Yeah, it takes a toll on you, I know. Same thing is happening to me. I'm terrified that I might go bald and this thought haunts me everyday. With that being said, I would still like to bring a positive vibe to the discussion here. I'm trying to think of this as a jorney and an adventure rather than as a horrifying nightmare. Yeah, it's awful and at times it is pretty depressing but we need to keep our hopes high. That's the only productive way to live through it for me at least.
You are a woman and that automatically improves your chances of recovery. I'm sure that this problem is even more distressful to a female than to us, men, but at the end of the day you should find something positive that makes you at least a little bit happier. Obsessing about it won't help at all. My only suggestion to you is to wait it out, there's probably no other way around it. Your condition will improve, I'm sure