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#81 Zynko

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Posted 08 April 2013 - 03:47 PM

There are only two things I want in life: 1) for my skin to clear up now and 2) to have enough money when I retire to live comfortably. I am focused on achieving  thse two goals. Everything else in inconsequential to me. 

 

There is no point in constantly being depressed and whining about life. Some of you guys need to get a goal and work towards it. If you want to make your goal to be losing your virginity, then go do what it takes to find a gf. If you don't want to find a gf, take a vacation to Nevada where it is legal to hire a prostitute in certain parts of the state. You have to be pro-active.

 

If you are not going to do anything to improve your situation, stop your whining because it doesn't help you or anyone else.

True words. I have the same exact goals, because of acne and having a lot of free time(not being social) I was lucky enough to achieve the money part early in my career, however I would add 3rd goal to this list, which for me is to find a gf/wife. Money without someone special is not worth it, trust me. 


Edited by Zynko, 08 April 2013 - 03:52 PM.


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Posted 08 April 2013 - 09:02 PM

I'm not a virgin, but I've mostly been with ugly people. Never been with someone I realy like.

 

I don't have any expectations about being in a relationship one day. It just seems unreal.


Edited by witzel, 08 April 2013 - 09:18 PM.


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Posted 08 April 2013 - 09:02 PM

Thanks Zynko.

 

I'm glad to hear that I'm not the only who thinks the way I do. Having a wife/gf would be nice but it is not that important to me. I have struggled for years with cystic acne and I am sick of it. I would rather have clear skin then anything else in the world.

 

 

There are only two things I want in life: 1) for my skin to clear up now and 2) to have enough money when I retire to live comfortably. I am focused on achieving  thse two goals. Everything else in inconsequential to me. 

 

There is no point in constantly being depressed and whining about life. Some of you guys need to get a goal and work towards it. If you want to make your goal to be losing your virginity, then go do what it takes to find a gf. If you don't want to find a gf, take a vacation to Nevada where it is legal to hire a prostitute in certain parts of the state. You have to be pro-active.

 

If you are not going to do anything to improve your situation, stop your whining because it doesn't help you or anyone else.

True words. I have the same exact goals, because of acne and having a lot of free time(not being social) I was lucky enough to achieve the money part early in my career, however I would add 3rd goal to this list, which for me is to find a gf/wife. Money without someone special is not worth it, trust me. 



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Posted 11 April 2013 - 04:10 AM

At least you guys can work and have a career. I have depression because I have no friends and do not socialize (because of acne of course) and at the moment I am unable to work. I just did an internship last fall (it was part of my studies) and it was a complete disaster. I was let go after 2 1/2 months because I didn't have the strength to work.

So now I have to go back living in my parents' house and I will be 25 this year :(

But I am in therapy and I will go to a clinic in a couple of months, so hopefully this will turn things around. Just so you know I am not only whining about things, I am also doing something about it.



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Posted 11 April 2013 - 04:59 AM

Also I think it's interesting how we seem to have different preferences when it comes to relationships. Some say that they want a partner who also has acne, because he/she can better understand what we're going through. But I wouldn't want to have a partner who has acne. I want somebody with clear skin.

Whenever I see a couple where both have acne it really upsets me, because I think "They are only together because they weren't good enough for somebody who didn't have acne." And whenever I see a couple where one of them has acne and the other one hasn't, it makes me really happy. That's why I want somebody with clear skin.



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Posted 10 March 2014 - 09:49 AM

Early this morning, I felt different and lonely in my thoughts. I wonder if its normal for me to still retain my status. By the way, I'm 27 and I'm a virigin. I lack words to describe how I felt this morning. I've had a lot of stories about guys being virigin and some even went to the extent of saying that a guy is a virgin as a result of his inability to chat with ladies but its not true. Majority of my friends are ladies and sometimes, some of them pass the night in my apartment and I use to have a girlfriend but she left because of my decision not to have sex. It have not being easy but I'm determined to win

 



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Posted 15 March 2014 - 05:29 PM

Also I think it's interesting how we seem to have different preferences when it comes to relationships. Some say that they want a partner who also has acne, because he/she can better understand what we're going through. But I wouldn't want to have a partner who has acne. I want somebody with clear skin.

Whenever I see a couple where both have acne it really upsets me, because I think "They are only together because they weren't good enough for somebody who didn't have acne." And whenever I see a couple where one of them has acne and the other one hasn't, it makes me really happy. That's why I want somebody with clear skin.

just wondering, some1 who has no active acne but has acne scars - ur still gonna reject?

and btw i think ur abit of a hypocrate. u judge people with acne as if they are lesser beings, and ur actually one of those people! its horrible.

