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[JPizzle]

i hate when i hear my sister tal;k about all the gosip with her friends and and my cousins. sometiems im included but i feel so left out. thats not just it, i have no game with the ladies. i have NO idea how to approach them or whats the first thing to say. its so weird, all the males seem to like me (non gay way) but i never know what to say to a girl, literally, whats the first thing i say? a corny pickup line to get her laughing? im a funny kid but i get so nervous talking to any girl. i always wondered how a couple hookup. god, im sad. i just want a girl

[Elsewhere]

That's a tough place to be in, but you're not alone! So many of us feel like we haven't got a clue one of what to do when talking to someone of the oppisiste sex. I've found a compliment helps get things going - not "hey, nice shoes, wanna fuck?" kind of compliment, but a "Nice earrings, where did you get them?" sort of thing can often open a person up to a naturual sounding conversation.

[santacruz]

Start by reading this book:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Game:_Pen..._Pickup_Artists

And then work your way from there.

[funnyjimmy]

okay my friend reads all those pick up books and he always asks funny questions!
i.e
'hey can i ask you a quick question- you know my little pony's? my friend and i are having an argument over whether they had special powers or not? i thought they could only fly and that was it?

'do you think david bowie is hot? my niece wants a poster of his for her birthday but i'm not sure whther this is appropriate for a 7 year old to be attracted to an 57 year old guy who used to dress up like a div when he was ziggy stardust!'

then a conversation can begin. its called an indirect opener apparently.

he always says that he is just being sociable just meeting new people and starting conversations, it's no big deal. some girls must be so used to loads of guys coming up tp them saying 'hey get your coat you've pulled' or 'hey there hotty whats your number' that they will be relieved to just have a conversation with an interesting outgoing person who is not a jock jerk off!

i do not put any of this advice into my own life though!

[Buku Ramandooku]

i hate when i hear my sister tal;k about all the gosip with her friends and and my cousins. sometiems im included but i feel so left out. thats not just it, i have no game with the ladies. i have NO idea how to approach them or whats the first thing to say. its so weird, all the males seem to like me (non gay way) but i never know what to say to a girl, literally, whats the first thing i say? a corny pickup line to get her laughing? im a funny kid but i get so nervous talking to any girl. i always wondered how a couple hookup. god, im sad. i just want a girl

do you want a girlfriend or a one nighter? tell me that any my advice will change...

[TheFallen41]

"I just want a girl"? Go get one, whats the difference between talking with guys and girls? There is none... just act like your talking to one of your good friends. But make sure you keep eye contact, if your comfortable hopefully they will end up being comfortable.

[santacruz]

"I just want a girl"? Go get one, whats the difference between talking with guys and girls? There is none... just act like your talking to one of your good friends. But make sure you keep eye contact, if your comfortable hopefully they will end up being comfortable.

Wow, what great advice...

[JPizzle]

"I just want a girl"? Go get one, whats the difference between talking with guys and girls? There is none... just act like your talking to one of your good friends. But make sure you keep eye contact, if your comfortable hopefully they will end up being comfortable.

is there any difference fromt talking to a guy then a girl?

[Buku Ramandooku]

so do you want a date or a hook up?

[TheFallen41]

"I just want a girl"? Go get one, whats the difference between talking with guys and girls? There is none... just act like your talking to one of your good friends. But make sure you keep eye contact, if your comfortable hopefully they will end up being comfortable.

Wow, what great advice...

I know eh? I think the best part about it is that it contributed to the topic.

[sweetheart519]

"I just want a girl"? Go get one, whats the difference between talking with guys and girls? There is none... just act like your talking to one of your good friends. But make sure you keep eye contact, if your comfortable hopefully they will end up being comfortable.

is there any difference fromt talking to a guy then a girl?

Ok boys..yes, there is a difference in talking to a girl vs. talking to your buddies! Let me give you an example. You wouldn't go up to a girl and say, "what's up homeboy!" or joke about your bodily functions or what not. When we are upset, we don't want a pat on the back and a "get over it" like you might do with your guys. In other words, remember that we are girls and we don't like your grossness, we need sensitivity to an extent, and a lot of us are turned off by excessive cussing. But other than that, yes you are just talking to another person. No real difference. Maybe a good analogy is, talking to a girl you just met is like talking to a work colleague. Keep it clean and appropriate, be friendly, don't be obscene.

