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#81 Lapis lazuli

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Posted 28 January 2013 - 02:34 AM

I could be nice, try my hardest, and yeah I could get rejected, and that could hurt, but you gotta move on. I try to go in with the mindset that my other traits will overcome my acne around her, and she will like me.

 

If you "try hard" you probably will get rejected. Plus this whole thinking where people go "I have to bring my best qualities forward so that people will see I am worth their time" is unsophisticated.

 

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Posted 30 January 2013 - 09:41 AM

Seriously I told myself that after getting a clear skin I'll think about a girlfriend till then my computer is my girlfriend because it really helps me and doesn't let me get bored :)



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Posted 31 January 2013 - 12:20 PM

Crazy as it sounds, I actually find guys with acne attractive crazy.gif I would love to find a guy with acne because then he would understand what I'm going through.

Sometimes it feels like nobody knows how hard dealing with acne is and I can feel really alone. Having a boyfriend who has also experienced this would be really reassuring and I could be sure he wasn't silently judging me for my acne.

 

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Posted 31 January 2013 - 08:47 PM

Yea it's kinda hard when they won't even look you in the fuckin eye when you try to talk to em.
Then you look in the mirror and remember oh yea that's right I have the skin of a 50 year old crack head even tho I eat healthy,exercise daily, wash my face twice a day, change my pillow case and sheets everyday, avoid junk food, moisturize, tone, supplement, don't smoke, don't drink, don't stay up late, meditate, research every day for newer and better treatments, diets, different probiotics, allergies ext.

FUCK YOU ACNE. YOU SUCK THE LIFE OUT OF ME.

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Posted 03 February 2013 - 07:42 PM

^^^ agree can't wait until I have clear skin and can look in the mirror and be like "that right acne, you can go fuck yourself" I will probably cry on that day. Also what do guys think about girls with acne? I feel like girls are suppose to have "perfect" and "flawless" skin. Like I feel like if I get acne on my chest or back I can't wear low shirts or bikinis. And when I exercise I have to wear shirts up to my neck instead if a sports bra.

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Posted 04 February 2013 - 07:13 AM

^^^ agree can't wait until I have clear skin and can look in the mirror and be like "that right acne, you can go fuck yourself" I will probably cry on that day. Also what do guys think about girls with acne? I feel like girls are suppose to have "perfect" and "flawless" skin. Like I feel like if I get acne on my chest or back I can't wear low shirts or bikinis. And when I exercise I have to wear shirts up to my neck instead if a sports bra.

 

Some guys are going to care, others won't. lol



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Posted 27 February 2013 - 06:05 AM

An online dating site made exclusively for acne-people might work.  Acnester.com, OKAcne.com, acnecupid.com, acnebook, acnefinder, etc.



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Posted 28 February 2013 - 01:42 PM

Yes, they generally do care. Society is not going to change, so you have to if you want to get on in life.



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Posted 28 February 2013 - 04:43 PM

Today whoist walking in town a saw three guys yes three with worse acne than me walking ahnd in hand with attractive women acne does matter to some women no doubt but its wrong to suggest all women are shallow. In my exp women like a bloke who can look after them,be caring,funny and good at listening. Some women beleive it or not may not like someone with crsytal clear skin and vanity. And if a girl rejected me only becuase I have acne red marks then sod her shes not worth my time why be concered over vacous people ill prob look alot better than her when im older anyway as i take care of myself etc. Rant over:)



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Posted 01 March 2013 - 12:41 AM

A face can't love you.. It does not matter to me one bit if you have acne or any type of skin imperfection. I believe in inner beauty people are too caught up on looks it makes me sad.. oh well can't change the world just strive to be a wonderful person despite your acne and the perfect person will come a long and see you for who you truly are. :)


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Posted 21 December 2013 - 08:18 PM

Me personally if i had clear skin and i saw a guy who had acne wheather it is mild, moderated or severe acne i just wouldn´t care. I sitll have acne so i wouldn´t have any problems dating a guy who has acne, because believe it or not, people are going to tell you that yes girls do care about a guy´s skin and looks but once you see someone you really like so much, then you just wouldn´t care. I have a friend she has super clear skin, very attractive but her boyfriend has moderated acne and she just doesn´t care and loves him very much.

 

A month ago i went to have dinner with a friend...well it was more like a date, i really like him alot and i know he likes me back too (we are now going out) i decided to go to have dinner with him all makeup free. ALL MAKEUP FREE!!! no makeup in my face, no foundation i didn´t even wore lipstick or eyeliner. He saw me a few days ago with makeup on so i decided to go out this time with makeup free. Which i don´t know how i had the courage to do it, because my skin was looking pretty bad especially it was winter. So the wind that was hitting my face real hard it made my skin looks worst!, (don´t know why but when it´s Summer my skin looks much better than in Winter) anyways, i decided to face him with my real skin. He never stared at my skin, he just made eye contact and told me how beautiful i´m. What am trying to say is that if someone is going to feel very attracted to you, that person will look past your skin. Believe me when i say this to you or any others who are in this blog. I always tell my girlfriends, no matter what you have in your face, bad skin, pimples, red marks etc if you feel beautiful and have confidence in yourself people will totally look past your acne.

