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[Lapis lazuli]

I could be nice, try my hardest, and yeah I could get rejected, and that could hurt, but you gotta move on. I try to go in with the mindset that my other traits will overcome my acne around her, and she will like me.

 

If you "try hard" you probably will get rejected. Plus this whole thinking where people go "I have to bring my best qualities forward so that people will see I am worth their time" is unsophisticated.

 

 I sound very "negative" again. But I'm sorry people, it's just my opinion.

 

The best of luck, baseketball4. I hope you make some girl very happy some day.

[Roomi]

Seriously I told myself that after getting a clear skin I'll think about a girlfriend till then my computer is my girlfriend because it really helps me and doesn't let me get bored

[EatsRainbows]

Crazy as it sounds, I actually find guys with acne attractive  I would love to find a guy with acne because then he would understand what I'm going through.

Sometimes it feels like nobody knows how hard dealing with acne is and I can feel really alone. Having a boyfriend who has also experienced this would be really reassuring and I could be sure he wasn't silently judging me for my acne.

 

Have hope.

[Sum1killme]

Yea it's kinda hard when they won't even look you in the fuckin eye when you try to talk to em.
Then you look in the mirror and remember oh yea that's right I have the skin of a 50 year old crack head even tho I eat healthy,exercise daily, wash my face twice a day, change my pillow case and sheets everyday, avoid junk food, moisturize, tone, supplement, don't smoke, don't drink, don't stay up late, meditate, research every day for newer and better treatments, diets, different probiotics, allergies ext.

FUCK YOU ACNE. YOU SUCK THE LIFE OUT OF ME.

[ls206816]

^^^ agree can't wait until I have clear skin and can look in the mirror and be like "that right acne, you can go fuck yourself" I will probably cry on that day. Also what do guys think about girls with acne? I feel like girls are suppose to have "perfect" and "flawless" skin. Like I feel like if I get acne on my chest or back I can't wear low shirts or bikinis. And when I exercise I have to wear shirts up to my neck instead if a sports bra.

[Lapis lazuli]

^^^ agree can't wait until I have clear skin and can look in the mirror and be like "that right acne, you can go fuck yourself" I will probably cry on that day. Also what do guys think about girls with acne? I feel like girls are suppose to have "perfect" and "flawless" skin. Like I feel like if I get acne on my chest or back I can't wear low shirts or bikinis. And when I exercise I have to wear shirts up to my neck instead if a sports bra.

 

Some guys are going to care, others won't. lol

[coolusername]

An online dating site made exclusively for acne-people might work.  Acnester.com, OKAcne.com, acnecupid.com, acnebook, acnefinder, etc.

[AlexanderJ86]

Yes, they generally do care. Society is not going to change, so you have to if you want to get on in life.

[looking2thefuture]

Today whoist walking in town a saw three guys yes three with worse acne than me walking ahnd in hand with attractive women acne does matter to some women no doubt but its wrong to suggest all women are shallow. In my exp women like a bloke who can look after them,be caring,funny and good at listening. Some women beleive it or not may not like someone with crsytal clear skin and vanity. And if a girl rejected me only becuase I have acne red marks then sod her shes not worth my time why be concered over vacous people ill prob look alot better than her when im older anyway as i take care of myself etc. Rant over:)

[ohtokyovogue]

A face can't love you.. It does not matter to me one bit if you have acne or any type of skin imperfection. I believe in inner beauty people are too caught up on looks it makes me sad.. oh well can't change the world just strive to be a wonderful person despite your acne and the perfect person will come a long and see you for who you truly are.