[Alona]

all the males seem to like me (non gay way) but i never know what to say to a girl

Haha, you have the same problem as me, 95% of my friends are male. Honestly, the best way to talk to girls is to just be friendly, talk about generic things, TV, video games, music, don't try to talk about girly stuff that you have no clue about or guy stuff (like sports) which will just bore them. You might actually get lucky and find a girl like me, who fits good with guys, then you'll have a double agent who can help you out .

[Chrisg133]

I love giving advice for this, because i'm in the same boat just a little bit ahead on the river. Okay here's what i did at first i had a lot of inner issues to deal with and correct:
First of all before even approaching her. Establish a Non-needy/desparate attitude:
1.Learn to expect and love rejection: Oh yes you will be rejected, it hurts but so what, move on.

2.Don't be needy: you don't need her. be willing to move on and walk away, at any negative behaver she shows you. Don't linger and take things personally. Indifferce is your friend.

3.Don't be clingy:If she gets up to move away, don't follow her like a dog. If she goes to the bathroom don't be there where she left you. Don't call her 10 times a day.

4.Don't jump through her hoops, replace them with yours: Some girls do and say stuff to test if your a wimp. Ever buy a drink for a girl, only to have her take off, give you a fake number or flake on you. Keep favors to a minimum. Don't play her game, play yours.

5.Put a price on yourself: Your the prize.Your funny and fun guy. Your the prize. Not her. Have her work to win you. Understand you have value, your shit aint for free. Never convey lower value to her.

6.Read http://www.fastseduction.com/guide/ read The basics, how to handle girls, and troubleshooting first. Then read the rest.

Go youtube look up mystery method on Pre-selection
Once you start adopting alpha behaviors, she will find you more attractive reguardless of looks

[incognit0]

i hate when i hear my sister tal;k about all the gosip with her friends and and my cousins. sometiems im included but i feel so left out. thats not just it, i have no game with the ladies. i have NO idea how to approach them or whats the first thing to say. its so weird, all the males seem to like me (non gay way) but i never know what to say to a girl, literally, whats the first thing i say? a corny pickup line to get her laughing? im a funny kid but i get so nervous talking to any girl. i always wondered how a couple hookup. god, im sad. i just want a girl

There are a lot of books on this subject. Check amazon and get a bunch. Some are good and some are lousy.

Be confident--a little cocky and funny, they all say. Never seem desperate. Always be willing to walk. Don't take any shit. Never put the p**** on a pedestal. Good sense of humor is key. Strive to be an alpha male. Stay in control, the ball must always be in your court. Never appear too eager. And nice guys finish last.

Don't get friend zoned. Make them laugh but don't be a comedian.

[Jaxin]

....for reals dude, just fart in front of them.It works everytime for me.

[Chrisg133]

....for reals dude, just fart in front of them.It works everytime for me.

Yes, then wink at her. And walk away confidently. If that don't work try to cup your fart and throw a ryu haddooken! at her. That really melts girls hearts.

[Jaxin]

....for reals dude, just fart in front of them.It works everytime for me.

Yes, then wink at her. And walk away confidently. If that don't work try to cup your fart and throw a ryu haddooken! at her. That really melts girls hearts.

^ absolutely my friend. Oh and we call that a "buttercup" in Cali.

[omarrana]

lol all the advices can work and u might get into conversation too, but then all ov a sudden u will realise she is giving u wierd looks..lol thats where i step back..

[Braver-man]

They are not gods. Some guys seem to have fear of woman, like they were some religious sacred thing that you must approach carefully because you may die if do something wrong or even talk to them.

Just think like that and you will start talking to them and behaving normally around them.

[JPizzle]

They are not gods. Some guys seem to have fear of woman, like they were some religious sacred thing that you must approach carefully because you may die if do something wrong or even talk to them.

Just think like that and you will start talking to them and behaving normally around them.

good idea! im gonna use that mindset