 

I don´t have a good skin at all, i seem to have a very untone skin, in some places especiall around my mouth it´s more red while my cheeks are white and my chin is a little bit red too. And there were not only guys but also girls who would just tell me how pretty i´m and they like the way i dress and bla bla bla. Some girls give me dirty looks because they are jealous of me because of my looks and i STILL HAVE ACNE. What am trying to say with all these things is that a real girl who really loves you would not care about your skin. If she does cares about your skin to the point of not dating you then she is a selfish shallow bitch. Don´t waste your time with those shallow people they are not worth your time.


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if you don´t accept who you are...who else is gonna do it?

 

If a guy doesn´t love because of your acne...If a guy doesn´t accepts you for who you are...than he was never worth your time.eusa_naughty.gif


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Posted 24 December 2013 - 02:52 PM

Well from my experience, girls my age (I'm 19) are more attracted to guys without acne and who's to blame them. I know I generated a lot more interest when my skin was better...perhaps for more than physical reasons....I feel really uneasy and self conscious and generally down beat when my acne is bad and what girl wants/likes that. I know when I'm clear I'll have more success with women and in social situations in general...the confidence and weight off your back with constant clear skin must be incredible.



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Posted 02 March 2014 - 11:21 AM

I don't really think girls with or without acne differ in their views on this but rather that some are shallow than most..? :)) When I still had clear skin before in high school, my friends always tease me because I always crush on someone that you would not think of as handsome. But is it my fault I don't obsess about looks that much? But seriously though, no matter the severity of acne (or lack of it) what matters to most girls, or most that I have talked to, is a guys' confidence. Someone who is confident of himself but not boastful and is down to earth and has manners. Overall, a decent and nice guy who is not embarrassed of himself and who has a sense of humor. :)) I don't mean that anybody who's insecure about their flaws (um, like, everyone?) is instantly kicked to the curb but more on If you just ignore your acne and be confident with what you've got, most probably most people would also overlook your physical flaws as well and start acknowledging your awesome personality :D



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Posted 03 March 2014 - 08:46 PM

An online dating site made exclusively for acne-people might work.  Acnester.com, OKAcne.com, acnecupid.com, acnebook, acnefinder, etc.

lol this has be laughing on the side note I don't mind a girl with acne I seen so many girls who have mild to moderate acne be so positive that im actually attracted to them in the end you have to think about it are you attracted to someone's personality and the way they are or their skin?

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Posted 04 March 2014 - 12:49 AM

Girls with acne find it harder I think. If you don't have any scarring and have mild/moderate acne then finding girls should not be a problem. If you have severe acne then instead of chasing girls you should be chasing derms. But yeah if you are chasing smoking hot girls then acne is a big problem. I have figured that really tall girls find it hard too. So there are other issues also.


Edited by Binga, 04 March 2014 - 01:18 AM.


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Posted 05 March 2014 - 01:06 PM

I have a female friend who likes me and we were spending some time together.  She started massaging my shoulders and it turned into a full back massage.  Then she tried to pull up my shirt to massage the skin.  I stopped her and told her I had really bad back acne.  She said she'd had it too at times, and it didn't seem to bother her at all.

 

Women want the same thing we do: someone to LOVE them, spend time with them, and be there for them.  Some haven't figured that out yet, but you don't want to deal with that type anyway.  Be you, don't worry too much, and someone will give you attention when you least expect it :)



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Posted 03 April 2014 - 10:44 PM

Okay I know this is a little repeated but -NOBODY LIKES ACNE! I'm not going to lie and say I have bad acne. I really don't. I do have skin problems and cannot wear make-up because it makes my skin break out in a horrible rash. I only have tiny pimples on my forehead really. The only thing I will say is that sometimes my nose breaks out in embarrassing (huge- not exaggerating) zits. I hate going to school with them and am embarrassed to be around my crush. To be honest I would want to be with somebody who has skin problems maybe as we'll. I hope that doesn't sound shallow. 😞 Anyway my best friend has perfect skin and told me about her (not even really there. Seriously I had no idea she had a pimple) pimple. I laughed at her and showed her a picture of my worst zit ever. She just stopped talking then. (Lol- sorry about talking about myself so much) Knowing both of us I know we would both just want somebody with a guy who had a nice personality and made us laugh. Please be yourself and don't try to be anything but. Being humble and funny is the best way to please a girl. (I'm not sure about other girls but ill try to be humble and funny for you as well)

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Posted 03 April 2014 - 10:49 PM

That's really awesome. I hope it works out




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