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AlexanderJ86

Member Since 21 Feb 2013
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In Topic: People Point Out My Makeup

15 September 2014 - 04:29 AM

 

Get over it and stop whining about what other people say about you.

How the fuck is that going to solve her social problems?

 


People point out my acne and I don't get my feelings hurt over it. Don't let it hurt your socially, people will insult you.

Yes that is true, but it is the people that are doing that, not her. How is she going to make friends?


In Topic: People Point Out My Makeup

14 September 2014 - 08:16 AM

Get over it and stop whining about what other people say about you.

How the fuck is that going to solve her social problems?


In Topic: Single Because Of Looks?

12 September 2014 - 03:59 AM

It's not the actual acne itself that is preventing you from being comfortable around and subsequently attracting girls, it is simply how the acne makes you feel about yourself. 

 


Bullshit. You are saying that there is no such thing as physical attraction.

I have a different take on that. It is not he actual acne itself that is preventing you from being comfortable around and subsequently attracting girls, but how those girls look at acne in general. That decides whether you are seen as attractive or not.


In Topic: What Did You Let Acne Take Away From You?

11 September 2014 - 06:17 PM

My confidence, my ability to go out and be social with friends like any other young guy...but most importantly it took away my ability to find a relationship (that's probably what hurt the most) 

That is quite bad, but it can be worse. I have become so severely disordered that I am incapable of getting a relationship. Even having sex is impossible for me. I hang out with people, but I don't know whether I have friends or not. I cannot see people as a friend. I like to, but I trust nobody these days. What I have learned is that people can turn their back on me, just for being more quiet than the average person of having more acne.


In Topic: People Point Out My Makeup

09 September 2014 - 09:48 AM

Hi guys,
I recently joined acne.org because of the struggle that acne has put me through. I've had mild acne for 3 years but this year it became worse. It was specifically located on my forehead but now that has cleared. Sadly my cheeks, chin and temples have broken out. I started to wear makeup to help my self- confidence, but since I go to high school, all the girls (including my friends) have been pointing out my makeup like its a disease. Some say, " you need to blend your foundation better" or "I can tell your wearing makeup". One instance a friend sitting beside me said, " you cake on your foundation, make it look more natural or don't wear it at all". She yelled it all my class, everyone could hear. I felt so embarrassed. If only they saw the true condition of my face. They would make worse comments. I feel so depressed.

I understand. The need to control others and other aggressive behaviour is ingrained in our malfunctioning culture. They can't help it they are doing that.