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Frank*L

Member Since 29 Mar 2013
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#3363358 I Have Few Bumps But Pih !will It Even Matter To Him?

Posted by Frank*L on 02 July 2013 - 12:44 PM

Most guys dont care about stupid flaws I have seen plenty of girls with acne get married, have kids go on dates and live normal happy lives. Men are attracted to women naturally and its not that complicated on our end. Most of us are dying for the attention of a female and that dude you like should feel lucky you are into him. 

 

Approach him first if you haven't already. Not all guys have the "confidence" to approach a girl.




#3359483 Why Do People Stare?

Posted by Frank*L on 19 June 2013 - 03:21 PM

 

Interesting, I have a different situation than you guys. When I appear in public places, people don't stare at me, but instead, they don't look at me, they ignore me, they avoid eye contact, they look away when I move past them, because I'm so ugly. This has done me a lot of damage on my self esteem. I feel less worthy, not accepted, lonely.

I think there is nothing wrong if someone is staring at your son. If they're staring at him, let them stare, let them mind their own business, just move past those people that are not worthy of your/his attention. If a girl is staring at your son, perhaps she even likes him. wink.png

What you should be aware of is that if you son is being ignored by his friends at school because the ignorance ruins people relationship easily. wink.png

You're worried because you don't get attention by others? My problem is that i get too much attention by others but because of all the wrong reasons! And believe me,getting no attention is far better than getting "wrong" attention. wink.png

 

Yes, I get like zero attention and I mean it really ZERO. I don't agree with you. I'll give you an example. You see a hot girl across the street. She is staring at you, because she wants you to notice her and because you like her. In my case, when she notices and sees me, she'll look away all the way until I'm past her when I'm crossing the street. I guess you look somehow cool and other people feel this. wink.png

 

with me its one of the two extremes either someone is staring at me (usually a dude) or I get completely ignored (usually females)

 

the worst for me is like passing someone by in an empty hallway and when I come withing 10 feet of the person they look away, look down or pretend they are reading something on their cell phone. Or if I say "hello" and I get ignored. I feel like raging. 

 

and like today at a mcdonalds drive thru some fat chick at the window (not to be mean but whatever) asked me what kind of sauce I want with my nuggets and when I looked at her she quickly looks away with this expressionless face and when she gave me my order she didnt even say shit or look at me. i have developed such a complex that I don't know how to take things anymore. did she see my scars? am I that f*cking repulsive? shes no prize either! i felt like throwing my nuggets in her face stupid b*tch. heh

 

/rant




#3359074 Meanest thing that someone has said about your acne

Posted by Frank*L on 18 June 2013 - 01:07 PM

being told to kill yourself because you are so ugly isn't just my twisted perception of the world. it actually physically happened to me. a person actually felt like they had the right to tell me that for whatever reason. as if i wasn't human or worthy of anything but death. many other  people have said similar things like that in different variations and again it wasn't me having a negative perception of the world. it actually happened. i have also had to get into physical confrontations with people just to keep some sort of self worth and pride. it is all very tiring.

 

reading other peoples posts and stories here I would have to only assume things aren't better in other peoples neighborhoods. i guess it is basically human nature. it is unfair to some of us. some of you can still skate by in life and be positive which is awesome. good for you! but please excuse us if  some of us get angry.




#3358796 How ya feelin' about your acne today?

Posted by Frank*L on 17 June 2013 - 03:23 PM

its whatever I'm used to being ugly. Actually I haven't broke out too bad for a while (just small stuff that goes away after a couple of days) I think because I cut out milk like 3 months ago. I love milk tho neutral.gif




#3356399 How ya feelin' about your acne today?

Posted by Frank*L on 09 June 2013 - 11:21 AM

My fucking hate is so deep I can feel it aching in my bones. I have become dead inside, a heartless bastard with no empathy for anything unless I put my fucking mask on and pretend like every thing is nice and fucking dandy. It amazes me how looking in the god damn mirror can light the fire of my anger to the point where it feels like my gut is getting stabbed and my blood Is boiling. I can't stand all the hypocritical people who are full of fucking bullshit, my throat tigtens up as I write this shit fuck everything and everybody.

 

100% understand. i pretty much hate every moment of my existence. i have to fake it when i have to go out and do shit and i hate that i cant be normal. and these scars on my face are going to be with me until i rot away alone in my apartment one day. i think all these negative things all day but for whatever reason im still around. something inside tells me to keep going. im sure you know what i mean. you're comments on here don't go unnoticed. im here for you as much as some anonymous person online can be. much love.




#3355979 How ya feelin' about your acne today?

