I could be nice, try my hardest, and yeah I could get rejected, and that could hurt, but you gotta move on. I try to go in with the mindset that my other traits will overcome my acne around her, and she will like me.
If you "try hard" you probably will get rejected. Plus this whole thinking where people go "I have to bring my best qualities forward so that people will see I am worth their time" is unsophisticated.
I sound very "negative" again. But I'm sorry people, it's just my opinion.
The best of luck, baseketball4. I hope you make some girl very happy some day.