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A Woman's Opinion Please?

Posted by Mitch P, 21 July 2013 · 505 views

A Woman's Opinion Please? Calling all women out there, I have moderate acne and am pushing 20 years old soon. I want to date a certain girl, but would it be better to wait till my face clears up? By then it might be too late cause who knows how long that will take! Would you be willing to overlook some acne if it would be a great relationship? Post any thoughts please.

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if the girl gives you grief about your acne then she isn't worth your time as blunt as that sounds. if she's going to be immature and let SUPERFICIAL imperfections get in the way of a meaningful relationship then forget about her. sorry if I sound crabby, it just annoys me just thinking about how there are people out there who actually are this shallow.

 

my boyfriend knew me when I had my worst breakouts and that didn't stop him from asking me out. now that I'm 98% clear, he doesn't treat me any differently. he has always treated me amazingly - breakouts or not.

if the girl gives you grief about your acne then she isn't worth your time as blunt as that sounds. if she's going to be immature and let SUPERFICIAL imperfections get in the way of a meaningful relationship then forget about her. sorry if I sound crabby, it just annoys me just thinking about how there are people out there who actually are this shallow.

 

my boyfriend knew me when I had my worst breakouts and that didn't stop him from asking me out. now that I'm 98% clear, he doesn't treat me any differently. he has always treated me amazingly - breakouts or not.

 

My boyfriend is the same way!  He always says I'm beautiful no matter how my skin is doing :)  Sometimes I think he's crazy, but the truth is that we're all way more self-conscious about our acne than we should be.  When I see attractive people with acne, they're still extremely attractive.  It really doesn't matter, especially because it's a human condition; we all have it at some point in our lives.  So I totally agree, if this girl cares about your acne then she's not worth it.  Remember though that with or without acne, confidence is key.  If you have breakouts but let your awesome personality and smile shine through, she won't care at all. Good luck!

Agree with both of them^^
Thanks everybody!

You look pretty good to me! Remember that confidence and being positive are the best aphrodisiacs. Go for it! 

Don't wait. If she's worth dating, she'll see past a little acne.

Going on a date tomorrow night, thanks for all the advice!