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#1 scarred4lyfe

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Posted 25 February 2005 - 06:34 PM

Ok...I need some advice people...There's this guy I like and I have'nt seen him in 5 mths..... back when my face had magically cleared up, now my face looks like a reck sad.gif and I'm on accutane and he keeps pushing to see me. I really do want to see him, but I'm scared 1) because my face looks like hell and 2) well every since I've went on accutane I've decided to stay abstinate but that might be threaten if I see him (if you know what I mean wink.gif ) But most of all I'm scared he might not even want to deal with me because of how I look now...So what should do...Should I just go meet him....Or avoid him like the plague? your input will be very helpful..thankyou very much

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Posted 25 February 2005 - 06:42 PM

QUOTE(scarred4lyfe @ Feb 26 2005, 12:34 AM)
Ok...I need some advice people...There's this guy I like and I have'nt seen him in  5 mths..... back when my face had magically cleared up, now my face looks like a reck sad.gif  and I'm on accutane and he keeps pushing to see me. I really do want to see him, but I'm scared 1) because my face looks like hell and 2) well every since I've went on accutane I've decided to stay abstinate but that might be threaten if I see him (if you know what I mean wink.gif ) But most of all I'm scared he might not even want to deal with me because of how I look now...So what should do...Should I just go meet him....Or avoid him like the plague? your input will be very helpful..thankyou very much


Your subtlety is great biggrin.gif
But.... Depending on how much you know him and how much he knows you, just tell him that you are uncomfortable about meeting him because of how you look... Honesty is great, and everybody likes it
Honest is the best policy, or so they say

I know you would rather be with a great person than a superficial ass, so just show up or tell him about it and he if backs off or treats you differently, then he isn't worth your time is he?

But if he doesn't care, then all is good eusa_angel.gif

About the abstinate thing.. Just tell him that you're on accutane and you don't want to have sex. again I don't know how well you know him or how long you've known him, and the direct approach I'm suggesting is best if you've known them for a while.

Just be honest and forward, and if you can't do that... Just meet him and let him find out for himself eusa_angel.gif Good luck darling *hugs*

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Posted 25 February 2005 - 06:49 PM

QUOTE(Amor Amor @ Feb 26 2005, 12:47 AM)
I'd avoid him like the Plague you dont wana make him throw up when he sees you "right". neutral.gif


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Posted 25 February 2005 - 06:50 PM

QUOTE(Amor Amor @ Feb 26 2005, 12:47 AM)
I'd avoid him like the Plague you dont wana make him throw up when he sees you "right". neutral.gif


Yeah that really made me feel better



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Posted 25 February 2005 - 06:51 PM

I'm talking to him right now....Should I tell him I'm on medication



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Posted 25 February 2005 - 06:52 PM

if you have the strength and really wan to see him, tell him how you feel and if he doesn't care, have fun!

Just be sure that while you may not turn him off by your appareance, you might still turn him off if you show high insecurity and act all awkward around him.

Please, meet him, don't let acne take that opportunity from you.

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Posted 25 February 2005 - 06:53 PM

QUOTE(scarred4lyfe @ Feb 26 2005, 12:51 AM)
I'm talking to him right now....Should I tell him I'm on medication


I, personally, think it would make you feel better if you told him you have been putting off meeting him again because you're uncomfortable with how you look and you're not sure how he would react.
He will say: "ooohhh, oyu really shouldn't have worried... I'll love/like you whether you have acne or not" or something similar, and then you will meet and have babies, and get married and live happily ever after biggrin.gif

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Posted 25 February 2005 - 06:53 PM

QUOTE(scarred4lyfe @ Feb 25 2005, 07:51 PM)
I'm talking to him right now....Should I tell him I'm on medication



you mean accutane? I dont' see why not ... just don't overtalk about it.


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Posted 25 February 2005 - 07:14 PM

QUOTE(A584537 @ Feb 26 2005, 12:53 AM)
I, personally, think it would make you feel better if you told him you have been putting off meeting him again because you're uncomfortable with how you look and you're not sure how he would react.
He will say: "ooohhh, oyu really shouldn't have worried... I'll love/like you whether you have acne or not" or something similar, and then you will meet and have babies, and get married and live happily ever after biggrin.gif

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that's sweet but I doubt it



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Posted 25 February 2005 - 07:16 PM

QUOTE(scarred4lyfe @ Feb 26 2005, 01:14 AM)
that's sweet but I doubt it


Did you tell him darling? eusa_angel.gif

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Posted 25 February 2005 - 07:27 PM

QUOTE(Amor Amor @ Feb 26 2005, 01:17 AM)
New york's tough place why dont you ask some of your gang members for advice


only an austrialian dumbass would say that...why dont I ask some of my gang members to go kick your ass... evil.gif your messing with the wrong person, take that sh*t some where else.

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Posted 25 February 2005 - 07:42 PM

It seems that Amor Amor really knows what he's talking about......

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Posted 25 February 2005 - 07:47 PM

QUOTE(Amor Amor @ Feb 26 2005, 01:37 AM)
True I ain't been to the big apple however i feel ive watched enough NYPD blue and law&order to know what im talken about. Id move to the OC CA not NY if I were you. seems noone in CA suffers acne like I didnt  see anyone on 90210 with acne... makes you wonder.



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Posted 25 February 2005 - 07:47 PM

QUOTE(Amor Amor @ Feb 26 2005, 01:37 AM)
True I ain't been to the big apple however i feel ive watched enough NYPD blue and law&order to know what im talken about. Id move to the OC CA not NY if I were you. seems noone in CA suffers acne like I didnt  see anyone on 90210 with acne... makes you wonder.



Ok...something is seriously wrong with you and since I dont wanna get kicked off this site...I'm gonna act like an adult (unlike you) and refrain from cursing you out

You've never been to NY KEY WORD... how would you like it if I passed judgements on your home when I never even been there...do you actually think your some type of expert about NEW YORK because you watch some shows...I've never heard something so dumb in my life lol.gif ....and for your information the OC and 90210 IS NOT REAL...THOSE ARE ACTORS. There paid to be beautiful...and for someone who has'nt been to california (which I have)

There are people from california who have acne...REAL PEOPLE...not characters from a tv show.... GET REAL!

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Posted 25 February 2005 - 08:24 PM

QUOTE(Amor Amor @ Feb 25 2005, 08:37 PM)
True I ain't been to the big apple however i feel ive watched enough NYPD blue and law&order to know what im talken about. Id move to the OC CA not NY if I were you. seems noone in CA suffers acne like I didnt  see anyone on 90210 with acne... makes you wonder.



eusa_clap.gif this is the silliest post I've ever read in acne.org eusa_clap.gif




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