meet new people and eventually your bound to meet someone who likes you just the way you are.


In Topic: What Do Guys Think Of Girls With Acne?

14 March 2014 - 11:07 PM

For me personally, it doesn't matter at all if a girl has acne. In fact I've seen many, many girls with acne who still look stunning! Maybe girls just over think how critical guys are about their looks, because neither me or any other guy I know walks around judging girls because they aren't dressed a certain way or don't have flawless skin. Us guys are no where near perfect so we certainly don't expect or look for perfection!