Posted by Frank*L on 07 June 2013 - 06:44 PM

face still looks like sh*t. some gay guy working the jack in the box drive thru was being all flirty with me, feels good i guess.




#3355215 Why Do People Stare?

Posted by Frank*L on 05 June 2013 - 03:23 PM

some people are just ignorant and weren't raised correctly. people would stare at me too or call me dirty and these people were in their 30's, 40's, 50's its a shame and they probably have kids and don't teach them any manners so they just breed stupidity. 




#3352995 How ya feelin' about your acne today?

Posted by Frank*L on 29 May 2013 - 06:54 AM

been stressin and broke out with a few. im numb right now its whatever. im tired. tomorrow is another day unfortunately.

 

@ ibiza hey are you ok? if anyone knows about anxiety and depression its me. id bet money im the worst off here when it comes to that. you offered help to me if i needed to talk a while back and the same goes to you. you're posts seem pretty dark lately. you should really talk to your husband and get it out of the way. i guarantee you will feel a million times better. just do it. 

Hi, thanks for being there smile.png

 

Yeah things get really hard sometimes, if you read the posts on here it is frightening to see that acne makes even the most upbeat bubbly people get depressed. I am feeling a bit better now, although still not spoken to my hubby. Skin has calmed down for now, no new breakouts for two days but those new scars I keep talking about don't look any better. How are you feeling? 

 

there is a lot of positivity going on in this thread right now so I dont want to mess that up :) but I'm glad you are feeling better.




#3352795 How ya feelin' about your acne today?

Posted by Frank*L on 28 May 2013 - 04:55 PM

been stressin and broke out with a few. im numb right now its whatever. im tired. tomorrow is another day unfortunately.

 

@ ibiza hey are you ok? if anyone knows about anxiety and depression its me. id bet money im the worst off here when it comes to that. you offered help to me if i needed to talk a while back and the same goes to you. you're posts seem pretty dark lately. you should really talk to your husband and get it out of the way. i guarantee you will feel a million times better. just do it. 




#3351633 How ya feelin' about your acne today?

Posted by Frank*L on 24 May 2013 - 12:06 PM

Sorry I assumed he knew about your acne but it still bothered you and the subject never came up during your marriage. Realistically he probably has noticed and doesnt care. I live with extreme anxiety too so I know that feeling. Opening up to your hubby will take a giant weight off your shoulders and I'm sure he will still love you.


#3351584 Can We See Through Acne?

Posted by Frank*L on 24 May 2013 - 08:19 AM

no if you have acne then that's the way you look. I dont imagine what people look like without it I just accept the fact that its there. As a acne sufferer myself that's all that I ask for from others. Acceptance.


#3351268 Patience Is A Big Problem With Acne

Posted by Frank*L on 23 May 2013 - 07:46 AM

Positivity Is key but it is hard to be positive when acne kills your confidence. Its like telling someone with a broken leg to walk it off. Its not that easy. I try to have a positive attitude but its fake. So yea I understand.

I went on a few dates in my 20s and tried to be social while having bad acne. I just had to force myself and have a full on panic attack then recover and go out and do it. Force yourself to be happy and see what happens. Shitty advice but that's what I did.

Btw my family didn't understand either now I'm older and seen as a huge disappointment.  Dont be like me.


#3347936 Acne And Scarring

Posted by Frank*L on 12 May 2013 - 01:18 PM

I can relate to you more than other people I have seen on here. Everything you said describes me perfectly when it comes to how you feel about your scars. 

 

I don't want to be negative but this is just me thinking out loud but there isn't a damn thing we can do about scaring. Pieces of our face are missing and skin does not regenerate. Lasers don't do sh*t it is only a short term fix from what I've read.

 

Only thing we can do is own it. Love life and just not care about it. But if you do come across some useful info let me know to. I've lost hope long ago. 




#3346701 How ya feelin' about your acne today?

Posted by Frank*L on 07 May 2013 - 08:36 PM

Broke out a little on my cheek and I don't know why but my scars seem to look worse today. WTF




#3345795 !the Motivational Thread!

Posted by Frank*L on 04 May 2013 - 05:50 PM

Whatever I'll play along. Only thing I will tell people is DONT PICK! Please dont do it. I beg all of you do not pick your skin. Dont pop, poke, touch, prod whatever it is you all do to your acne. Just let it be. If you pop or pick it all that does is it make worse, short term and long term. You don't want acne scaring it suuuuuucks big time. So again just leave it alone. You will only make it worse..

 

Not sure if that is what you meant but yea thats what I'd tell people if I woke up tommorow with a clear face and no acne scars.