34 replies to this topic

[Melchior]

If no girls are looking at you maybe they aren't interested in you.

Bingo! But this I knew already.

[jan carlo]

I've been observing people who are chick magnet. One of the reasons why they're a chick magnet is because they are cocky+funny, and have a lot of confidence. But really, it's all cocky+funny.

also, i read it on a book somewhere.

...But, if we acne sufferers become cocky, we would get bad faces from them, ie, "what the hell is up with that pizza face? he thinks he's all this and all that. he's sooo ugly, ugh!"

but if you become cocky, plus funny at the same phrase, then you won't get much negatives and girls would like you, but not guys because guys would not see the funny side, just the cocky side.

the thing is, it's hard for me to do that: cocky+funny. i'm not creative enough.

[Pika]

Girls dont want wussies with only the sweetside and that drool all over them, they want a challenge.. something cheap = low value
so thats how its seen

[Maceintheeye]

everyone on this site talks about scoring chicks as if anybody knows what the hell there talkin about. Im not saying im a pro either but woman are not trophies, shit. There is more important things in life to worry about.

[RayRay]

Im a female and it's hard being with a guy with perfect skin. I think he has gotten like 2 zits in the 2 years we've been together. He never washes his face or does anything to it (besides wear SPF because he's had skin cancer) He battled acne tho a few years ago (before we met, so he sympathizes) but ive never had it bad enough where it interefers with my life. I think its easier on a girl because we can cover it, that has saved me over the years.
All i can say is be yourself because you dont want someone to be wtih you for looks anyway, that would mean she was shallow and not worth it!

[Pika]

noones as shallow as you think they are, thats just an excuse for not looking good imho..

people just want to be attracted to other people, and sometimes with acne they cant be

[scarred4lyfe]

confidence!

Yup...good advice...girls love a confident man..well most of them...well I do...plus a guy who who can make you laugh...that's a BIG plus.

[LuDamnion]

funny thing: this girl liked me that i knew from high school. i hadnt seen here for almost a year, and since that time i got bad acne. She wanted to come visit, and i was hella nerveous. But....everything turned out great! for a while that is. she later became weird and what not, and i didnt wanna play games blah blah blah...but the point is.....there are girls that are looking for something. Some need a relationship, some need friendship, some need to relieve sexual frustration. I mean this happens to all girls (alllll girls), although girls being girls, they'll never tell you that upfront. So honestly, i think it comes down to meeting ppl first, establish friendships, and most importantly: every girl needs something, so find out and make it happen.

Thats my two cents for the day.

[adultAcne]

You have a great name Ashley and, if that's you in your avatar, you're gorgeous

Dude, are you here to pick-up chicks?

http://www.match.com

[hazelnut66]

i always feel like no1 could ever accept it or me, even though i know i would never turn down some1 for that. it's like the people with acne are a whole different race, god i hate it.

[Oneoftheguys]

A gf is off limits to every boy with acne IMO seriously its a sickness

Bullshit. That's only true for you because you believe it.

[Miissty]

As far as getting a gf while you have acne.. My daughter (16) has it .. and so does her BF (16) They both understand what its like...