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AlexanderJ86

Member Since 21 Feb 2013
Offline Last Active Mar 20 2015 04:23 PM

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In Topic: Everyone Who's Saying That You Are Ugly In Some Way Are Actually...

17 March 2015 - 06:49 PM

Once you push back everyone around you, things won't really get better. You will only push yourself further in depression since now you will be alone. I know because I literally pushed away everybody I knew away from me, and for the past year, I've been in the worst depression of my life. Life was better when I had friends, even if they thought I was ugly.

I'd rather be alone than be surrounded by psychopaths. Psychopaths cannot be your friends. A psychopath friend is an oxymoron.


In Topic: Embarassing Acne Moments

16 March 2015 - 02:39 PM

I was reading some of your guys' other posts about this topic and I wanted to talk about my own embarassing moments because I've had plenty. And id like to share them with people who can understand and relate. I remember I used to go to church when I was 15. My church had about 120 members we congregated twice a week. I promise you more than half of my church told me something about my acne. The usual dumb questions. Do you wash your face? What do you wash your face with? Little kids asking me why I had spots. Others blaming my parents for not buying me the right products. Others trying to sell me mary Kay products they swore would fix my face. I hated going. I would cry as I got ready for church. I would look in the mirror before I left my house and just cry. My dad telling me I was still the most beautiful girl. I don't go to church anymore. I also remember working as a cashier and customers asking me why my face was so red. Feeling everyone's eyes on me I just wanted to disappear. I quit. And going to school knowing huge spots on my face were just staring at everyone. Id just look down and try not to make eye contact. Canceling dates because I was too self conscious. Not going out with my friends cus I just felt so ugly. Taking pictures with my friends or family and looking at the pictures and just wanting to crawl in a hole and die. Yeah acne can really ruin a person

That people have faith doesn't mean they are social. The psychopaths are everywhere. We have all met them. I am not one of them though. They clearly got to you, but you should not give up. You should find people who are nice to you regardless of the state of your skin.


In Topic: Women With Scars: Do You Get Approached?

11 February 2015 - 03:23 PM

Superficial guys, who are turned off by acne scars, are guys you want to stay away from anyway.


In Topic: What To Say When People Are Blatantly Looking At Your Acne

11 February 2015 - 03:17 PM

"My eyes are up here"


In Topic: Women With Scars: Do You Get Approached?

10 February 2015 - 06:07 PM

Not so many simply come forward to have a chat or flirt, unless their drunk looking for a one night stand in a club

That's because that generally doesn't work for men. Definitely not for men with acne. For me, a man with acne, it is seemingly impossible to get people (and girls) to even like me the normal way, independent from the setting.