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Member Since 14 Feb 2013
Offline Last Active May 09 2014 06:18 AM

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In Topic: Massage For Indented Scarring

05 May 2014 - 09:27 AM

Ignorant? Please. I'm done with this nonsense. I was here to shed a little positivity to the Op. I never claimed to know whether this would work or not. I simply wanted to show some compassion for this girl as you all made her out like she was a fool for speaking. No wonder no one speaks up here about anything. You veteran/moderaters are 'know it all' bullies. Eh but then again, misery loves company. Ya'll better stick together.

In Topic: Massage For Indented Scarring

05 May 2014 - 08:41 AM

I'm ignorant? I never claimed it would or wouldn't work.

In Topic: Massage For Indented Scarring

05 May 2014 - 05:53 AM

Pffft.

Youre massaging your dang skin. Get real girl.

Wait! Maybe you'd prefer sticking 100% TCA (bullshit chemicals, chemicals you've probably been putting on your skin for years giving you bad skin in the first place) in your pits to see if they magically rise to the occasion. lmfao. I've been lurking here for a good minute, while your jumping to conclusions. Long enough to have seen you document the many procedures you've had (procedures that also severely break down collagen). Tell me Tokyo girl, how'd that work out for you? Maybe you should've tried something less dramatic first like massaging your skin to see what fruits that might bear.

Please.. If anyone's judging here, it's people like you. Bitter ass people that think they know everything because they've been here so long. But in reality, you all STILL have bad skin and you all STILL know nothing more than any of the rest of us.

Ah well, to each his own right? wink.png

In Topic: Lots Of Indented Scars Forming... All At Once

01 May 2014 - 08:53 AM

Aw, you sound just like I did when I first began scarring. But you're so pretty! Don't obsess over these. They won't alter your overall attractivness.

Besides, freaking out and combatting with all types of new topicals/remedies/products and whatnot will just spread infections and make new areas break out and in turn.. scar.

Everyone's gotta little acne.. got a few scars. I would worry so much about it. Most wont mind

In Topic: Depressed

01 May 2014 - 07:54 AM

Here to shed a little light!

 

Your skin does NOT look bad. I have similar scars myself, actually. And people dont tend to mind. Honestly they might not even notice. I like to think it's becuase they're just too busy soaking in all my positive vibes. biggrin.png

 

I can tell you from experience. I've always been a little insecure about my skin (alot of times when I shouldnt havent been, looking back now) but I just recently aquired pitted scars and it took a huge toll on me for a while and even still, I have some bad days.. It was when I discovered that quality people actually dont care about these things and see past them fairly quickly that I found true beauty in not only myself but in life.

 

I once met a guy who had scars covering his ENTIRE face. Redness, pitting, even some dormant cysts. But oh boy, did he have the bluest eyes I'd ever seen rolleyes.gif Not to mention his presense. He had a sense of integrity about himself that's rather hard to put into words but undeniably attractive. Sure I've dated some 10/10 guys and they're so full of themselves, you can't even bring yourself to be at peace with being in a relationship with them. Even the stuff they talk about is... superficial. And their presense? Uncomfortable.

 

I honestly know how you feel. It's almost a sense of losing your identity. But you have just two options, tap into pity or pride. It's harsh, I know. And i was on that pity train for a while. But I finally decided to make the most of it and I've been polishing up all of the other areas in my life that ARE within my control. And I'm acheieving a better me than I ever could've imagined, had this never happened to me.

 

 

There truly is beauty in the breaking. You just have to find it in yourself. Good luck on your journey!