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and there is where you want to be, and what you want your life to be like, nobody else is 100% aware of where you want to be unless you tell them, well, hopefully you know yourself, because that is your job, and your right to choose and no one else's. And no one can fully tell you where you want to be, only you are aware of your true desires, only you can become aware of those, so its up to you.
so then if this life of yours is all up to you, then you can see how every minute of everyday the choices you make either are increaseing the chances of that life you want, actually coming true.so ask yourself OFTEN (since you are in charge of these dreams)whether you are either getting closer or further away from that dream, and what you could do to learn what it would take. Perhaps now you can really feel as if you are in control of your destiny if you really get into this mindset, you will make or break these dream of yours, if you decide to sit on your But, or drift off on another activity. Since this vision is YOUR job, assess yourself on how well of a job you are doing today at getting closer to that life? it may be easy as hell to predict your future.
if you are going to be afraid, it wont happen.
if you are going to pout or sulk it wont happen. but of course times get tough for anyone, allow yourself to pout, but for only five minutes
if you give up, it wont happen.
all of these decisions that are in your control at any given time of the day,if not done right, will surely guaranty failure, since you control them and they are up to you, dont make these mistakes. of course, some of your dreams might not happen, but in the end, make sure it wasnt anything YOU did wrong, PROMISE yourself you will do your part in life, and say, I DID MY PART and didnt f#$k it up. Trust me, many people will NOT be doing their part in making your dreams come true, hahaha, but remember, it wasnt their job in the first place. you know what they say, i fyou want something done right or even done at all, you may have to do it yourself, im not saying you cant ask for help, or that nobody will ever help you, only that, it isnt their job or responsibility, so dont give it to them, they might mess it up.
its good to feel like you are in control of something in your life,when we have a hard time controlling anything and im here to tell you that you do have control of something.
so what kind of boss are you gonna be? perhaps you will change a few aspects of your personality, when you take full responsibility for your future and your life, and finally feel in control again, like you have power over this life.
hope this helps someone/everyone.
Edited by AutonomousOne1980, 11 January 2012 - 10:20 PM.
