hi americaninparis,
sounds so great for you
yes...this weather is doing a bit of problems for us...the same in london. it´s not only the cold weather ( i actually enjoy having cold wind on my burning face) but the temperature changes...from warm to cold and from cold to warm....dry air etc...it freaks my skin out with irritation too.
with the dryness: i realised (lots of unvoluntary selftests

) that not only fat can help but actual moist/water as well...as jojobaoil might get the flakes under control but sometimes it doesn´t really give the moist the skin is screaming for. i think it´s down to the dry air at the moment. there is no water in the air...the heated rooms are super dry...so you might consider moisturise your face maybe a bit more...not as much as me

but maybe more to get some fluid back.
i know your feelings about picking and popping a pimple...
it was so bad yesterday for me: my pusfilled spots nearly bursted and started to really hurt...and is was so hard to not pop them...
BUT i must say that sometimes people don´t think about one thing when they say: don´t pop, the pus goes everywhere and infects other areas etc...yes...this is true BUT i made an experiment now (unvoluntary again

).
i didn´t pop any of my pimples for nearly all of those weeks now. some where so big that they actually broke into pieces when i washed them or slept at nighttime...and what did these spots do? of course the gave my face the full loaded amount of pus i couldn´t have dreamt of if i had actually popped it

so i was actually either moisturising/moving the pus around my face or sleeping on/in it
AND the other thing i noticed: unpopped pimples stay longer and leave more marks then popped ones...i have no idea why but i noticed this now very very much!
so i personally think: if the pus-pimple is so big that it is surely breaking with your next wash or while you are sleeping and accidently touched your pillow with your face> you rather pop it and have at least a little bit control over the pus and where its going AND you can desinfect it ...then sleeping on your open pimple all night and wonder why this area has new other pimples around it.
you see: i´m still wondering and experimenting until i find my own little way of dealing with things!
i can immagine (bytheway) that you miss your boyfriend. i had this when i didn´t shared a flat with him. it is a very lonely feeling when the partner is not around...i hope your partner comes back soon!!!
keep up the good work!!!