 

Early this morning, I felt different and lonely in my thoughts. I wonder if its normal for me to still retain my status. By the way, I'm 27 and I'm a virigin. I lack words to describe how I felt this morning. I've had a lot of stories about guys being virigin and some even went to the extent of saying that a guy is a virgin as a result of his inability to chat with ladies but its not true. Majority of my friends are ladies and sometimes, some of them pass the night in my apartment and I use to have a girlfriend but she left because of my decision not to have sex. It have not being easy but I'm determined to win

im just curious, why on earth?



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Posted 16 March 2014 - 12:07 PM

Also I think it's interesting how we seem to have different preferences when it comes to relationships. Some say that they want a partner who also has acne, because he/she can better understand what we're going through. But I wouldn't want to have a partner who has acne. I want somebody with clear skin.

Whenever I see a couple where both have acne it really upsets me, because I think "They are only together because they weren't good enough for somebody who didn't have acne." And whenever I see a couple where one of them has acne and the other one hasn't, it makes me really happy. That's why I want somebody with clear skin.

just wondering, some1 who has no active acne but has acne scars - ur still gonna reject?

and btw i think ur abit of a hypocrate. u judge people with acne as if they are lesser beings, and ur actually one of those people! its horrible.

 


 

I don't know if I'm a hypocrite but I am for sure an incredibly insecure person with a low self esteem. I'm convinced that I can never have a boyfriend, because I'm too ugly because of acne. I think that I can never be good enough for someone with clear skin. So if someone with acne liked me I would think "he only likes me because he's not good enough for girls with clear skin and that's why he's turning to me" Kinda like a backup. But I want to have the reassurance that somebody wants to be with me even though he could have been with other girls, if he wanted. I need to know that he really likes me for me and that I'm not just second choice. And (in my mind) people with clear skin can give me that feeling because they could be with other people if they wanted to. Maybe I can move past this one day and be a better person. Sorry!



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Posted 16 March 2014 - 04:57 PM

 

Also I think it's interesting how we seem to have different preferences when it comes to relationships. Some say that they want a partner who also has acne, because he/she can better understand what we're going through. But I wouldn't want to have a partner who has acne. I want somebody with clear skin.

Whenever I see a couple where both have acne it really upsets me, because I think "They are only together because they weren't good enough for somebody who didn't have acne." And whenever I see a couple where one of them has acne and the other one hasn't, it makes me really happy. That's why I want somebody with clear skin.

just wondering, some1 who has no active acne but has acne scars - ur still gonna reject?

and btw i think ur abit of a hypocrate. u judge people with acne as if they are lesser beings, and ur actually one of those people! its horrible.

 


 

I don't know if I'm a hypocrite but I am for sure an incredibly insecure person with a low self esteem. I'm convinced that I can never have a boyfriend, because I'm too ugly because of acne. I think that I can never be good enough for someone with clear skin. So if someone with acne liked me I would think "he only likes me because he's not good enough for girls with clear skin and that's why he's turning to me" Kinda like a backup. But I want to have the reassurance that somebody wants to be with me even though he could have been with other girls, if he wanted. I need to know that he really likes me for me and that I'm not just second choice. And (in my mind) people with clear skin can give me that feeling because they could be with other people if they wanted to. Maybe I can move past this one day and be a better person. Sorry!

dont be sorry, ur buisness is ur buisness. but u should know that people has many things to offer expect thier looks.

so do u really believe u have nothing to offer expect ur looks?

and also, i dont think theres many guys whos just gonna date u as 'backup'. that can happen if they just wanna get some, but if its a relationship, why would they date some1 they dont like? even if its the worst case like u think that somebody initially chose u as 'backup', this relationship can still develop to be something good. u just never know.


Edited by mazgan, 16 March 2014 - 04:58 PM.


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Posted 17 March 2014 - 08:53 PM

I get acne from ejaculation wtf. 



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Posted 17 March 2014 - 10:57 PM

I'm 19 and I'm a virgin too. Sometimes I care and it makes me feel self-conscious, but then I remember, oh yeah, it's not a big deal. You're fine, man. Sex is kinda objectively gross anyway, and you won't enjoy it if you're so worked up over having sex just to have sex. Don't sweat it, someone will have sex with you one day sooner than you think, I promise. :P If I were you, I'd focus more on finding some friends who don't belittle you for inane shit. 






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