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#1 limpbizkitfan

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Posted 05 February 2012 - 08:08 AM

I am under soooo soo soo much stress because of acne. It's all I have been thinking about. I'm scared to eat because of breakouts and im scared to not eat because i dont want to be anorexic but i don't have any healthy food to eat at home, it's all unhealthy so i don't know what i am gonna do. I even thought of going to the grocery store to steal food lol. I also thought of going to the store and stealing acne medication because I have no money and desperately want my acne gone. But I won't do that since it's illegal but, I will admit that it has crossed my mind. I might just steal money from my family members instead because all i care about is getting clear, it's like a drug addiction...I'm addicted to acne treatments and will do anything to get it.

If I was rich I could buy all the organic food i need, and acne products I want. But my parents don't want to buy healthy food AT ALLLL...All there is right now is eggos, pop tarts, rice krispies, and rice, bread, and milk. theres noooooo vegetables at all, and no almond milk. Perfect recipe for acne!

I don't have the money to buy vitamins and can't go in a job interview because of my acne. It's like a cycle. And my parents are threatening to kick me outta the house when i am 18 if i dont find a job soon...urggh.

It's sooo frustrating...I don't even care that I feel ugly all the time, it's just that acne is STRESSFUL and makes me want to pull my hair out because every pimple leaves a red mark or scar and the longer i have acne the longer I miss out on life. I feel like my life is gonna pass me by and before i know it I'm gonna get be old and NEVER get to experience clear skin.
I just want acne gone so I can start my life but I don't have the money to get clear. What should I do?

Acne is making me so stressed out that I can't go to sleep at night. It's 6:08 a.m. and I am still awake thanks to the psycological tourment of acne :((((

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Posted 05 February 2012 - 08:29 AM

Relax! There's no sense in adding stress and anxiety about diet to your stress and anxiety about acne. Won't do you any good and doesn't address either situation. Where your diet is concerned, I'd certainly suggest talking to your parents about it if you haven't already done so and explaining why you'd like to alter your diet in order that it be more skin-friendly.

Although my situation is a little different, I can kind of relate. I'm unemployed at the moment and my parents do the bulk of the food shopping. Given that I'm not contributing as much money to the household as I was when I was unemployed, I'm not buying as much of my own food as I used to. So because I'm eating what my parents buy as well, I get whatever I'm given. But when I found out about intolerances I have and that there were things in my diet that triggered my acne, I explained it to my parents and asked that they not buy me those certain things. I provided them with alternative options that were easily accessible so that they didn't have to go out of their way. Fast-forward and, having seen the results the diet changes have made to my skin, they can quite blatantly see the difference it's made and the difference they're helping me make.
Obviously, I don't know your situation and how well you get on with your parents, etc., but perhaps a similar approach might help your cause. Regardless, it's not worth getting yourself so worked up about and you certainly shouldn't lose sleep over it.

In terms of practical steps when changing your diet, it doesn't have to be drastic and certainly doesn't have to be expensive. In fact, sometimes it's more about what you take out than what you put in. It sucks that, generally speaking, fresh fruit and vegetables seem to cost more money than junk food. That just seems to be the way these days. But if you can shop around and work out what's affordable, you could perhaps come up with ideas that are within your parents financial means.

The most important thing is to not get obsessed about it all. Be practical. I know that sometimes it seems easier to freak out and essentially be somewhat irrational about it - I did that for years! - but it doesn't get you anywhere. It's a waste of energy too because the reality is that the smaller practical changes have a far better positive influence on your skin, your health and your mental-well being. Once you start turning that cycle around it becomes positive, things get better and better, trust me on that. Don't let all this negativity and panic rule your thoughts so much, see if you can calm yourself down and worry about it less. Take your mind off your skin too, distract yourself with things you enjoy doing and see if you focus on happier things a bit more.

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Posted 05 February 2012 - 09:09 AM

limpbizkitfan, on 05 February 2012 - 08:08 AM, said:

I am under soooo soo soo much stress because of acne. It's all I have been thinking about. I'm scared to eat because of breakouts and im scared to not eat because i dont want to be anorexic but i don't have any healthy food to eat at home, it's all unhealthy so i don't know what i am gonna do. I even thought of going to the grocery store to steal food lol. I also thought of going to the store and stealing acne medication because I have no money and desperately want my acne gone. But I won't do that since it's illegal but, I will admit that it has crossed my mind. I might just steal money from my family members instead because all i care about is getting clear, it's like a drug addiction...I'm addicted to acne treatments and will do anything to get it.

If I was rich I could buy all the organic food i need, and acne products I want. But my parents don't want to buy healthy food AT ALLLL...All there is right now is eggos, pop tarts, rice krispies, and rice, bread, and milk. theres noooooo vegetables at all, and no almond milk. Perfect recipe for acne!

I don't have the money to buy vitamins and can't go in a job interview because of my acne. It's like a cycle. And my parents are threatening to kick me outta the house when i am 18 if i dont find a job soon...urggh.

It's sooo frustrating...I don't even care that I feel ugly all the time, it's just that acne is STRESSFUL and makes me want to pull my hair out because every pimple leaves a red mark or scar and the longer i have acne the longer I miss out on life. I feel like my life is gonna pass me by and before i know it I'm gonna get be old and NEVER get to experience clear skin.
I just want acne gone so I can start my life but I don't have the money to get clear. What should I do?

Acne is making me so stressed out that I can't go to sleep at night. It's 6:08 a.m. and I am still awake thanks to the psycological tourment of acne Posted Image(((

Look, you don't have to be rich. I make $160 a week and I spend all that on organic foods. I use aloe vera (fresh) and Dr.Bronner soap for my skin which helps.
To me, eating healthy is important so I spend my whole paycheck on foods. I live with parents and I know I won't be able to live with them for ever, so I am in college to have a better future.. a good job, etc.. to buy my own house, buy organic foods, etc. I bet you're young.. so don't worry. Go to school and get a part-time job and stay with your parents. Posted Image Don't let dead skin with spots control your life!! Don't think about acne and move on! be happy. This worked for me.


PS: APPLY for foodstamps. You may be eligible. If you explain all that to them, they will give you foodstamps very fast. I have foodstamps of $170 a month. It is worth a try. Are you over 18?

Edited by EddieE, 05 February 2012 - 09:15 AM.


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Posted 05 February 2012 - 01:15 PM

Why are you so opposed to getting a job? You could try and think of jobs that have little to no customer interaction. I worked at a dry cleaners once ironing clothes and all the sweating seemed to be good for me and places like that hire so quickly bc ppl hate ironing clothes all day lol. I never ever had to deal with customers, just me and the employees. Maybe a job where you make phone calls? Or when a store closes unloading trucks and putting stuff on the shelves (dont know if a 3rd shift would interfere..idk if ur still in school?) Idk Im sure the paper would have lots of good ideas. But even if you told them part time. Idk even if you was able to make an extra $50 a week. Just imagine that you went for it, and the end result of that extra money ended up helping you get clear or clearer, wouldnt you be happy you did it? Sometimes when we want something, we are the only ones who can go and get it. We have to stand up and take control of what we want. Plus, it would get your mind off your acne for at least a little time.

Also, did either of your parents have acne at your age and what age did they say it went away?




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