The difference between a man with acne vs a women with acne in getting a date.
The man has to approach 100s of women until one doesn't reject him and say no.
The women just has to get over her insecurity and say yes to the one of 100 men who ask her out on one.
The difference between you and her is that she probably has a fantastic personality which her date found attractive. Seriously, acne or no acne, abs or no abs, I can now see why you have trouble with the ladies.
Best of luck AmbitiousOne, hope it goes well. Really happy for you!