Hazelnut oil is really good for stopping oiliness and clearing/preventing clogged pores! Saved my nose! and it cost me £4 from the supermarket.
I've read the same thing about Hemp Seed oil. But I've also read posts of many people who swear that natural carrier oils--even those with a zero comedogenic rating--caused them horrible breakouts, so I'm leery of putting any oil on my face.
I would say nars sheer glow would probably work well for you (it's actually demi matte not glowy) or chanel vitalumiere aqua (its water based). if you wanted a cheap alternative to the sheer glow, revlon colour stay is quite good.
I'm leaning toward trying Revlon Colorstay, L'Oreal True Match and e.l.f. (possibly both the liquid and mineral foundations). Granted, I've tried L'Oreal's True Match before and had trouble finding my, well, true (color) match from its offering.
I would personally just use a tiny bit of foundation where you need it and then a mineral powder over the top (then you can get away with a matte one).. just make sure it doesn't contain bismuth oxychloride
I'd love to go very light with my makeup coverage; in order to do so, I must find a shade that blends with my skin tone, so that my patchy application isn't obvious. And I promise to avoid any product with Bismuth Oxychloride like the plague.