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#1 kathryn

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Posted 16 February 2005 - 06:55 AM

k i have been thinking about this. how many girls do you see with acne? well not in my area. most guys have it. so i dunno i think its more weird to people to se girls with it

also guys with severer acne like my mates brother, he still looks dam fine with acne.

i don't know but i go to an all girls school and the girls that do have acne are all extremely mild apart from one girl..

going back 2 guys looking hot with acne... i think 1 of the reasons is one thing that makes women/girls beautiful is their skin. and most girls have to wear make up to look beautiful skinned. so im thinkin guys are generally more hot anyway anmd they dont need lovely skin to look hot. cause they are more "rough" looking if you uunderstand? i dont think im gettin my point across here well.

i just think sometimes i wish i was a guy and it might b a bit easier? i dont know but i know all u guys on here r gonna start going off on one now but what the hell...


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Posted 16 February 2005 - 07:06 AM

LOL... girls wear makeup, so it's hidden more often, prolly lending to the illusion that it's less prevelent, when it's actually not. So, seeing a girl with acne seems rare. Couple that with the fact that you are kooped-up in an all girls school and are attracted to boys is making you less picky of boys appearance right now, haha.

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Posted 16 February 2005 - 07:49 AM

QUOTE(kathryn @ Feb 16 2005, 08:55 AM)
k i have been thinking about this. how many girls do you see with acne? well not in my area. most guys have it. so i dunno i think its more weird to people to se girls with it

also guys with severer acne like my mates brother, he still looks dam fine with acne.

i don't know but i go to an all girls school and the girls that do have acne are all extremely mild apart from one girl..

going back 2 guys looking hot with acne... i think 1 of the reasons is one thing that makes women/girls beautiful is their skin. and most girls have to wear make up to look beautiful skinned. so im thinkin guys are generally more hot anyway anmd they dont need lovely skin to look hot. cause they are more "rough" looking if you uunderstand? i dont think im gettin my point across here well.

i just think sometimes i wish i was a guy and it might b a bit easier? i dont know but i know all u guys on here r gonna start going off on one now but what the hell...

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I SOOO totally feel you and i sooooo totally agreee! I was telling my male friend the other day that its more "socially acceptable" for a guy to have pimples and a bit of a pot belly. he disagrees but fact is fact at least from wat i see.

its ok for a guy to have stinky armpits or hairy legs...etc
its great to be a guy! their orgasms come easier too!!! great to be a guy....no monthly bleeding....and guys are more united than most girls. They stand by each others sides but a lot of girls tear each other apart. SIGHHHHHHHH

i've always wanted to be a male ever since i was a KID! =*(

but there are some advantages of being a lady. we get away from speeding tickets easier than guys...snort!!!! and we are better liars....snort snort....we are better cheaters too...we NEVER get caught...snort snort snort jk biggrin.gif

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Posted 16 February 2005 - 07:56 AM

I agree with you Kathryn, however, we must also consider how some guys or maybe most...are just as concerned with it as we are, and feel ashamed, horrible..etc.

Maybe it is socially more accepted but they dont see that if they feel ugly and worthless...so it all comes back to how you feel about yourself... sad.gif

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Posted 16 February 2005 - 08:00 AM

QUOTE(Ms-PiggleWiggle @ Feb 16 2005, 06:49 AM)
but there are some advantages of being a lady. we get away from speeding tickets easier than guys...snort!!!!  and we are better liars....snort snort....we are beat cheaters too...we NEVER get caught...snort snort snort  jk biggrin.gif

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Wow, that's one hell of a list of virtues you've listed there! eusa_sick.gif

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Posted 16 February 2005 - 08:09 AM

QUOTE(adultAcne @ Feb 16 2005, 10:00 AM)
Wow, that's one hell of a list of virtues you've listed there!  eusa_sick.gif

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Seriously though as bad as that sounds....the majority automatically link cheaters with MEN...but studies have shown that 8/9 women out of 10 cheats BUT just never get caught. Sounds funny but.....i only have like 3 female friends and 2 out of 3 are cheaters....sad shit

guys...a word of advice just because you guys are my pimple comrades........
dont think your girl is as innocent as you percieve them to be.

Lemme tell you, i've got the innocent looks that can get away with murder and I AM the worst of the worst cheaters....im not particularily proud of it but i think its a serious mental illness...like gambling or drinking addictions...boohoo ninja.gif

i think the best way to keep me from cheating is to seriously lock me up or have my bf chain us together. I seriously need a babysitter OR a CHASTITY BELT!


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Posted 16 February 2005 - 09:11 AM

That sucks...

