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1) works
2) is not super expensive
3) is reasonable ( eatting just fruit is not reasonable)
I also keep getting conflicting views:
!) dairy is bad but probiotics are good and in dairy
2) meat is good- paleo diet/ meat is bad- vegan diet
3) soy/dairy/almonds all bad = then what am I supposed to drink with my coffee?
4) meat/soy/wheat/beans= all bad = what are you to eat as a protein
5)fruit is bad /fruit is good
All I can do is answer as somoene who cleared my own skin through diet, but of course your mileage may vary...
1) What works for you is going to be unique. But you can start by eliminating basic foods that are bad for everyone, such as dairy, soy and gluten. These foods are nothing your body needs so you won't be losing anything. From there, you can try different things and figure out what works for you. It's a learning process and no one can give you exact answers, unfortunately. But those foods certainly are not helping anything.
2) I'm not sure what to say about that because the fact is, healthy whole foods ARE expensive. It will especially seem so if you've had a diet of ramen noodles and cereal (or any other cheap processed food) at any point. I wish it wasn't that way, believe me. My boyfriend and I struggle to make ends meet and we spend about 500$ a month on food between the both of us. Life is just a struggle sometimes. Certain foods are cheaper than others of course, but if you want to eat as healthy as possible, be prepared to spend some money on it. Think of it this way, the healthier you are the less illnesses you'll have in the future, so on a long term it pays for itself. Getting a lot of illnesses in your 40's and 50's and constantly needing doctors could add up to cost a lot more than the good food.
3) I don't really know your definition of "reasonable"... you've stated one thing that isn't reasonable to you, but as far as I know you might consider my diet unreasonable *the diet that cleared my skin--no dairy, no soy, no grains, no gluten, no corn, and high raw, mostly salads, fruit, veggies, and a little meat*... All I can say is if you're looking to change your life, and your skin, you might need to be open minded about what is reasonable or not...
4) Dairy is bad. Some people eat it, that's their choice, but there is plenty of evidence out there that dairy isn't a great food for anyone. Some people think raw dairy is okay, and I'll agree it's healthier overall but unfortunately it still broke me out. If you feel you need dairy, I'd say do raw dairy or none at all. And watch yourself to see if it breaks you out. But if it does, or if you just don't want to eat it, there are probiotics in other foods besides dairy.
Kimchi is an excellent source. We eat it every day and it does wonders. Alternavista posted some awesome kimchi recipies (and other probiotic, non dairy foods) if you search her posts I'm sure you can find it. There's also kombucha tea, saurcraut (can't spell that sorry), and kefir made from water or juice instead of milk.
5) I've heard of very few people reacting to meat. I sometimes react to chicken, but I think it has more to do with what kind of chicken it is and what it was fed while alive. Meat is generally considered healthy on acne diets. Understand that a lot of times when people try and make you believe that meat is an unhealthy food they have other motives (like animal rights). I recommend that people eat quality meat in their diet because we need good protein and it helps you keep the weight on and be strong.
6) I've never heard of almonds being bad... almonds are generally a healthy food. Unless you notice an allergic reaction from them, you should eat them. As for coffee, personally I stopped drinking it because it was too irritating to my stomach and the caffeine didn't make me feel good. And when I drank it, I preferred it black. So maybe try drinking it black with some honey mixed in, or use coconut milk creamer which they have at whole foods and other grocery stores and is very yummy.
7) Like I said, I use small (key word, small--like a fist sized portion maybe 2x a week) amounts of red meat to make sure I'm getting all the protein I need, but for the most part I rely on plant based foods, which have lots of different amino acids in them. If you eat a lot of different fruits and veggies you are getting the aminos you need. Small portions of meat only help make that better. Definitely stay away from wheat and soy, those foods are totally toxic. As for beans, I eat them, but I don't think they are the healthiest thing on earth. They don't cause me breakouts but they are quite heavy and acidic feeling in my gut. I'm trying to cut back on how much I eat, because I started eating them more as a matter of convienience and not health. As always, test for yourself to see how things effect you.
Good luck!