Overweight women may still be HWP. I guess you are talking about the morbidly obese ones. In that case, I agree. However, I would date a woman who is a bit overweight. To this day it perplexes me how inflexible and restrictive women are when it comes to their own (long) requirements lists for men. It's like they have autism or are completely jaded or something. When I was younger my acne was more severe, but I was skinnier. I was never be able to get into a relationship so I guess that having a healthy weight and sporting all the time is not good enough for them. Being a healthy looking, highly educated, social man is insufficient. Ugliness does not exist. Beauty neither by the way. That's the reason why so-called beauty standards change all the time. What he was saying though is that he wants to date women as long as they have a healthy weight. He doesn't mind acne. Neither do I by the way and I "allow" women to be a bit overweight. Your husband is probably like us. I don't think he finds you shitty.
I did not do things personally that made you feel bad. I mean, I did not punch you into a hospital, I did not berate you for anything.... I am very nice and very honest about it. You are doing it to yourself. It is you who makes you feel bad about yourself. Do you understand that?
You are correct. Beauty standards objectively don't exist. It's all in people heads. That is not the problem by the way. The main problem is that people act on their opinions as if their opinions are facts. It's irrational and psychotic.
I am sorry, but it may never stop. I still see bullies every single day. One of the major bullies are my parents neighbours and I still visit my parents. He still treats me as I am air. They are real psychopaths. The damage can be great and permanent. I can know, I live in a mental institution.
As a heterosexual guy I can say to you that you are not ugly. I see a lot of photos and I have yet come across a girl who is ugly. That you have acne does not mean that you are ugly, okay? It just means that you have acne, a skin condition.