Also I think it's interesting how we seem to have different preferences when it comes to relationships. Some say that they want a partner who also has acne, because he/she can better understand what we're going through. But I wouldn't want to have a partner who has acne. I want somebody with clear skin.
Whenever I see a couple where both have acne it really upsets me, because I think "They are only together because they weren't good enough for somebody who didn't have acne." And whenever I see a couple where one of them has acne and the other one hasn't, it makes me really happy. That's why I want somebody with clear skin.
just wondering, some1 who has no active acne but has acne scars - ur still gonna reject?
and btw i think ur abit of a hypocrate. u judge people with acne as if they are lesser beings, and ur actually one of those people! its horrible.
I don't know if I'm a hypocrite but I am for sure an incredibly insecure person with a low self esteem. I'm convinced that I can never have a boyfriend, because I'm too ugly because of acne. I think that I can never be good enough for someone with clear skin. So if someone with acne liked me I would think "he only likes me because he's not good enough for girls with clear skin and that's why he's turning to me" Kinda like a backup. But I want to have the reassurance that somebody wants to be with me even though he could have been with other girls, if he wanted. I need to know that he really likes me for me and that I'm not just second choice. And (in my mind) people with clear skin can give me that feeling because they could be with other people if they wanted to. Maybe I can move past this one day and be a better person. Sorry!
dont be sorry, ur buisness is ur buisness. but u should know that people has many things to offer expect thier looks.
so do u really believe u have nothing to offer expect ur looks?
and also, i dont think theres many guys whos just gonna date u as 'backup'. that can happen if they just wanna get some, but if its a relationship, why would they date some1 they dont like? even if its the worst case like u think that somebody initially chose u as 'backup', this relationship can still develop to be something good. u just never know.
Edited by mazgan, 16 March 2014 - 04:58 PM.