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Posted 16 February 2005 - 09:20 AM

Believe me i envy girls being able to wear makeup...

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Posted 16 February 2005 - 09:39 AM

Could be true, but I've seen plenty of girls with acne that were friggin beautiful. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.....

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Posted 16 February 2005 - 12:27 PM

QUOTE(Ms-PiggleWiggle @ Feb 16 2005, 07:09 AM)
Seriously though as bad as that sounds....the majority automatically link cheaters with MEN...but studies have shown that 8/9 women out of 10 cheats BUT just never get caught. Sounds funny but.....i only have like 3 female friends and 2 out of 3 are cheaters....sad shit

guys...a word of advice just because you guys are my pimple comrades........
dont think your girl is as innocent as you percieve them to be.

Lemme tell you, i've got the innocent looks that can get away with murder and I AM the worst of the worst cheaters....im not particularily proud of it but i think its a serious mental illness...like gambling or drinking addictions...boohoo ninja.gif

i think the best way to keep me from cheating is to seriously lock me up or have my bf chain us together. I seriously need a babysitter OR a CHASTITY BELT!
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Hmmm, we should start a new thread about this in the Lounge. I'd like to know if you do this because you are unsatisfied with your mate because you haven't gotten a level of intimacy that you need, or if it's just out of excitement, or revenge, or you are simply a nympho, or what. I have nothing against women who love sex and want to sow their wild oats as long as they don't lead some poor guy on. You can get all the sex you want and be as promiscuous as you want without the need to break someone's heart. That's really quite cruel. But, don't let my saying that "it's cruel" keep you from being as honest as you have already been.

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Posted 16 February 2005 - 12:28 PM

This topic is posted like once a week.

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Posted 16 February 2005 - 12:34 PM

funny I read that females are the majority suffering with acne. I think it was in the USA or World Wide I am not sure, but yeah.

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Posted 16 February 2005 - 12:37 PM

QUOTE(adultAcne @ Feb 16 2005, 06:27 PM)
Hmmm, we should start a new thread about this in the Lounge.  I'd like to know if you do this because you are unsatisfied with your mate because you haven't gotten a level of intimacy that you need, or if it's just out of excitement, or revenge, or you are simply a nympho, or what.  I have nothing against women who love sex and want to sow their wild oats as long as they don't lead some poor guy on.  You can get all the sex you want and be as promiscuous as you want without the need to break someone's heart.  That's really quite cruel.  But, don't let my saying that "it's cruel" keep you from being as honest as you have already been.

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I agree.
Cheating is the lowest of the low. And if the guy's in love, it'll rip him apart in a way you can probably never imagine. I'd also like to know the reason why..

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Posted 16 February 2005 - 12:51 PM

QUOTE(adultAcne @ Feb 16 2005, 02:27 PM)
Hmmm, we should start a new thread about this in the Lounge.  I'd like to know if you do this because you are unsatisfied with your mate because you haven't gotten a level of intimacy that you need, or if it's just out of excitement, or revenge, or you are simply a nympho, or what.  I have nothing against women who love sex and want to sow their wild oats as long as they don't lead some poor guy on.  You can get all the sex you want and be as promiscuous as you want without the need to break someone's heart.  That's really quite cruel.  But, don't let my saying that "it's cruel" keep you from being as honest as you have already been.

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i am going to keep it real...theres no need for me to act all prissy and nun-ish...i love sex and its an outlet for me....orgasms are my pinnacle of happiness! im am a...nympho...sex crazed.....sexaholic...horndog...watever u wanna call me but please don't be judgemental and call me a slut or watever...its ok if u disagree but don't disrespect. thats all i ask!

honestly..i think it's cuz im a nympho..its never enough.....then the guy goes limp stick becuz of all that pressure of "satisfying my libido"...limp stick= cheating........
guys think their "tongues" are enough...yes i admit...for a bit..BUT afterawhile.....still leads to cheating...

honestly...i dont wanna hurt people and i never like to hurt the innocent....

i dont kno wats my damn problem....like i said it might be a disorder!
i swear..u might think im a bitch and a cold hearted snake ..yada yada...but if u know any of my friends..they'd tell you im the sweetest thing...

its like i've got noooooo guilty conscientious wat so ever when it comes to cheating.......i cant access the lounge

but getting back to acne...i got a new one forming today...booooo!!!

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Posted 16 February 2005 - 12:58 PM

I agree. It is more socially acceptable for a guy to have acne, it's still not very acceptable at all though.

I see girls with acne pretty often actually. But then again I live in a big city. I rarely see girls with severe acne though. I've seen quite a few guys with severe acne.

