been there, and it is tough....accutane didn't work for me, made things worse, guess I'm the 1% oh joy!
scarring cystic acne, that only responded to steroid injections...for me, diet changes worked, I eat ZERO gluten and ZERO dairy...may not work for you, but it might!
I'm working on my scars, I've had many laser treatments which have smoothed out my skin, but I have many rolling scars, which I now derma stamp myself...things are slowly getting better.
I also have a fulfilling career, and I am married, I just kept going, tried to be confident, kept working on self improvement, education and career...it can be done, and no one looks at our face as deeply as we do.
So get that acne under control, keep a journal and do some diet eliminations, don't give up! Then start to work on the scarring...depending on the depth, either fraxels or a full laser resurfacing to smooth things out and you go from there.
Do not give up! Ping me privately if you have any questions, there are many here in the same boat....chin up!