Interesting, I have a different situation than you guys. When I appear in public places, people don't stare at me, but instead, they don't look at me, they ignore me, they avoid eye contact, they look away when I move past them, because I'm so ugly. This has done me a lot of damage on my self esteem. I feel less worthy, not accepted, lonely.
I think there is nothing wrong if someone is staring at your son. If they're staring at him, let them stare, let them mind their own business, just move past those people that are not worthy of your/his attention. If a girl is staring at your son, perhaps she even likes him.
What you should be aware of is that if you son is being ignored by his friends at school because the ignorance ruins people relationship easily.
You're worried because you don't get attention by others? My problem is that i get too much attention by others but because of all the wrong reasons! And believe me,getting no attention is far better than getting "wrong" attention.
Yes, I get like zero attention and I mean it really ZERO. I don't agree with you. I'll give you an example. You see a hot girl across the street. She is staring at you, because she wants you to notice her and because you like her. In my case, when she notices and sees me, she'll look away all the way until I'm past her when I'm crossing the street. I guess you look somehow cool and other people feel this.
with me its one of the two extremes either someone is staring at me (usually a dude) or I get completely ignored (usually females)
the worst for me is like passing someone by in an empty hallway and when I come withing 10 feet of the person they look away, look down or pretend they are reading something on their cell phone. Or if I say "hello" and I get ignored. I feel like raging.
and like today at a mcdonalds drive thru some fat chick at the window (not to be mean but whatever) asked me what kind of sauce I want with my nuggets and when I looked at her she quickly looks away with this expressionless face and when she gave me my order she didnt even say shit or look at me. i have developed such a complex that I don't know how to take things anymore. did she see my scars? am I that f*cking repulsive? shes no prize either! i felt like throwing my nuggets in her face stupid b*tch. heh
I realize that might suck, but like I said above, keep in mind that people do this ALL the time to regular people who don't have acne. People are just antisocial as shit especially since the Internet took over our lives. I see people avoid eye contact with just about anyone all of the time. Probably at least half of society has some sort of social phobia. Don't assume it's even about you. The same goes for people being rude at fast food restaurants. Normal, even beautiful, people get that sort of treatment all the time. It's only when you have something you're insecure about that you assume that's the reason. Most people just assume the person is an asshole.