You don't really want to be a guy though, the grass is always greener on the other side. I could say I wish I were a girl because I'd be more socially acceptable to open up to people or be able to give birth. Name one woman who'd trade their baby for the pain they receieve during childbirth or having their menstrual cycles. You should always be happy to be who you are, male or female. biggrin.gif

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Posted 16 February 2005 - 01:11 PM

QUOTE(Ms-PiggleWiggle @ Feb 16 2005, 11:51 AM)
i am going to keep it real...theres no need for me to act all prissy and nun-ish...i love sex and its an outlet for me....orgasms are my pinnacle of happiness! im am a...nympho...sex crazed.....sexaholic...horndog...watever u wanna call me but please don't be judgemental and call me a slut or watever...its ok if u disagree but don't disrespect.  thats all i ask!

honestly..i think it's cuz im  a nympho..its never enough.....then the guy goes limp stick becuz of all that pressure of "satisfying my libido"...limp stick= cheating........
guys think their "tongues" are enough...yes i admit...for a bit..BUT afterawhile.....still leads to cheating...

honestly...i dont wanna hurt people and i never like to hurt the innocent....

i dont kno wats my damn problem....like i said it might be a disorder!
i swear..u might think im a bitch and a cold hearted snake ..yada yada...but if u know any of my friends..they'd tell you im the sweetest thing...

its like i've got noooooo guilty conscientious wat so ever when it comes to cheating.......i cant access the lounge

but getting back to acne...i got a new one forming today...booooo!!!

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You can access the Lounge by typing in the password mentioned in the description. You might have to make sure cookies are enabled in your browser. But, don't fuss too much about that. We can keep it real in here or you can PM me.

I don't judge your sexual appetite. I can assure you of that. I just think that if your BF starts to fall in love with you hard, then get rid of him before he gets hurt. So, you have no guilty conscience what so ever? Is it because you guys really aren't that deeply in love you so probably think that if he finds out then he really won't be that hurt? (How old are you?) Or, do you just feel like you are very good at keeping it secret and that what he does't know won't hurt him? Are you just sorta shopping around for a guy that can satisfy you without the performance anxiety and you'll dump him after you find a better partner? I suspect if you found a real stallion then you would prolly stop cheating and wouldn't want to risk loosing him if it was sexual satisfaction that you really are looking for. Unless, you also like the danger or sneekiness of cheating and feel you would also cheat on the stallion even if the other guy was less satisfying.

I'm so curious! eusa_drool.gif Thanks!

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Posted 16 February 2005 - 01:14 PM

QUOTE(kathryn @ Feb 16 2005, 12:55 PM)
k i have been thinking about this. how many girls do you see with acne? well not in my area. most guys have it. so i dunno i think its more weird to people to se girls with it

also guys with severer acne like my mates brother, he still looks dam fine with acne.

i don't know but i go to an all girls school and the girls that do have acne are all extremely mild apart from one girl..

going back 2 guys looking hot with acne... i think 1 of the reasons is one thing that makes women/girls beautiful is their skin. and most girls have to wear make up to look beautiful skinned. so im thinkin guys are generally more hot anyway anmd they dont need lovely skin to look hot. cause they are more "rough" looking if you uunderstand? i dont think im gettin my point across here well.

i just think sometimes i wish i was a guy and it might b a bit easier? i dont know but i know all u guys on here r gonna start going off on one now but what the hell...

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i didnt realise this was the case, but hop it is biggrin.gif i would love to think acne doesnt change womens opinion of me.

ive had many hot girlfriends with acne, it didnt change anything and really doesnt bother me...

there was actually a poll circulating around about how a girls view would change over men with acne and most said they would date anyone with anything more than mild acne!!!!! bloody women.

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Posted 16 February 2005 - 01:25 PM

QUOTE(OnlyJoe @ Feb 16 2005, 03:14 PM)
i didnt realise this was the case, but hop it is biggrin.gif i would love to think acne doesnt change womens opinion of me.

ive had many hot girlfriends with acne, it didnt change anything and really doesnt bother me...

there was actually a poll circulating around about how a girls view would change over men with acne and most said they would date anyone with anything more than mild acne!!!!! bloody women.

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did you mean wouldn't date?

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Posted 16 February 2005 - 01:28 PM

yeah, thats what i meant eusa_doh.gif

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Posted 16 February 2005 - 01:56 PM

QUOTE(OnlyJoe @ Feb 16 2005, 01:14 PM)
there was actually a poll circulating around about how a girls view would change over men with acne and most said they would date anyone with anything more than mild acne!!!!! bloody women.

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