I have an advice for those of you guys, who are concerned about dating and finding a girlfriend. I used to date A LOT some years ago and have met all different kind of guys. Some of them rejected me, some were rejected by me. Those I rejected had one feature in common and I think I'll speak on behalf of the majority of girls (or close to that) when I say, that the most repulsive thing about a guy you just met is his despair to get a girlfriend... Even when you chat with such guys virtually you can feel how over-enthusiastic they are and it's not attractive. I think many girls stop answering after a while.
So the advice would be - don't sweat it! Let them wait for your answer for a day or two sometimes. Don't overwhelm them with goodnights, goodmornings, 100 sms asking what they're doing and never ending compliments. Another thing, there's no need to open up completely - if you tell everything about yourself while you're still chatting, there won't be any mystery when you meet. Also, it's a bit awkward if you tell them all about your childhood's fears, acne struggles and undisclosed desires before you even got to know them or started dating. Be a bit of a "bad guy" (doesn't mean you should treat anyone badly, but just keep it interesting!) An attractive person has a bit of the dark side, because plain goodies are just boring.
That's my advice! I'm no expert, but I was told have an analytical mind when it comes to people's behaviour! And I had a lot of short-term dates (it's easier for a girl) So you can trust me...a bit
I know girls like bad guys who are loud fun., and who does crazy things. Unfortunately, I am not like that. I want to be always nice. It depends on a girl!! Some like bad guys and there are some who doesn't. I find loud people rather annoying ! I want a nice girl, so I am sure they will want a nice guy. I am not saying that I am boring! I like to have fun and joke around. I do have a good sense of humor. Your advice is good though!! I should be a bad guy once in a while, but I will be careful not to hurt their feeling.
Be a bit of a "bad guy" (doesn't mean you should treat anyone badly, but just keep it interesting!) An attractive person has a bit of the dark side, because plain goodies are just boring.
lol... I've heard a lot of women say that. And I still wonder exactly what they mean.
Girl: So do you have a bit of a dark side?
Guy: Uhm... I dunno.
Girl: Come on you have to be a bit of a jerk sometimes?
Guy: lol No, I can't think of anything.
Girl: Are you ever dishonest?
Girl: Have you ever been rude?
Girl: Stolen a cookie?
Girl: Thrown a puppy on the highway??
Guy: Yes, I did do that one time.
I mean... What exactly do women mean when they say a guy can't be 100% sweet or else he's boring? Could you
guys girls give examples? For instance what do some guys do that's "bad" that makes them attractive? Let me know.
If a girl thinks it is awesome for animals being abuse, I will never talk to her, ever! ^^ Sadly, this does happen.. I learned that real men don't abuse animals. So there's a good dating advice for the ladies.. not to date men who abuse animals!
I am at least 100% sweet and it is actually a good thing! People will like you and take advantage of you, Aargh!! but at least they will think that you're nice and will trust you.