its okay to be negative(as in sad and upset and talk life and its aspects) but i feel its not right when some people just wont take any positivity.
a sad post does get many replies - some saying 'oh we suffer the same way.u r not alone' and other 'buck up.u're better than this.u can do this' etc.
now,its very good to get strength from the fact that we r not alone.and like i keep saying "we r in this together"!
but i also,wish that they imbibe the positivity too.
i bring this up because some never really get the positive vibe(or the fact in some cases) ever.no matter how many explain things to them in whichever way!
i am pretty sure many of us have tried our best to explain something positive to someone and yet even after all that and more,he/she's still been sad and NEGATIVE.
also,some seem negative in a 'wrong' way!their take on life changes.
i understand they are upset and we all break down often.
but their negative take on everything is so firm and i personally dnt supprt it.
because it does effect others too.
which is sad.
^that is my opinion.